Girls what goes through your mind if you're making out with a guy you like and he doesn't get an erection?

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Say you're making out with a guy really heavy and you're both kissing passionately and touching each other all over and your bodies are pressed together tight but you don't feel anything hard poking you from him or anything hard in his pants? For the question lets say it's a guy you haven't had sex with before and have just started making out with. What would you think?

Answer 1

Anonymous

I would worry that I'm not pleasing him enough.

Or, that he rolls the other way, if you know what I mean ;)

I would think it is pretty common that the guy gets an erection after making out for a while, any guy I was with always has. Is it not normal for that to happen?

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Guys almost always get erect if they're getting really turned on unless they're nervous : ( which I was with a girl so I didn't get erect from making out with her and now it's making me more nervous because I'm thinking she thinks I don't like her because I wasn't erect even though I do like her and the only reason I was nervous is because I care so much what she thinks.

Answer 2

Asker

Guys almost always get erect if they're getting really turned on unless they're nervous : ( which I was with a girl so I didn't get erect from making out with her and now it's making me more nervous because I'm thinking she thinks I don't like her because I wasn't erect even though I do like her and the only reason I was nervous is because I care so much what she thinks.

Answer 3

Anonymous

Um...I don't know...because that's never happened to me. If he didn't have an erection, well, I guess I'd have to give him one ;)

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lol, good answer. So if he doesn't have one it's bad though right? Like what would you think if you made out with a guy for 45 minutes and he never got an erection?
Opinion Owner

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I wouldn't think much of it, really. I would be too preoccupied otherwise to even think about it. If I'm making out with a guy, I concentrate on making out. If my hand wanders down there and it's soft, I'm not even concerned. Like I said, if it isn't hard, I'll make it.

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lol, good answer. So if he doesn't have one it's bad though right? Like what would you think if you made out with a guy for 45 minutes and he never got an erection?

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Opinion Owner

I wouldn't think much of it, really. I would be too preoccupied otherwise to even think about it. If I'm making out with a guy, I concentrate on making out. If my hand wanders down there and it's soft, I'm not even concerned. Like I said, if it isn't hard, I'll make it.

Answer 6

Anonymous

I would think that he has good self-control. But I probably would only think about that after the fact, because while we're making out I'm just focusing on enjoying myself and the pleasurable sensations and touches. :)

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Answer 7

Anonymous

Nothing?

That's something I'd really only notice once it's there. If it's not there, what's going to make me even think about it?

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Hmm.. good point I guess. I thought most of you ladies expect a guy to have an erection at that point.

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Asker

Hmm.. good point I guess. I thought most of you ladies expect a guy to have an erection at that point.

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Screamo-Lu

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I'd take that as a challenge. =)

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nebraskancutie7

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sounds like a fun game to me!

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