Is it too much to ask your girlfriend to give a blowjob to completion?

[Anonymous]

It seems like woman don't want to give a guy a blow job until he cums. Many woman view blowjobs as a way to get their man hard before sex. Maybe they look at it as foreplay? I currently assume that girls only give guys blowjobs to completion win they are trying to win them over. Otherwise girls give blowjobs to completion if the guy is very wealthy or if he is very hot. Two things at which a girl wants to make sure to KEEP. Otherwise, are other guys having the issue that girls don't want to give blowjobs to completion? Disclaimer, I am not some jerk telling a girl I want a blowjob and not doing anything in return. I often eat her out as the focus of the sexual encounter. It seems like women never want to return the favor.

[cun7n1nja]

I have no problem with just giving a bj to a guy I'm into. Winning a guy over, how hot he is, and how fat his wallet is are irrelevant to me. I'm a giver, if I'm into a guy, I'm going to want to go down on him because I enjoy it and like pleasing him.

Though usually I DO also want to have sex. So if he can go again afterward, awesome. If it's unlikely, a full bj to completion might be more rare. Not that I don't want to do it, but I'd be more likely to start with a bj, move into sex for a while, and FINISH that session with him in my mouth for the last portion [not like him just jacking off into my mouth, unless he'd prefer that], rather than just blowing him the whole time. I've never had any complaints about it though, lol. =P I'm also cool with just mutual oral and can be satisfied with just that, but I generally like each session to be some varied combination of hands, oral, AND intercourse, and maybe occasionally throw in some anal.

[Asker]

yup...that is a bunch more than many of the really hot girls I have been with are willing to do. The less attractive or younger girls or newer girls were more likely to do stuff like that. But to me, that sounds perfect!

[cun7n1nja]

Lol it all comes down to compatibility. You need to focus more on finding a girl you'll be compatible with and who likes the same things you do sexually, rather than getting the hottest girl you can find. Because you can't judge compatibility by how a girl looks.

[ItsNotShaved]

No, not to much to ask occasionally, just not always. I like doing them to completion sometimes. But not always because once he comes it gets soft and limp, and I may still want it hard for a while.

[Asker]

you can give a blowjob and have sex..and then finish with a blowjob. The most important thing I am mentioning is completion with a blow job.

[InquisitiveJoe]

As you are dating hopefully you will talk about sex. Initially I could endure some reluctance, but if the relationship is going to continue, I explain that sexual release is a necessary part of our intimacy. If she is not willing to give head or have sex, then we are not relationally compatible. There are plenty of girls out there that give head and enjoy it. Don't get stuck with someone who doesn't care enough about you to see a task to completion.

[l-hedoniste]

Nothing's too much to ask, as long as you can be cool with the no.

[Chels01]

I love giving blow jobs. Makes me feel in control and I love when he comes in my mouth. It’s so empowering and I love how it tastes.

[Anonymous]

Sore jaw.

[Anonymous]

only if you don't give her oral to completion.