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Guys-how would you react/feel if your girlfriend didn't want to have sex?

I am usually just as horny as my boyfriend so we're always on the same page with sex and pretty much whenever he wants to I do too. But there have been some times (like, THREE) where we'll be doing it and for whatever reason (my stomach will start hurting or I'll start getting sore or something), I'll tell him I want to stop so we do but for a minute or two he'll be such a sour puss about it and make me feel bad. Whenever I'm on my period he'll make comments like "the minute it stops we better have sex a lot!" and it makes me feel pressured like what if I don't feel well or am not in the mood when my period stops? I guess I just don't like how he almost demands it in that way and it makes me scared that he'll be mad if/whenever I don't want to! SO guys: are you like this with your girlfriends? Do you expect to have sex with her every time you are alone/would you be upset/mad if she didn't just a few of those times?
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  • Holy sh*t, if I didn't know any better I'd say you are my girlfriend! Because I am going through what your boyfriend is going through right now!

    It's just a p*ss off, he is being honest. She even calls me a sour puss because I'll pout or turn away, but within second I realize it is not worth being angry about and I'll give her a hug and make a joke about it.

    • Haha! Now you can see her side. Good that you are over it after a second though and don't make her feel bad

    • Yeah I hate making her feel bad. I always feel a bit rejected at first, which makes me feel bad, but as I said my logic kicks in quickly and I realize it's no big deal. it is hard though!

  • That's just him being selfish. Sex is a mutual act. Both parties are supposed to enjoy it. Putting pressure on you to have sex will force you not to enjoy it. I'm surprised that he can make you orgasm. You must have a deep emotional connection with him. It's ultimately your choice. He has two hands.

    • I've actually never had an orgasm with him...Anyways thank you, made me feel better. I go back and forth between thinking what you said and thinking that I'm a bad girlfriend when I don't want to have sex. =(

    • If he was able to give you an orgasm, you would want to do it more. That's the reason why guys love it. That 6 seconds of joy is a really good incentive.

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  • I'm better at hiding it then him. But his feelings are genuine. The fact that you don't want sex (for legitimate reasons) doesn't change the fact that he's desperately horny. So you can ask him to pretend he doesn't care, but he does.

    • Haha. Okay. I wouldn't want him to act like he doesn't care at all but it'd be nice if he didn't make me feel BAD about it

    • He doesn't 'make you feel' anything. You own your feelings, he owns his. Do you 'make him feel bad' by turning him down?

  • No...first of all I have no objection to period sex...so no problem there...could not expect a person to continue sex if have a stomach ache...should stop and finish by hand...that's the thing...if no sex then should expect him to relieve himself by hand

  • It happens, it's not that big of a deal.

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