it's your cervix. I don't know what you can do to stop it from hurting except for trying different positions that won't let it go in so deep. and not all guys need to go deep to get off. more guys like the tight feeling of sex and all guys just get off from having sex in general. so some positions that could work for you is laying on the bed with your legs together while he stands on the floor and enters you that way, and a good way to do doggie style is you laying down on the bed with you on your elbows and your legs spread a little and him going in from behind. the wider you open your legs, the deeper he can go in so the positions that prevent that from happening are the best for you. and I would say something to your boyfriend because sex shouldn't hurt, it should be pleasurable for both. you don't have an issue, you have a short vag and should be dealt with in that matter. I'm sure if you talk it over with him that it hurts to have sex like that and say that you guys should both try out new ideas, I'm sure he will be very understanding and willing to want to "work" on how to make it better for the both of you. best of luck in the sheets!
Ya, it's not an every time occurance. I just like to let him "let loose" now and then... not about getting off, more of a psychological thrill.
yeah but there are ways to go around the pain part and still getting that "almost" deep thrusting thrill. I kind of had the same problem but because my boyfriend is bigger than anyone I've been with. I like doggie so we had to alter things til I got used to his size. but if you really want to get this problem over with, I'd have him stay deep inside you for 10 seconds at a time. our vags can stretch to get babies out, I'm sure it can stretch to fit a certain penis size in them.
True story ... Never tried to stretch vertically, the way that you have to to fit girth. Interesting concept.
dude. tell him that he's hurting you! >< wtf.
i'm sure he can get off FINE without causing you pain...
Guys need to have that kind of sex sometimes...
most guys would not want to hurt their women like that...
That's why it's better for him to not know. Pleasing a guy in bed is a pretty big priority to a relationship. Giving a guy the kind of sex he is craving at least occasionally is a fundamental to a relationship.
the guys penis is most likely hitting your cervix , some girls' cerxis' are lower than others
Ugh. This is what I am suspecting too. Ever know anyone else with this problem? What did they do?
I have this sometimes. in certain positions, life your legs, or move your body in a certain way. when I'm in missionary with my boyfriend is will sometimes hurt, so I left my legs and cross them over his back, etc!
What about from behind?
Try for positions where hard thrusting still isn't that deep.
Wider legs can allow deeper in missionary, but I think generally, its pulling knees towards your chest that REALLY lets him go deep.
Instead of doggy, try you lying FLAT on your stomach. It 'wastes' an inch or two because he can't get the base quite to your vagina, but it has the same 'dominant' feel as doggy style. Its just not as deep.
Is there a position that would make me actually deeper, or would that only encourage him to go harder and even deeper?
Hmm. I don't know. I think maybe yes, some positions 'lengthen' the canal. I will point out, though I (frustratingly) have no personal experience with this that I have actually spoken to a couple of women who found anal _easier_ then vaginal sex for deep thrusting. I guess anal is tight, but actually deep. I don't know if you've considered that/try it. The only other thing I can wonder is whether angle matters. Do you have as much trouble with deep missionary as deep doggy?
I've never gotten accustomed to anal sex :( I know the majority of other women are good at it and that I need to keep trying...But it hurts as well. Hmm, not sure with the angle thing -- we might need to play around more. I don't want him to know that it hurts me, though. How to play with deep thrusting without giving him the impression that its something I want all of the time?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm no doctor buy maybe your vag isn't that deep.
I know I can't change that, but how can I make a guy get his "deep thrusting" need filled without being in pain all of the time?
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