Bad boys and players have low standards/are not picky. Why are girls attracted to "low standard-man whores"?

The so called players and "bad" boys f*** many girls/are not picky when it comes to girls/have low standards. Guys who don't bring home different girls every night/attractive guys who are single for a long time are "uncool". They don't f*** every girl that's willing to f*** them. They have high standards/are picky when it comes to girls yet girls prefer to f*** "bad" boys cause they feel more special whenever they get the chance to f*** a man whore. How come girls think they're special when a man whore approaches them? It' ridiculous. They should feel special when a picky/high standards guy approaches them. What's wrong with them? Why are they so retarded?
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  • No don't get arrogant - I went anonymous so you wouldn't block me if the discussion got more heated. lol

    Anyway - I do think like that, I never judge people by their covers - but nice guy , bad boy all that - are just labels. like ghetto, hick etc - just labels is all. Stereotypical ideals. This I've never denied.

    What you fail to understand is that's how I used them.

    Anyway, I broke down players and bad boys for the possibilities of what they could be -ReportAnswerer15 minutes agohence all the other things that I listed that could cause those men to exude the undesirable qualities they do -

    I tried to stay away from the nice guy label - but you brought it up so I had to use it for comparison. But it's just a label. I can list a multitude of reasons why men who call themselves " nice guys," have issues getting women.

    There's more depth to people than just this or that. I've always had that mindset, so your not telling me anything new lolReportAnswerer12 minutes agoWhat's interesting is you think your so clever in how your addressing what I say, when your just repeating what I already understand and have stated here, or assuming - which in either case isn't good for your " I'm so wise." cause.

    And also if your so in depth and all that jazz you make yourself out to be - you shouldn't have even posted this question because you would had derived a clear and realistic answer for yourself.

    Actually, you wouldn't have posted this so ridiculously too.

    ReportAnswerer9 minutes agoA man of your self created mental stature would have asked something a bit more deep like -

    " What do you think influences men to be players / bad boys?"

    That's a good thought provoking question. This question is tired and old - been warn out too many times - often by people who fail to understand the more in depth factors and mild complexities this dynamic involves.

    You've yet to create a decent counter argument, demonstrated hypocrisy, and a lack of cognitively correlating the factorsReportAnswerer7 minutes agoActually, our whole argument has been about you failing to understand a social label whilst trying to correct me about them when in fact - I wasn't even wrong in the first place.

    So I mean, you keep putting on this act like you know what your talking about - but you've yet to produce something remotely sustainable to maintain a decent intelligent discussion.

    It's actually quite boring now.

    So please, make a decent argument against my response.

    If you even can.ReportAnswerer4 minutes agoI said those things to retort what you did - I'm not mad - I'm just really trying to see if you can get this. You seemed more upset over what I responded anyway so lol -

    Anywho - I never said nice guys were weak - it's just a society created label. Like all the other stereotypes.

    I don't walk around life like omg - he's a nice guy red flag - that's not a wise mindset. I want to know this person for all that they are, then make my decision there.

    • Sorry had to repost comments getting too long -

    • And honestly, you did the same thing I did with the labels when talking about the bad boy / player types. Like really dude? Your such a hypocrite right now it's unbelievable. I bet you go walking around seeing every guy who's good looking and think oh he's a player. See how stupid of an assumption that is? I don't mean that at all about you because I can tell your not that clueless about people -

  • Stop generalizing. You know, and I know, that majority of the decent not trashy / low self esteem, acutally worth your time girls don't fall for that bad boy sh*t.

    Anyway - what makes the bad boy icon so attractive, is just that bad boys tend to be more assertive / aggressive / sturdier. They don't let the girls manipulate them, walk all over them, boss them around etc.

    And usually the bad boys are attractive - like 7 - 9.5 attractive - and attractive people always catches people interest.

    Plus, I think a lot of actually good men get mistaken to be players / bad boys etc, because they are good looking and have an outgoing fun personality - just like girls who are the same get labeled as sluts or divas etc -

    A real player can be spotted a mile away - and usually they prey on weak minded / willed women, who are guilable enough to fall for their lame tricks. They get caught up in the omg this really cute / popular / cool guy is talking to me - he's totally interested, and like, totally loves me :D

    No. Your just dumb as f***.

    Often those chicks are so insecure, low class, don't respect themselves, are just as whorish or whatever, don't care, don't have standards (or really good ones,) or just want to sleep with the guy.

    Just those types of girls though. And I'm sure you should be able to judge the difference. If not then whoa buddy, you've got some things to learn about people.

    Stronger minded women can see through their sh*t. The thing is, every dude focuses on the stupid girls who fall for the players, and create some idiotic conclusion that all girls want that.

    Um no. Quality is what is wanted by the decent girls - and those men are far from it.

    Bad boys - typically have deeper emotional issues that f*** up their mindsets and attitude. One day he can be really sweet nice, the next he's screaming mad, breaking sh*t, physica lly getting aggressive - or they have self destructive / ridiculous habits like constantly picking fights, getting upset over little things, trying to prove themselves in the wrong / negative ways. Gets old and very tiring after a while. Bad boys are emotional wrecks, and the good women who can put up with them, help them to heal from their trauma, are hard to shovel through all the insecure, weak, and whorish filth that comes their way.

    Players - are the most ridiculous guys. Most do it because they feel inadequate as a man and use women to make up for it, are really arrogant and use women as credibility to that, put on that pseudo - player illusion to make themselves look better - may be insecure and do it to make up for their lack of confidence - sexually greedy / impulsive - don't know how to actually have a legit relationship with a girl. Whatever the case, being a player is a trashy icon to take on.

    I think alpha guys win over all - the guys who can execute the attractive qualities in bad boy / players, as well as the other desired attributes - are men every girl wants.



    • "They don't let the girls manipulate them, walk all over them, boss them around etc." Who believes that bullsh*t? Why are you so naive? Just because a guy is nice, it doesn't mean he's weak. Many nice guys are confident. You're talking about shy and insecure weak guys = not nice guys. Since you mistake nice for weak, you aren't very clever. Bad boys tend to compliment girls/do everything they want just to get in their pants. Nice guys try to get to know them better before dating them.

    • Whoa whoa whoa - stop with the assumptions, your devaluing your intelligence. When did I even hint that nice guys = weak? Never remotely addressed that. I simply said that's just some of the characteristics those types of guys have. Often it's a bit more intense though - like those guys are trying much harder to get what they want - sex - from the girl. So they push more. The better men tend to have more respect so

    • the don't push as hard - but that's not bad - because the push some girls mistake for the guy really liking them or whatever - the respect is what's' a better indicator of objectives in a guy to a girl. The push to stronger minded women comes off as just as that - this guy just wants sex with me. That's how the message is received so it's time to find a guy who's actually worth it.

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  • Okay so like -

    People who are of quality, we give that vibe. It's recognized pretty early on how genuine, worthwhile people are or can be.

    With this, alpha people typically have standards which weed away the non alpha people - you know weaker people.

    Those standards now, are usually pretty legit - and by legit, I mean it will require our choice partner to 1, achieve them or 2 work to achieve them.

    Well that's the issue - it's hard for people to really analyze themselves, snuff out those negative traits and change for the better. Or, be able to meet those standards because they typically require a certain mindset and persona to achieve.

    Those type of people capable of that are so far and in between - so it feels like we're getting left out whilst all the bad boy / girl player types are getting all the attention.

    But really, is the attention that great? I mean, most those relationships are so hollow, unfufilling, using each other for selfish gains wants -

    I mean, I don't know about you - but I don't mind not having tons of people flocking to me if that's the crap I'm gonna get from them.

    I'm fine waiting for quality.

    It's easy for people to stick with their negative habits - their impulsions, sorry perspectives, lousy behaviors - to gain their hollow desires the cheap way -

    So why would people want to change from that? Often it takes some pretty harsh life lessons for those type of people to get a reality check.

    Alpha people, we have a talent for already being at that level - for already seeing a lot of sh*t for what it is - for seeing people for what they really are -

    We don't settle for any ol one - and because we can see people for what they are so well - it scares people lol because it's realized that it's time for them to man up or woman up if they seriously want to be with us.

    And at our age group - psssh, people don't want to do this. They're still in a high school mentality, still trying to figure out who they want to be.

    It's easy to run off to the players or whatever, who are easily pleased with just sexual gratification, who don't expect much, or want much more than that.

    And honestly - anyone can lay down on a bed for sex;

    It takes a real person to sustain a legit relationship.

    So eh - it's a retarded reality I know - I blame society for such a lazy outlook and concepts people have about life / love / themselves and living. We're taught to look for the easy way, taught to desire superficial things - this is just an example of those influences.

    But yea, that's my thoughts on why.

    • Lol I don't mind the spam :P Dude that's rough - and why she's doing it - maybe she feels she wasn't good enough to be with you and settled for him? I always wondered why exes did that - like they leave a quality person for a piece of trash? I thought you were suppose to shoot higher or the same after a break up? I know some guys do it because they use sex to get over their past relationship - maybe she is too? Idk.

    • great answer. thanks.

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  • I'd say they don't feel particularly special when a guy who hates women like you do, (calling them retarded) approaches them.

    When a so-called man-whore approaches them, they respond. Not because he's a whore. (Curious word to use... Are you jealous much?) They respond because the guy is confident, assured of himself, knows what a girl likes and how to talk to her properly (professional tip, he won't call her retarded) and he has had a lot of practice at sex, so he's generally good at it.

    These things matter to some girls.

    1) The girl isn't being called retarded.

    2) The guy is confident in himself

    3) He doesn't attempt to pass off his cowardice in approaching women as being "picky".

    • lame answer. try again. a nice, picky and confident guy is less attractive than a cheap and "outworn" man whore. that's a sad fact. by the way, approaching girls has nothing to do with being brave. what kind of guy is too afraid to approach a girl? lol seriously, these kind of guys only exist in movies. too afraid to talk to a girl.. lol that's some funny sh*t. you act like girls are intimidating mafia guys...

  • Who says players aren't picky? Players are *very* picky; they can afford to be, since they usually work on having a lot to choose from.

    If a guy decides to be single for a long time, that's his business. Neither cool nor uncool, just his business.

    It doesn't necessarily mean their standards are high; just as a player has a lot to choose from, the man who dates rarely will, for that reason, generally have slim pickings. It has nothing to do with standards and everything to do with the sheer size of the dating pool; more choices typically equals better choices.

    As to why women f*ck man players, the answer is obvious: they want to get laid, and a player will do it and not make a fuss.

    • the man who rarely dates rarely dates because he is picky. a player approaches average looking women/even f***s ugly women. yes, women f*** players cause they want to get laid. desperate women want to get laid. desperate women tend to be ugly and that's why most players only get to f*** ugly women. hot girls are not desperate/insecure and that's why they don't go for low class manwhores. hot girls tend to have hot boyfriends whereas manwhores tend to f*** a sh*t load of average/ugly "victims".

    • they exactly know they can't get hot, self-respecting women and that's why they feel the need to f*** so many desperate girls. it's an ego problem. the short guy act tough (napolen complex), the manwhore feels the need to f*** as many girls as possible (hot-girls-aren't-attracted-to-me-complex).

    • Listen, I've been a player for many years, and was just telling you my experiences and motivation. It's up to you whether you want to believe me, but you can't tell me what I've lived. If you want to cling to your misconceptions, fine. I won't stop you. But you want to at least consider that you might be wrong, and get a fact or two before you go all ranty. Just a suggestion.

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  • You've generalized, you've labeled, you've stereotyped - but then act like you didn't - you did all those things lol then try to tell me that I can't do them, or shouldn't.

    Um...you did the same thing. lol so hypocritical - and that's why your arguments so far have been completely off and flawed.

    Missed the entire argument I presented, misread me - keep misreading and assuming about me.

    Your idea of me is so far off - it's not even laughable. Just sad really.

    So now that we have that out the way -

    Lets get back to the actual topic -

    Your question has nothing to do with nice guys and how they're label so -

    I'm still waiting for you to produce a counterargument against my original post...

    If you can.

    • lol I don't fail to understand a social label. you fail to understand that most girls fail to understand the nice guy label. I explained to you why nice doesn't equal weak. even "intelligent" girls mistake nice guys for weak guys. girls don't give mister nice guy a chance cause media manipulates them into thinking nice equals weak. even high quality girls go for bad boys. they rather date an insecure man whore than a nice guy. that's a fact. not only stupid and weak girls fall for "bad" boys.

    • "man of your self created mental stature would have asked something a bit more deep like - What do you think influences men to be players / bad boys?" that's deep? lol that's not deep at all. and the answer is more than obvious. my question has never been asked before. I want to know why so many girls go for guys who have low standards/why they prefer man whores over picky high quality guys. I don't want to know why they go for bad boys. I want to know why they are so weak minded.

    • But that's the thing - people don't walk around thinking that. Like I can't tell who you are simply from oh he looks like a nice guy - you can be some sociopathic murderer or something lol. See what I mean? It's like, people get to know people roughly; what happens is, bad boy /player type, exude a vibe that is just attractive, or seems to over power the influence of the other non player / bad boy type guys - don't know why it happens like that it just does. But beyond that, you see those guys

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  • There are other reasons why a guy might not be sleeping with girls so how are girls supposed to know that's his reason?

    Also what some guys don't realize is that:

    girls don't like guys just because they're bad

    and

    players are only players because a lot of us like them.

    Obviously there is something else bringing girls around other than the fact he's a whore. His promiscuity is a byproduct of being attractive to women. And if all girls like is bad guys, then all any other guy has to do is a commit a crime and he'll have women all over him. Since that doesn't happen, its not the case.

  • Because they're fun.

  • Bad boys or players aren't what they seem, that is if you're close to them though, my bestfriend..you can say he's a bad boy/player and it might seem like he don't care bout anything but sex..but things aren't always as they seem!

    He is probably the most sweetest, caring, and protective guy I'll ever know...to realise this you just have to crack the wall that they put up and once you do they become the kinda guys girls..yet again would die for. My bestfriend seems like a tough careless guy that can only satisfy you in bed but it's not true..he probably made me laugh the most I've ever laughed in my life and have had the most fun ever with him. So it just shows that you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover/(or In this case title aswell)

    • This :)

    • Only awesome chicks need apply.

    • What'd u mean?

  • lol. you sound delightful.

  • Are you Hugh Hefner ? you must have ALL the ladies

    • i prefer one hot a lady. all the ladies = 80 percent ugly ladies. no thanks.

  • This is a hard question.. I don't agree that bad boys and players have low standards. A lot of these bad boys go for really pretty hot girls that all guys want to have and girls are attracted to them because they have confidence and they got game and most of the time, not all the time, they are usually hot. I have never seen a bad boy or a so called player with an unattractive girl unless they gave up being a player because they found their true love. I don't believe that guys are picky or have standards when it comes to sex unless the girl was overly obese and very fugly looking. I don't believe that guys who are single for a long time are uncool.. I don't judge they are probably just shy and have no game.. and sometimes these 'uncool' guys are hot so don't judge. Me personally I don't go for any guy unless there is some sort of chemistry.. it has to be more than friendship.. so it doesn't have to do with whether a guy is a player or a bad boy or whether he is too uncool to date.. its about chemistry and a little bit of physical attraction to get it started

    • well, I am a confident guy. many girls want to get in my pants, but I ignore them because I am very picky/most of them aren't worthy enough. my friend is a bad boy/man whore. he sleeps with many average looking girls. those girls are the kind of girls I'd never sleep with. they are easy to get = no challenge = not hot. most bad boys have low standards. they f*** girls without getting to know them. I only f*** intelligent and hot girls. average/less intelligent girls are a turn off.

    • why would a hot girl f*** a man whore? that's completely illogical. a hot girl isn't desperate/knows she is special. hot girls have high standards and they don't feel the need to turn into a slut/f*** a man whore. they have hot boyfriends. man whores attract sluts/desperate girls whereas hot and intelligent picky men attract hot and intelligent picky girls. it is that simple...

    • Well I guess your being honest and have standards. But what you may see as an average girl in your eyes could be the most gorgeous and stunning girl in another guys eyes so hypothetically the guys you see as only f***ing with average girls could be their standard for a girl... I know this sounds confusing but different guys have different standards when it comes to girls and you obviously have a particular standard of girl which are the girls that are hot and intelligent in your eyes

  • you have a lot of anger. too bad you'll never get laid. if a girl read this question and the sh*t you've written on it, they would run to the other side of earth.

    • LOL retard, I already got laid. the difference between me and a manwhore is that I don't sleep with sluts. if I wanted to become a manwhore, I'd simply turn into a manwhore. since I prefer classy, hot and intelligent girls, I won't turn into a manwhore. those kind of high class girls would never sleep with a manwhore/are not attracted to manwhores. I'm not mad at all. I simply feel sorry for low class girls who f*** manwhores cause real men (high standards) will never date them.

    • seriously, a hot girl can get every guy she wants? why would she f*** a manwhore? only desperate (desperate girls tend to be ugly) f*** manwhores cause that's the only chance they get to get f***ed. hot girls have hot boyfriends, ugly and average desperate girls f*** manwhores to feel more special. it's a sad but true fact.

    • 'i already got laid'. lol, once?

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  • why do you care?

    • because I feel sorry for cheap/low self-esteem girls who f*** manwhores. they don't realize they only f*** them cause they can't get real women. they use the poor girls, then throw them away. it's really sad...

    • no you dont. you hate them for not sleeping with you. a lot of guys are like this.

    • lol! definitely not. I only f*** high class women. why would I be jealous of manwhores? that's ridiculous. if I wanted to become one, I'd turn into a manwhore. it's easy to have low standards. I reject 90 percent of girls. I am very picky when it comes to girls and that#s why I look down on manwhores. they are sluts. everybody looks down on them. my ex girlfriend was very hot. manwhores will never get the chance to f*** such a hot girl. they know it and that's why they go for desperate sluts,

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  • manwhores are awesome, they're sexy, good in bed because they've slept with so many women, and have a charm or attractiveness about them that's irresistible. They also sleep with hot women and choose who they want out of the tonnes of girls interested in them, so of course whoever they pick feels special while she's with that manwhore, whether she feels sh*t or not after is another matter, that's just how manwhores are. That you're jealous is understandable, it really is, but the idea that you haven't gotten laid because you're 'picky' is just something I don't think anyone reading this question believes. How could they? If you were picky and had a perfect hot girlfriend, why would you be posting bitter questions like this..

    • LOL! you're so sad and pathetic. manwhores aren't picky at all. they only get to f*** cheap sluts. they are "outworn" men. they bring hom a girl every night (no matter how fat and ugly she is). if I were a girl, I'd be disgusted thinking about all the girls he's slept with. I'd exactly know I'm nothing special to him/only number 2321893 on his list. seriously, how is that not a turn off? a girl should be proud if a real man/picky man/classy man allows her to f*** her.

    • everybody knows only insecure/low class girls sleep with manwhores. why? because real men don't f*** them/they prefer real women (intelligent and hot girls with high self-esteem). that's a fact. my ex girlfriend is so much hotter than all the girls manwhores sleep with. she kept making fun of the cheap and sad sluts who feel the need to f*** manwhores (cause they are too desperate). there is a reason why most white trash women f*** manwhores/educated hot alpha males date successful real men.

    • do you think high class women f*** manwhores? LOL! look at angelina jolie. she f***s brad pitt. why doesn't she f*** manwhores like "the situation"? why doesn't scarlett johansson f*** manwhores? lol they don't f*** manwhores cause they aren't desperate and retarded. by the way, sleeping with many sluts is not impressive. so many girls want to get in my pants, but I ignore them. they simply are inferior to/deserve to f*** manwhores. wow... I just owned the sh*t out of you.

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  • Manwhores have more choice, that's why girls go for them and feel special if they're 'chosen'. Other guys don't have girls throwing themselves at them so will generally go for any girl that goes to them.

    • LOL! so funny. that's the biggest bullsh*t I have eer heard. man whores are the ones who will generally go for any girl that goes to them. they have more choice, sure, but they aren't picky. sluts who go for them tend to be ugly. players don't care. they even f*** ugly girls. other guys who don't have girls throwing themselves at them are much more picky. they try to get to know the girl better. they aren't as desperate. they wait for the right girl/hot girl cause they have high standards.

    • if this question was from a girl I might take it more seriously, but the fact that its from a boy, AND that you sound so pissed off at girls for going for manwhores just makes me think you're another guy who women don't throw themselves.. from my experience, I've never seen a manwhore with a girl that's ugly. It's totally illogical to think that someone who has women throwing at them wouldn't be pickier than someone who doesn't. Guys like you would fall in love with any below average/ugly girl th

    • at might show them interest because they've never experienced it before. I've seen it happen. Good for them, but don't hate manwhores just because you aren't one, learn from them if you want hot girls throwing themselves at you.

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