You always lay down the law before you begin. This isn't something one goes into with unclear expectations. When threesomes of any kind go wrong, it's usually because someone should have said something and didn't.
The tone would depend on who's girl she is; you don't want to go screwing around in someone's relationship. If she's no one's girl, then the three of us would set the tone equally. Ideally, everyone should always set the tone equally, but where there's an established relationship involved, that's going to take precedence.
I would know a friend better than a stranger, and I can act on that. Otherwise, ethics is ethics.
My sexual identity tells people what I'm into, not how I see myself. When I say "I'm straight", it means "I'm into girls", not "here's some made-up straight-guy bullsh*t I'm trying to live up to". If someone wants to call themselves straight and then go suck a c*ck, hell if I care.1 2 0 0I would interact with him to the extent necessary to coordinate whatever activity we're engaged in as it related to giving pleasure to the girl.
I wouldn't have a gay experience:
a. Because the thought of touching another guy in a sexual way is about as appealing to me as the thought of sex with a rotting corpse;
b. Unless the other guy is a sick f*ck, he's not going to want to have someone vomiting on him non-stop while he's trying to get off.
And it is unlikely enough that I would ever be asked to participate in a threesome with someone I know.
I would never get involved in a threesome with people I knew nothing about.0 0 0 0
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I fooled around with two guys once ... no sex, just touching and kissing. It was weird ... they were watching each other, but not touching each other. I would NEVER do this as part of a couple, it was awkward enough doing it as three single people, but I was young and curious.
0 2 0 1Probably best to be comfortable with it. If you're boning one girl, you're bound to get close to each other. Don't let this be awkward and don't think anything of it.
0 1 0 2If you're going to have an orgy, you have to wing it. There are three (or more) people's desires to be met. You're volunteering to satisfy all parties involved.
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0 5There is nothing wrong with a devils threesome. I've had a couple, but never the with guy being a stranger. It happens sometimes that you go out with a buddy to pick up women and you get one that wants sex with both of you. Not entirely uncommon. I'm not the least bit attracted to men and there is never any interactions between us. It's an unspoken rule. Keep your focus on the girl, don't cross swords, have a good time. It's just sex.
0 2 0 2I believe this was covered in an episode of friends.
You flip a coin.
One of you gets heads, the other tails.
Canadian nickles are ideal for this purpose.1 1 0 1Take turns, you go first, he goes second. Honestly seeing another male naked is a turn off, and I doubt that even the naked female I'm currently penetrating could circumvent that. I'm 100% straight male, I would never in my life have sex with the same female at the same time as another male.
"Would you let the other guy set the tone, and go along with whatever he wanted?" - NO!
I would have to go first, I'd settle for nothing less. Then when I'm done, the guy could THEN ENTER the room and have his go.
I would just avoid the whole experience itself.
Sorry, I typed all that before I read "your girlfriend" as in MY girlfriend? If so, I'm a selfish creature. I would never allow another male to have sexual intercourse with my girlfriend, especially if I'm in the same room. Nah man, couldn't do that. Don't like going where other men have been, I'm an explorer.0 0 0 1I consider myself heteroflexible. In the situation of a threesome with another guy I would only do one with a woman who wanted us to interact and would be turned on by it. I would only do it if the interaction between us was sexual in complimented the situation. I'm very comfortable with who I am and by my having consensual and pleasurable experiences at a young age I was able to expand my world view, gain overall confidence and be very comfortable with what I like before I was a teenager. More and more women are admitting that they like to see the interaction between guys and knowing that someone is turned on by it makes it all the better. To each their own. More ladies should admit that they like it and it will become mainstream. Just like anything else when it becomes more acceptable more people will admit they like it.
0 1 0 0Legally speaking you can't consent to any sex, let alone threesomes, "before I was a teenager". Not calling you a liar, just saying this is an odd way to make such an odd claim to a felony.
Hey, an unlabled/androgyne*(u knw wht i mean)/ambg. - nonby/fluid b*y here, i think🤔
there's no prob in sharing w a dude/another guy /a normie : 'my quick term for str8' (im not gonna say cis, here)
if there's a g@l present (the at/@ sign means the girlfriend/random girl *(w're hittin) is also bi/or what-not)
then it wld really fine by me
and also what if that other b*y/guy is in smwhat in a demi-* *'cycle'*(u know what conservatives call 'phase')
then it wld also be mindopening and also be a guide that i can't touch tis (possibly) 3rd whell/dude/guy in a rom./sensual /and amorous or possessive way but rather in (what we call
platonic, etc... way)0 0 0 0
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