Guys, where is your favorite place to finish?

[Anonymous]

Do you like to change it up? the reason I ask is I usually swallow when I give a blowjob, and if we have sex he finishes inside me (in a condom of course :) ). Clearly he is probably okay with this since he's having an orgasm. But... I've always wanted to watch it shoot out, like maybe on my face, breasts or stomach? I think it'd be really hot. there is a problem though... I'm really insecure about giving handjobs because I feel like he easily does it to himself much better than me so why bother. so basically, I guess I'm wondering a few things 1. would it be weird to ask him flat out if he'd be into one of the above options, or should I just do it without asking? 2. would it be a bummer to a guy to climax through manual stimulation instead of mouth or p**** or does the visual make up for it? 3. how can I learn to be better with my hands? haha

[dnately]

I don't really like to change it up, but I don't know what your boyfriend likes. Maybe he likes to change it up, but even if he doesn't, I don't see any reason why he can't do it for you. I mean, if he gets to come in your mouth on a regular basis, he can contribute to other body parts once in a while.

About the handjob business. Most guys can make themselves orgasm by jerking off in a couple of minutes. But getting a handjob from someone else is at least a hundred times better, and don't let the fact that it takes longer to come that way confuse you!

OK. Now to your questions:

1. Not weird at all to ask. I would ask, because if he's inside you, for you to pull him out and jerk him off might seem weird, unless he knows what's going on.

2. I prefer oral or vaginal to manual, but it's not a bummer, it's something I can do once in a while.

3. See my comment above regarding handjobs. The only way to get better with your hands is to ask him what feels good to him, and even to ask him to demonstrate how he touches himself. We are all different in what we like.

[Ugliness]

OK. She doesn't like to swallow. That's OK. I don't like the taste of guy come either.

In a condom of course? So obsolete. For me. I'm glad my condom days are over (had a vasectomy).

And watching him cum? Yeah it can be hot. But your face... careful. DON'T get it in your eyes.

Trust me.

As for handjobs, don't underestimate yourself. There's something really exciting about your partner's hand on... "you" so he'll probably love it.

1. It wouldn't be weird to ask. He may have wondered the same thing.

2. The visual, and the feel, are great. No doubt about it.

3. Maybe you already are better with your hands. Don't be rough - unless he wants it.

[Asker]

Haha thanks for your answer, but I just wanted to mention that I really DO love to swallow, or else I wouldn't do it for him :) I'm not trying to get out of swallowing by any means. hell, if guys could have multiple orgasms I'd take it pretty much everywhere :P we've just been dating for a while and I don't want him to get bored. Plus I guess I'm just curious/turned on by what it would look like when he cums.

[Minajme123]

In my experience, telling a guy (seductively) "i want you to bust your load on my____". And smiling afterward has always ended in a more than willing response. I personally love to talk dirty. The whole turn on behind a woman talking dirty is that she shows confidence. That she's just as hot and heavy as he is in the moment. Sometimes a simple "here baby", "you like that?", or "yeah" can be all you need to say. I wouldn't advise just using your hands, try using your mouth AND hands, it won't ever risk being boring to him. Be confident! Go into it with the idea, I'm gonna take his **** and I'm gonna make him feel amazing because I WANT to. Just pay attention to his reactions and you should be set ;)

[chris009xx]

not at all just ask him and say I was wondering that we can try this

depends on the guy

well you can use an object or search online look at p*rn or just ask him could he help you give him a hand job

[kheserthorpe]

1) I don't think it would be weird to ask. You can always ask during the act.

2) Depends on the guy. Some guys prefer sensation of internal, I prefer the visual.

3) practice, practice, practice.\

[sovetskii13]

It's good to change things up every once in a while to keep things interesting. You can try and surprise him by hiding in his closet when he is about to go to bed, and then walk out wearing a babydoll, or some hot lingerie to spice things up. If you want him to finish on your face, breasts, stomach, wherever, tell him that you want him to spray it all over your (fill in the blank). I'm sure that he will be happy to do it for you. You can do a striptease while he manually stimulates himself. It's also a way of spicing things up. How can you be better with your hands? Practice is probably the best way. Enjoy.

[RicoSuave]

I like to change it up . . and don't ask him. just do it.

[SixStringSeal]

He shouldn't have a problem doing that wherever you want him to:P Just ask him.

[Broken719]

inside her vag hands down

[Anonymous]

every guy is different and will like different things

so you should at least try new things

I'd still like a handjob from a girl as it's still someone elses hand and not mine

you could lick or suck during

and then he'll jizz probably on your t*ts/face if you're jerking him off

Don't be scared of asking him, you want to make him feel good and it be more 'entertaining' for you

nothing wrong with that

a girl who will try and suggest new things is a turn on

[Anonymous]

Usually before I come ill pull out and take the rubber off anf bust inside my girl mouth

[Asker]

now that's what I'm talking about! haha

[Opinion Owner]

lol for real and she enjoy that a lot but some time the adrenaline is rushing so fast that I miss her mouth and some would land on her face and hair lol

[Anonymous]

1. When he's in the moment, tell him where to cum. Be like "I want you to shoot all over my face" ect

2.Visual makes up for it

3. Practice ;)

My fav place is the Mouth and face.