For your first time having sex?

OK so I was wondering : For your first time having sex do you guys try to do it with someone special ?or that doesn't matter to you? I mean we always hear about the girls trying to lose their virginity with someone they love most of the time and I was wondering if it was the same for you guys ?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A majority of us guys, would want it to be with someone we are attracted to and like a lot, because we prefer to respect them and have respect in place before we trust someone with such a communication invitation, but there are guys out there that will do this with anyone, it doesn't matter who, as long as the girl is willing, he will penertrate her without a thought, so remain concious of who your willing to have sex with, because usually if he is over keen, then its his d/ick talking and not his head or heart, and that's where you want it to come from, his heart, because to have sex and it mean anything, respect must be a big part of your relationship, and one night stands are such a waste of time, because sex is only good when you both put the effort into it, otherwise its a bit like slipping on a slug, x

  • I don't think a lot of guys mind. I was raised to wait until after marriage, but when I was 18 an older girl seduced me at a rave. I was avoiding going home with this girl, but was a pretty drunk and was easily manipulated. It was far from special- their was 0 chemistry between us, and no passion really. I wished at the time I hadn't given in so easily, but afterward I didn't give a f*ck, it was done. Just another experience I guess

Most Helpful Girls

  • ah I'm a girl and I didn't lsoe it to the love of my life wow no he was jsut a mate, and most of the guys I know who have lost it were happy for it to be with jsut a girl, no one particually speical

  • Guys lose it the first time they get the chance. THere is a joke: "Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place."

    • LOL!

    • wow... right... lol...

    • yeah that was exsactly what I was thinking we have placed guys in that stereotype =S i just wanted to be wrong but I guess the urge of doing it wins lol

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  • Yes, I (like most guys I know)I was never thinking about losing it. What's the point of losing something? Point is to get something great out of life. So I always chose with who.

    • I agree with your point =)

  • Did she have to be the love of my life? Absolutely not. We did get along, though, and that was enough. We had fun.

  • It was someone special.

    Living life over again, I'd have tried harder to just have sex with whoever years earlier.

  • No, I (like most guys I know) just wanted to lose it, as soon as possible. Didn't really care who with. Didn't really care where or why.

  • Naw...like Belgie said...I just wanted sex..both giving oral & intercourse...once that was accomplished my standards started going up right away...alot of horny teenage boys are going to jump at the first chance they get...any chance...with any female...

  • I waited until I found a guy that I had strong feeling for. And it was great ; )

  • I actually don't know . I am waiting to loose it to someone whom I would love ... but I guess I should loose it to anyone because its not easy to find true love and I am very horny all the time lol

    • lol well I hope you find someone special first =)

    • Thx for your kind words :)