How much do you guys jerk off thinking about girls you know?

[chicaa]

my boyfriend and I were arguing about this the other day. I told him about a guy who I think is a creep and jerks off thinking about me (not creep because he jerks off, he's just creepy in general). so he laughed at me and told me that I'm very naive if I think that he's the only person that does that. he said that a ton of guys who I know have probably done that while fantasizing about me. so the question is: do you jerk off while thinking about girls you know? what is taboo? like girls who are stricktly your friends?

[Anonymous]

To be honest, I don't care much for p*rnstars. They are just tools.

I use them to emulate girls I actually like in person. Let's say I met a cute curvy blond with brown eyes, and we really hit it off.

I would find p*rnstars that fit closest to her description. So yes, guys do jerk off thinking about girls they like, but to what degree varies from person to person. When a lot of guys show a preference they don't even realize that preference is influenced by girls they like.

[chicaa]

yeah, that sounds logical!

[wpmason]

Yeah, I do. Might look at pics online to get going, but then I switch over to my imagination. I've got one friend whom I've heard having sex and have seen completely naked, so she's my subject a lot. It's cool though because we talk about stuff like that and she is flattered that I lust after her. Otherwise there are several other friends I'm just really curious about.

[Anonymous]

do guys masturbate to thoughts of their girlfriends?

[chicaa]

i know mine does.

[Opinion Owner]

i asked my ex boyfriend once if he masturbated to thoughts of me and he said never

[chicaa]

well I don't know about other guys. were you still together? if you asked after you broke up, there's no way he would tell you he did, I guess.

[Opinion Owner]

no we were together at the time. ironic considering I was really out of his league. hottest he could ever get

[chicaa]

haha well, either he didn't admit it or he just preferred having actual sex with you.

[Sashabee]

As a girl who masturbated a lot growing up, I remember being so surprised to find that when I was finally in a relationship, I couldn't masturbate to the guy I was with. For some reason, it just didn't work to turn me on in fantasy, even though we had a fantastic sex life in reality. I think it's actually quite common NOT to fantasize about the person you are with during masturbation, since its our time to imagine things that might be impossible or unrealistic...

[shyguy89]

honestly a lot of guys jerk off to p*rn more than anything cause those are fanasty girls most of us try to compare to real girls but none of the talents or skills add up..

[-Darling]

Huh?

[shyguy89]

what I'm saying yes we do cause we all know that p*rnstars do it all lol

[BobBobinson]

Eh, I think a lot of guys do, but I never have, I try to avoid it.

It just seems really... creepy, know what I mean? Especially if it's one of my friends.

[chicaa]

yeah well it sounds creepy, but everyone has fantasies. it didn't surprise me that guys jerk off to girls they meet but I was thinking about like sexy teachers and stuff like that.

[BobBobinson]

Men are still far more likey to jerk off to someone they don't actually know in real life, it avoids the whole awkward feeling when you talk to them because you never WILL talk to them.

[sunseeker11]

I masturbate to p*rn all the time but when I go to bed I jerk off thinkin of doing what I saw in the p*rn with someone I know or just met cause they are real. Do girls think of guys when they masturbate?

[chicaa]

not really. I mean, sometimes but unless its my boyfriend its not very common. but yeah, we do fantasize, it does not always leads up to masturbating, though.

[sunseeker11]

do you think of a guy naked or imagine someone you know naked, not necessarliy to masturbate but just imagine what they look like

[chicaa]

if its an ex or my boyfriend its usually memories. if its fantasizing about guys well then its any scenarios that pops into my mind. not really about his body, more of what he'd do with it. oh, yeah, another question: do guys fantasize about exes or girls they slept with?

[Aigoo]

Yes i do that a lot..

[ENTP_EMO]

Um, I prefer to jerk off to people I know. It's more personal and fun. So all the hot bitches on my FB. You're all jerked.

-My smart and wise friend's opinion not me

[Stormblessed]

I literally never fantasize about famous people or celebrities. As a pre-teen/teen/early twenties it was always people I knew and was curious about.
But in all honesty, I now mostly focus on the feeling, pressure, pace, how close I am to the edge, etc., with only some generic scenarios. Sometimes I think about past sexual encounters that stick in my memory (therefore people I know) because the experience was particularly hot, or generic fantasies that are faceless (nobody I know, for lack of better explanation).

This is tricky and therefore the reason a lot of guys simply won't tell you 100% of what they fantasize about - consider: if it's porn they're perverts, if it's people they know then they're creepy/gross, if it's celebrities they're shallow, if it's they're loved one then why aren't they just having sex with them?,... judged negatively for many reasons our d*ck is in our hand lol!

[MikeK]

Sometimes, but not nearly to the extent that I jerk off while watching p*rnography... it's very rare actually

[jfazzle101]

Most of the time. Even when I watch porn I look for a video that looks like someone I know that I imagine that they are them.

[Ezmotts]

I don't think about girls I know when I'm jacking off, that's disgusting.

[convo_king89]

I think. about it all the time

[Alpha93]

I jerk off to girls I know becasuse they turn me on more than p*rnstars do.

[Blais]

Just about every morning. I always try to think of a person I know. Makes it more fun that way!

[chicaa]

not making it awkward when you actually meet them?

[FloNamath]

I mostly think about girls from work. Sometimes I watch porn and imagine that it's a girl I know.

[xXxAx3LxXx]

There's something called p*rn.

[idssdi]

I usually do because it tends to be the most realistic person you cn actually have sex with

[Dulo01]

Yes, yes it's true

[GKarlsson]

Sometimes

[salmonfamine8]

90 percent of the time.

[PypeLayin01]

Yeah lol. Only to girls I know. I may watch porn but I search for women who remind me of who turned me on that day. If ur boyfriend told u that you're probably great jerk off material lol.

[Anonymous]

All the time. Also to women who aren't friends. But mostly to my girlfriend because the sex with her is great.

[Anonymous]

I never watch p*rn . It's dirty and gross and it isn't realistic. I think it's sexier to fantasize myself making love to a girl who I know. Plus I have a relationship with them so I can build a more realistic fantasy.