Do you think women have the same sex drive as men?

[Anonymous]

Bullsh*t, and

Heres proof:

"From Mary M. Gallenberg, M.D.

Research shows that the hormone testosterone does effectively boost sex drive —"

link

"Dr. Mehmet Oz Answered:

Testosterone levels in women are 5 percent to 10 percent of those in men. This represents all testosterone in your blood—some is bioavailable (free or readily available), and some is bound more tightly to other things. "

"The Princeton Consensus Statement set symptoms in women against a background of women having adequate estrogen levels, excluding other causes that may bring about symptoms, and testosterone blood levels being in the lower range of normal healthy females.

Typical symptoms of diminished testosterone levels in women include: Loss of sexual desire"

There are societal reasons why women don't approach men, or talk openly about sex.

HOWEVER.

Men would not allow society to tell men they can't talk or have sex when they shouldn't.

This is constantly proven time and time again with sex scandals.

How often COMPARATIVELY do you hear about some man who couldn't control his sexual urges VS a woman who couldn't?

How often do you hear NUNS molesting little girls VS preists molesting little boys?

How much p*rn is aimed at the male audience vs women?

How successful and how many male strip clubs are there vs female strip clubs? Oh yeah there I forgot there are male strip clubs on every street corner.

How often are women told to keep their man in the boat in their pants?

How often are men told that they are thinking with their little head vs women told that they are thinking about, oh I don't know, their ovaries?

How often do you hear a man go, I'm sorry honey I have a headache.

How often do you hear a man say "I don't want to sleep with her because I want her to like me, and if I have sex with her too soon she might think less of me."

The bottom line is, men like sex so much that EVEN if there was that SAME stigma there, men would still have sex.

How often do you hear a man say, you know there was this supermodel that wanted to have sex with me, but I turned her down because she asked me for sex too soon.

"i figured it was too needy of her to do that. and creepy!"

How often do you hear about a woman getting caught with a stash of nude male pictures under her mattress?

How often do you hear about a man wanting to marry a woman for money?

How often do you hear make excuses for not having sex vs women for not having sex?

How often do you women get caught staring at a mans package and him having to say "HEY! my eyes are UP HERE!"

How often do you hear that male prostitution consistently fails, and female prostitutes flourishes?

Whens the last time a guy said, Gee you know I didn't shave my beard because I didn't plan on having sex.

[miramiraonthewall]

no darling, those standards are embedded in the historical requirements for a woman to have good standing in society and a good reputation. I think many women have high "sex drives" but it doesn't control us and there are varying factors that can affect that sex drive. Having a high sex drive and actually having sex are two different things though. Actually having sex depends on a lot of things outside of yourself and things within yourself. history, society, standards, treatment of women in certain places, etc. in some places, promiscuity can get you publicly whipped or killed or something. there are all kinds of male checks on female sexuality that have carried over into the 21st century. in some places, women are circumcised in part to prevent any serious enjoyment and control over her sexuality, prevent women from cheating or being sexually immoral. Here in the west, the blatant checks on our sexuality are mostly gone, but there still a lot of social stigma and reputation working against women and those stigmas don't affect men the same way. sure there are some people who believe "sluts are sluts" but society by large sees men and women differently and that is reflected in our media as well as the daily comments we make about people. also religion can factor in. I know some girls who may have high sex drives but are trying to live as good _____ women and wait until marriage. women are just judged more when it comes to sexuality over all and there are remnants of those standards leftover in our culture.

still, some women do sleep around. I don't know where you come from, but I know A LOT of women who have sex all over the place. that doesn't mean they have high sex drives. sometimes they act out for emotional reasons, sometimes they legitimately are horny women who believe in sexual liberation.

and I don't think most people would have sex with someone who they aren't relatively attracted to. I'm sure some would, but regardless, that doesn't mean those people have higher sex drives. a virgin could have a higher libido than someone who bangs every night. being a virgin can relate to conservative morals, insecurity with oneself, being so unattractive that not many people would touch you, etc. how many men do you see on this website crying about how no girl will touch them?im sure they could find someone, but they just sit at home and sulk. they have issues with socialization, confidence, etc. Some women who are the same. also, high libido doesn't translate to lack of self control or no standards. you can love sex as a whole and want it to be with someone you at least find attractive. I feel like I'm horny or thinking about sex 80% of the time, but I won't have sex with 80% of people I meet. I want it all, not just dipping body parts.

btw you're kind of degrading men as wild animals with no self control. I know some men would bang anything on 2 legs, but that is probably a minority, especially in this culture.

[miramiraonthewall]

btw, how are you going to ask the question anonymously, but not allow anonymous answers? that's a punk ass bitch move, in my book. just saying.

[saphirasilverwings]

I think it's silly to block anonymous answers. All it'll get you is fewer answers.

[Asker]

Louise Chang, MD "Do men really have stronger sex drives than women? Well, yes, they do. Study after study illustrates that men's sex drives are not only stronger than women's, but much more straightforward."

[Asker]

". Having a high sex drive and actually having sex are two different things though" Yes, being hungry and eating food are also totally different things. But I'm going to tell you right now, men are provably more hungry than women.

[Asker]

Using the "oh women are going to look bad if they have sex" argument is played out to death. As if men are not shamed for being perverts. Again, how often are there male sex scandals vs women sex scandals? I know you hear all the tiem how NUNS rape little girls, just like the priests do to little boys right? Or are you going to use the argument that women are just better at not getting caught? Which is a funny argument to take.

[Asker]

"I know some men would bang anything on 2 legs, but that is probably a minority, especially in this culture." Not a minority. There are 2 types of men. The type that only want to bang hot chicks, and bang ugly chicks during dry spells. AND the ones that want to bang hot chicks but settle for anything.

[Asker]

And its not a matter of no self control in either of them. Its a matter of drive. Its like being hungry all the time (men) VS rarely being hungry (women) If you're really hungry you're probably going to eat crappy gross food. But you are always going to prefer fine meals. If you had no self control to get food youd just start murdering people just to get a slice of cheese.

[miramiraonthewall]

I think the part I agree about is the "more straightforward" part, which is basically what I've said in my entire post lol If we disagree, we disagree. This isn't really something I feel can be accurately measured or have consistent flow, because of all the factors that affect womens sex drives. I personally would need to see the basis for judging/measuring what a high sex drive is, considering all the things I have mentioned. I haven't read anything convincing.

[miramiraonthewall]

"its played out" isn't a valid argument imo, but I respect your right to use that. you can't erase the prejudices and traditional ideas on sexuality or the perpetuation of men as players and pimps and women as sluts and whore, sexual objects, just because you find the whole argument "played out". it doesn't work that way lol sex scandals? rape? you're not seriously comparing the degradation of female sexuality to being a rapist are you? O.o

[miramiraonthewall]

ill side step that irrational comparison. I don't know about scandals, but I'm talking about the average everyday single man and woman and promiscuity. cheating and rape have little to do with sex drive, different issues, I would say. back to the point. I'm talking about the message sent about female sexuality, nothing to do with being a pervert and honestly I DONT think single, uncommitted men are shamed much for being "perverts". the culture we have today condones male promiscuity and perversion.

[miramiraonthewall]

i think it is a matter of self control. to use your analogy of hunger, some people love to eat, their hungry or they just have a strong desire to taste good things (or a whole other gamut of psychological reasons) but many people control how much they eat of something, what they eat, etc. especially in the process of trying to attain a figure or image of what looks good in society's eyes, or for ethical reasons, religion, etc.

[miramiraonthewall]

i think you are painting men out to be lacking in self control, to be existing on the rudimentary instincts as wild animals do. by your opinion, they can't control their actions, they must act out according to sex drive, just as an animal is assumed to, without regard to social pressures, religion, etc., anything in the realm of civilization. that's what I'm getting from you. you also presuppose that all men can even get laid or have the confidence to even try to get laid, which is ironic here lol

[Asker]

" link

This is written by a woman that PROVES men are treated WORSE than women because of their "perversions"

Its blatantly WORSE than that of a woman's negative outlook of promiscuity.

That link right there proves it.

PROOF.

And written by a WOMAN so you can't claim "bias".

[Asker]

And again, its not about a lack of self control the point is men are "hungrier" for sex. And its not my opinion that they act on their sex drive, I never said that they HAVE to do anything. But let me ask you this, are you FORCED to feel pain of you shoot yourself in the leg? I would say YOU HAVE TO. Men are evolutionarily HARDWIRED and FORCED to feel horny all the time. Women are not. Now, I can prove all of that if you like, OR you can read more of the main post. Or you can google.

[Asker]

Now if a man shoots himself in the leg he's FORCED to feel pain, but he's not forced to ACT upon it and cry like a girl. Tears are fine because it might be a reaction to the pain, but not to blubber like a woman. And that's the difference. Just like being horny all the time doesn't give a man a right to have sex with anything that has a hole in it. The difference is that men have the desire to, and control it. Women don't have this desire, so no need to control anything.

[miramiraonthewall]

Um...No offense, but you really aren't good at connecting the dots to construct coherent arguments. We are talking about (Or I'm talking about) attitudes about sexual promiscuity in uncommitted men and women and the degradation of female sexuality, and you link me to something talking about men being perverts in terms of PEDOPHILIA and CHILD PORNOGRAPHY? wtf does that have to do with anything I'm talking about? You're really not helping your case by posting links with no relevance whatsoever.

[miramiraonthewall]

Something being written by a woman isn't going to necessarily mean sh*t to me, I hope you know that. There are plenty of women who I think are ignorant and biased - and since when does being a woman eliminate bias?! What? You're not serious, are you? I hope you're joking. Anyway that link had nothing to do with anything I've said, so it really doesn't prove or disprove anything mentioned in our conversation. One article hardly proves or disproves of anything unless filled w/extensive research.

[miramiraonthewall]

You can disagree all you want, the way you are painting men is lacking in self control. That's a bad analogy, as being shot is the result of an outside force. That would be equivalent to someone sitting on your d*** and then your feeling is...well you know. we are talking about inner feelings and desires and the self control to not act on them or to act on them. That is the main argument you seem to have as to why womens sex drives are lower, which isn't a strong argument at all.

[miramiraonthewall]

If you think you can prove women have lower sex drives, that's fine, go for it. That's one thing, but the wording you use repeatedly suggests that you go farther than that - that you believe women don't have a strong desire for sex at all, which is hilarious. As long as you don't go too crazy (like I'm not reading another 3 pages, sorry) I'd be happy to hear a concise argument from YOU as to how know women have low sex drives. I honestly don't think you're educated or intelligent enough to do so.

[miramiraonthewall]

I'll briefly give you mine, again: I don't think womens reluctance to act out sexually is any accurate measure of what they are feeling inside, sexually. There are a multitude of factors that contribute to sexual repression in women all over the world, and here in the west, while the blatant hand of oppression over women has been lifted, there are remnants of the attitudes toward female sexuality around today. They contribute to the uplifting of male sexuality, while minimizing women to objects,

[miramiraonthewall]

when they are allowed to be sexual. Otherwise, women are usually held to double standards in which they are the morally and socially reprehensible, more so than men. Some could argue that a womans sexual reputation is tied into her "worth" in society, whereas a man does not fall under the same scrutiny in the public eye. (Not that there aren't individuals who don't see the men as just as "bad") Aside from the west, in certain parts of the world women are circumcised at birth or publicly

[miramiraonthewall]

punished or humiliated, if not worse. All of these factors, along with the accepted idea that men are perverts who should be expected to act a certain way, while women should exhibit more self control and self respect, as well as others I haven't even mentioned, can and often do contribute to a woman being selective or "moral" about having sex or having sex less often than men, if you're making that argument. The idea that someones actions reflect with absolute certainty their inner feelings is

[miramiraonthewall]

incredibly irrational. If someone is biracial but passes for white and acts accordingly to be accepted into "white culture" it doesn't take away from the fact that they know inside they are black. (this happened a lot in American history) Also, if someone identifies as straight, even for their entire life because they fear religious backlash, rejection from family, or even physical abuse or murder from people in society, it doesn't make the homosexual urges within them any less present.

[miramiraonthewall]

I hope you see where I'm going with this. I hope you see how poor logic behind ideas like "if women loved sex, their standards for guys would go out the window" doesn't help your argument at all. I've already explained the sexist, degrading way in which you depict men as lacking self control in sexual desire, and I accept that you still don't see how I got that conclusion, or you just don't agree. That's fine. If you can explain to me, rationally, how you know for sure women have lower/no sex drive

[miramiraonthewall]

then I would be happy to hear it. And if you're going to post links, please make them relevant. I regret taking time to even click on your link now. :/

[Asker]

Sigh... WHy dont you look at some FACTS 1. Men think more about sex. The majority of adult men under 60 think about sex at least once a day, reports Laumann. Only about one-quarter of women say they think about it that frequently. As men and women age, each fantasize less, but men still fantasize about twice as often. In a survey of studies comparing male and female sex drives, Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist at Florida State University, found that men reported more spontaneous sexual arousal and had more frequent and varied fantasies. 2. Men seek sex more avidly. "Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it," Baumeister concludes after reviewing several surveys of men and women. This isn't just true of heterosexuals, he says; gay men also have sex more often than lesbians at all stages of the relationship. Men also say they want more sex partners in their lifetime, and are more interested in casual sex.

[Asker]

Men are more likely to seek sex even when it's frowned upon or even outlawed: About two-thirds say they masturbate, even though about half also say they feel guilty about it, Laumann says. By contrast, about 40% of women say they masturbate, and the frequency of masturbation is smaller among women. Prostitution is still mostly a phenomenon of men seeking sex with women, rather than the other way around. Nuns do a better job of fulfilling their vows of chastity than priests. Baumeister cites a survey of several hundred clergy in which 62% of priests admitted to sexual activity, compared to 49% of nuns. The men reported more partners on average than the women.

[Asker]

In his review, Baumeister found studies showing many ways in which women's sexual attitudes, practices, and desires were more influenced by their environment than men: Women's attitudes toward (and willingness to perform) various sexual practices are more likely than men's to change over time. Women who regularly attend church are less likely to have permissive attitudes about sex. Men do not show this connection between church attendance and sex attitudes. Women are more influenced by the attitudes of their peer group in their decisions about sex. Women with higher education levels were more likely to have performed a wider variety of sexual practices (such as oral sex); education made less of a difference with men. Women were more likely than men to show inconsistency between their expressed values about sexual activities such as premarital sex and their actual behavior.

[Asker]

Men, on average, take 4 minutes from the point of entry until ejaculation, according to Laumann. Women usually take around 10 to 11 minutes to reach orgasm -- if they do. That's another difference between the sexes: how often they have an orgasm during sex. Among men who are part of a couple, 75% say they always have an orgasm, as opposed to 26% of the women. And not only is there a difference in reality, there's one in perception, too. While the men's female partners reported their rate of orgasm accurately, the women's male partners said they believed their female partners had orgasms 45% of the time.

[Asker]

Testosterone has been linked to sex drive in both men and women says Glenn Braunstein, MD. He is past-chair of the department of medicine at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles and a leading researcher on testosterone treatments in women.

"Women have one tenth the amount of testosterone as compared to men." Dr. Abraham Kryger, MD, DMD
"After puberty, androgens, specifically testosterone, play a role in the regulation of the sex drive."- Discoverythealth. com

" It’s this decline in testosterone that’s really responsible for a reduced sex drive."
www.oprah.com/.../Dr-Ozs-Ultimate-Orgasm-Libido-Boosters

"John Cena and his WWE opponents might epitomize the macho mayhem testosterone is supposed to create. But that mostly male hormone (gals have 5 percent to 10 percent of guys' levels) "
Dr. Mehmet Oz

I believe in a little thing called science and evidence. Perhaps you should too.

[heywat]

No I did not read all that , I just had to be honest about that. But I do think women have a higher sex drive than men. I just believe that guys are more open about it because in our society they are expected to want it. Where as a girl who is open about it, is seen as bad. Girls tend to have a lot of fantasies about things that they keep to themselves a lot. So I personally believe that it is wrong to say guys have a higher sex drive! girls have the same if not higher sex drive.

[Asker]

if you had read all of that, or some of it it would have shot down what you just said

[heywat]

oh lol!

[heywat]

i read like half of it!

[Asker]

Whens the last time you heard a man need some kind of excuse to "go upstairs" Whens the last time you heard a husband use sexual deprivation as a weapon on a woman and had it work? Is it just a coincidence that there are strip clubs that cater to men everywhere and hardly any for women? Youre going to tell me that its because of society. And I'm going to tell you that its hogwash in a capitalist society that cares about money they would be just as popular.

[Robertcw]

I think it’s a different type of sex drive. Especially when not ovulating. I wish people would look at my take on this and give feedback on my ideas.

[IHateMeganFox]

I'm always horny, always want sex, I've been told by many guys I'm the horniest girl they know and even the horniest person they know. I just recently asked a question asking how much do you think about sex per day? A lot of the women answered the same as men. I know I'm horny as men but I think a lot of women are not.

[cj72323]

I’m hot 24:7

[circlebill]

Women in general do NOT have the same sex drive as men! In fact, they do not have a sex DRIVE at all! They have sexual feeings, but nothing as powerful and direct as an actual sex DRIVE! Think about it! Men have to push women to make sex happen. Women DON'T push men to make sex happen. To claim that the sexes have an equal sex drive is ludicrous!

Many men in normal health spend a considerable portion of their time trying to get women to have sex wiith them. Men have tried everything! They try to ask women, charm them, cajole them, convince them, befriend them, dominate them, praise them, manipulate them, drug them and in some cases even attack them! And we can't forget plain plain PROSTITUTION! All this to get women to have sex with them! If women really had the same sex drive as men, there would be no need for seduction and prostitution!

Of course both men and women have differences in their sexual feelings at different stages of life. But in general, women have sexual feelings, yet they are NOT DRIVEN by sex! In general, healthy men have sexual feelings and they ARE DRIVEN by sex! That's the difference!

[afrohombre1]

Some women have sex drives that one guy find it very difficult to keep up with, did you know that? I don't consider a lot of celebrities and models sluts because we don't have actual proof that they are, do you? Megan Fox and Pam Anderson, where's the proof of your accusations, where's the proof that "a lot of men think they are" as you wrote. Women are raised different and taught different than men when it comes to sex, I have a little girl I'll talk to her differently than I would if I had a boy about sex, did you ever think of that as a reason about how they look at sex? I don't know what kind of women you've had but the women I was with through out my life wanted sex just as much or more than I did. I'm not rich, not that funny and I'm only 5'11 in height. Maybe it's you or the man why some women don't want sex as much, or maybe men want sex more than women, I personally think it depends on the individual.

[Asker]

link

theres your requested proof,.

[DJ_Durrty_unk]

I say girls have better self restraint and control but its all generalized so its more the individual than the whole. Generally men are probably more horny and more lusting for sex, but age and such are factors which bring different answers so the Idea that men are more horny is a generalized statement.

So read what you will but understand that the Idea is too broad to be 100% correct

[Asker]

The mere fact that women have more control and restraint should prove to you that women want sex less than men. There is nothing that proves men have less restraint in other areas, conveniently they must only have it in the sexual area, and also that somehow its the fact that men are weak minded and not the fact that mens drive is so high that its harder to control.

[saphirasilverwings]

My boyfriend has TERRIBLE shoes. But he doesn't wear them when I have sex with him, so I don't see why that would matter.

And, wow, women are so lucky. EVERYONE wants to wake up with their butt bleeding.

[saphirasilverwings]

He also isn't rich... or all that tall for that matter. Your stereotypes of what women want are really offensive to me.

[Asker]

I guess the word "GENERALLY" wasn't big enough for you to notice. And conveniently you kept out confident and funny. The two most common things that women look for. All the others are also highly common but not as common as those two. But I enjoy you pointing out the others and leaving the obvious ones out.

[Asker]

heres another proof.

"The stereotype about the sex-starved man and the disinterested woman may be more than just a cliche. As it turns out, the instant a woman enters a secure relationship, her sex drive begins to plummet. Four years in, a German study found, fewer than half of women wanted regular sex. And after 20 years, only 20 percent did."

link

[saphirasilverwings]

I don't know what all the nonsense about obviousness is. But my boyfriend IS confident (enough anyway) and funny. And I don't see anything wrong with the fact that I find that attractive. It's not materialistic or superficial like the other things you listed. And women are not "GENERALLY" with guys for their money or their height. They "GENERALLY" are with them for better reasons.

[saphirasilverwings]

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and his interest in sex has changed more than mine has. There is no way to generalize about this without being wrong about lots and lots and lots of people. So I don't see the point. And I don't see why you care so much. What do you want me to say? "Oh, my mistake, I have a low sex drive after all."

[saphirasilverwings]

Maybe men do tend to have higher sex drives. I really don't give a crap. But that doesn't make ME into a superficial, money-obsessed freak. So keep the two topics separate. They are not the same.

[Asker]

They GENERALLY want them for confidence and funny. But I again, like how you left that out. Whens the last time you heard a man say To a SUPERMODEL "you know I WAS going to sleep with her, but she wasn't confident or funny enough." IT just doesn't EVER happen. I'm sorry, it NEVER EVER HAPPENS. EVER.

[saphirasilverwings]

So what you're saying is, guys care more about appearance than personality, whereas women are the opposite? Cool.

[Asker]

I don't have to say something that is obviously true. THe reason being? Men like sex so much that the standards of things like confidence anything non shallow doesn't matter And the fact that only looks matter should prove to you that men like sex more than women and have a higher drive. You don't need a personality to have sex. You only want confidence and humor if you want a relationship

[saphirasilverwings]

Look, just because I get more turned on by my boyfriend's jokes than his shoes doesn't mean I DON'T get turned on. But as I said before, sex drives are not my point here. You cannot conclude that women have lower sex drives (if indeed they do) they are only with a guy for his money.

[Asker]

Again, confidence and humor are "RELATIONSHIP" things. The stereotype about the sex-starved man and the disinterested woman may be more than just a cliche. As it turns out, the instant a woman enters a secure relationship, her sex drive begins to plummet. Four years in, a German study found, fewer than half of women wanted regular sex. And after 20 years, only 20 percent did."

[saphirasilverwings]

*BECAUSE women have lower sex drives (if indeed they do)

[saphirasilverwings]

They aren't JUST relationship things. I'm sorry if you personally are so desperate that you'd have sex with a statue as long as it was pretty and had a hole for the vagina. But not all GUYS are that way either.

[saphirasilverwings]

Maybe this is part of the difference. To me, personality is not just for relationships. But that doesn't mean I don't want sex. I just get turned on by things other than looks (and money does not BEGIN to come into it, FYI).

[Asker]

That study proved the only reason your drive is even there is because of the relationship. WHich proves the only reason you're getting "turned on" is for the relationship, and NOT for the sex.

[Asker]

Human beings with "testicles" is what I would define as being a man. If you don't have testicles/aka a penis then its my OPINION that you're not a man. That being said, if you read the first couple of paragaphs, TESTOSTERONE is the exact cause of sex drive in both men AND women. Low drive= low testosterone High drive= high testosterone. Testosterone comes from testicles, (generally) and last time I checked women don't have those. I could be wrong though.

[Asker]

The point is, where did I ever say that women had NO sex drive whatsoever? Id like to know where I said that. Cause it sure looks like the title of the post says "Do you think women have the same sex drive as men" The argument was and has always been, who has a HIGHER sex drive.

[saphirasilverwings]

Just don't try to tell me that because I don't have testicles I date people for their bank accounts and their shoes.

[Asker]

And yes ALL guys are that way. Every single guy in the world who is defined as a guy "with testicles and a penis who has a ton of testosterone" (im sure there are guys with no penises and no testosterone, who you could point out and say SEE! there's this one guy in the world who doesn't like sex, -he doesn't have a penis, but that doesn't matter, HA! proved it!) But other than that one guy in the Bermuda triangle, every guy in the world wants a pretty girl first.

[saphirasilverwings]

I never said anything about some guys NOT WANTING sex either.

[Asker]

Bank accounts and shoes and cars (or whatever shows to a woman that he has power or resources) (confidence and humor by the way are also linked to forms of power) Are all the things women look for. And I'm sure you're going to dump a billionire that's goodlooking and funny and tall, JUST because he has money. (well I don't want to appear shallow!) And the only reason women want sex AT ALL is because they also have testosterone, just not ANYWHERE NEAR the amount that men do.

[Asker]

"Look, just because I get more turned on by my boyfriend's jokes than his shoes doesn't mean I DON'T get turned on." Right there you inferred that I was suggesting that women don't get turned on at all, but again that's not the argument and I never said that they didnt Again, the argument was and has always been who has a HIGHER drive.

[Asker]

Definition of testosterone: Biochemistry. the sex hormone, C19H28O2, secreted by the testes, that stimulates the development of male sex organs, secondary sexual traits, and sperm.

[saphirasilverwings]

Of course I wouldn't dump a great guy for being a billionaire (depending on how they earned their money and how they used it I suppose). But I certainly wouldn't date someone just BECAUSE they were a billionaire. Big difference.

[Asker]

Either way, you're attracted to power, regardless if it comes in the form of money, humor, height, or confidence. Cars and nice shoes are just representations of money which are representations of power, just like confidence and humor are. But again, that's not the point. All of that power has nothing to do with sex, it has to do with relationships. Mens drive aka looks has everything to do with sex and very little to do with relationships.

[bijbee]

Do man have sex drive?

[-Darling]

I think I have a higher sexual drive than most people, both men and women. I'm always horny, its ridiculous, lol.

[Asker]

i don't believe you, but if its true, then god bless you.

[-Darling]

Wtf. Why would I lie about that haha

[Asker]

truthfully I believe you think that you have a high sex drive. but do you want it 24/7?

[saphirasilverwings]

Does ANYONE want it 24/7? Sorry but I don't think many guys want to spend every hour of every day having sex nonstop either.

[Asker]

"54% of men think about sex everyday or several times a day, " 19% of women think about sex everyday or several times a day, 67% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 14% less than once a month (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994). " Proof.

[Texasgal95]

Everyone is different No to men are the same as far as that’s concerned same with women no two women at the same everyone is different

[Pumpkinspice009]

As a woman I say no

[Mariaangel]

Yess

[JennieF]

Maybe more.