I don't think its women that prefer the big penis's as much as men are insecure with what they have. Men get complexes if they see a man with a bigger penis. Who cares how big it is as long as you know how to use it. I believe most women prefer an average size, because what you guys don't realize is that if your to big then 9 out of 10 times we really don't enjoy it. I can hurt and become very uncomfortable for some of us women. I believe 6 to 9 inches is around the ball park for an average size penis. Its know different than girls that think they have to have big boobs, yeah there are guys out there that are boob guys, but most likely a guy isn't gonna dump a girl because she is a A cup or a B cup. Guys get over yourself trust your women when she says your size is perfect and if a girl does dump you based on your penis size then so be it, move on there are plenty of women out there that will have you for who you are. My man as made jokes about getting penis enlargement before, he is 8 inches, I believe I would less turned on by him if he did. I love him just the way he is.. His penis size works perfect for me.
You’re callin 8 perfect and it’s way above average yet you say size doesn’t matter
It's an instinctual thing. We don't want them scary unnatural big, but a big penis is the sign of a lot of testosterone. Just like big boobs and wide hips are signs of a lot of estrogen. We're naturally attracted to these things.
I understand that. But I'm just streaking speaking visually, not for sexual use and practical use during sexual intimacy. But like, it seems there can never be too big? lol. Realistically. So, I was just curious why it is guys have certain general ranges of preference on girls breasts and butts etc, but a majority of girls, like I've said above with the social norm, desire a bigger more impressive penis, no matter what lol it seems. How big IS too big visually? And therefore starting to get less
attractive.
That's exactly why it's visually attractive. People don't seem to realize that the things that make someone a better mate for procreating are the very same things we're turned on to look at. That's why its a turn on lol And I would say anything about 10 inches would be too big and look funny. I also think this compares to height issue with women. Most women prefer tall to short, where men have diff preferences as long as she's shorter than him. Yes it's more strict for you guys, but there are
I've always thought that it was guys who cared more about their own size and gave the impression that big is better. I don't think many girls really do care..
That's what I'm starting to believe now : / ... Its like a desirable social norm.
It probably has something to do with the size of the woman's vagina. Let's take another example. Do women like tall guys? I guess we should define tall. Tall as in taller than them, then yes. So take a women who's small ( short ). There are plenty of men for her to choose. Now take a woman who is big ( tall ). She wants to date a man who's taller than she is. So, in the end, the man she prefers is based on her size.
trust me having a big penis is not always the best thing, plenty of times when I have to stop halfway because any more deeper and she will get hurt so most of the time you have to hold back, but then you get women that can handle it and its amazing for both of us
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Its the same reason us guys like a woman with a big butt or breasts.
Same thing, its eyecandy and it looks fun to play with.
Let them fantasy or chase after what they desire, Guys or Girls.
I don't care about size..in fact, I don't care about penis's...They are weird looking...hahaaaaahaaa
Excuse me for asking, but are you a lesbian. I'm only asking because of what you said. Or you just don't like penises.
lol, nah, she just is very unfortunate to not have much sexual attraction down there lol. So am i, I'm not attracted to vagina's at all lol. And I'm definitely not gay lol. Everything else in the female body rocks :P ... Don't generalize it to the attraction of the downstairs area! FGS lol.
what is FGS? and, no I am not a lesbian..I am very straight! I think my boyfriend is damn fine..but, his penis..is I do not know...They all look...weird! hahaaaaa
ive never liked them. they scare me haha.
Not even just to look at and play with?
More stimulation. Why do guys like tight vaginas? Same reason.
Im asking for visual attraction. Like foot longs arn't comfortable for sexual stimulation lol. But there nice to look at. Don't you think?
Penises are penises. If you're used to big penises then you might prefer them. They're nice to look at. But I can guarantee you that most girls who like biggies like them not because of visual attraction necessarily but because of stimulation.
Better explanation: We like them when we see them because it's instilled in us that it means more stimulation or better sex.
The only time that I am turned on by a penis is if there is a man attached to it.
big d***s are scary every time I see one I'm like that is not going in me. it doesn't turn me on whatso ever just medium is perfect for me :]
But there nicer to look at? :P
not too big.. that's scary.. but I guess it depends on the girl.
I mean just to look at, for visual attraction, not sexual intercourse or activity.
ok.. then it's like the same thing for a guy that sees big boobs or ass..
But whens it too big? like 13 inches + ? or more?
Who cares
Who cares about anything? The more you know, the more you can fulfill those curiosities lol. And act towards them. Why else would people ask questions on here?
Get over your dikk-obsession already. Do you see girls asking a billion questions about vaginas her? Nop. So stop whining
Dont be so hypocritic. Girls ask about there sensitivities. Just because vagina's aren't portrayed differently and emphasized to be other preferences more appealing in them, compared to penis size - bigger is more appealing. Girls have there insecurities and curiosities over guys opinions and preferences to there ass, hips, stomach, t*ts, legs, hair what ever... so do guys. Why be so insensitive and ignorant? You have in-sensitivities too.
Maybe its more manly? Idk...
Is it still VISUALLY arousing, not for use, but just to look at if its 11 or 12 inches?
big d*cks are fun! Like to me it's kinda like a challenge. How much can you fit in your mouth without gagging? hahah I'm not trying to be mean but when you expect a guy you're with to have a big one and he whips out a little carrot it's sort of a let down... but when it comes to just plain looking at them...d***s aren't very pretty to begin with...but neither are vagina's on the other hand..
Is average a disappointment too?
can be so big it can hurt, like with my guy :/
it's like everything else in life: there's a happy medium between big and small that'll satisfy any girl. I guess that'd be the average penis size...which is 5.1 to 5.9 inches.
because a small d*** can't satisfy us
its like at subway...why get a 6 inch when you can get a footlong for the same price
So in the ideal world how big would the most ATTRACTIVE VISUALLY looking d*** be ? 14 inches?
nothing less than 24 inches...everything else is just inadequate
Same reason we love boobs there fun to play with
LMAO a penis is fun to play with? I find them quite frightening...haha
You should play with you boyfriends more, the more you get to know it the more friendly it will be to you ;)
interesting, good sir...I will try...HAHA..how should I play with it? can we play dress up?!
umm we don't like massive penises. I like normal sized ones, anything over 7 inches is too big for me.
Awww. Now I feel discriminated.
Not even just looking at it? Isn't like a 10 inch d*** visually more attractive than an 8 or 9 inch? Or 7 as you say.
d***s are not attractive in general, so it doesn't matter.
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