Butt plug question about small butt plugs?

I just got a small butt plug to use during vaginal sex with my boyfriend. I have a larger butt plug but it takes longer to put in. Using the small plug it falls out during a lot of positions. Does anybody have any experience in using small butt plugs and how do you keep them in place without falling out?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • While I certainly understand the attraction of a smaller butt plug, unless you have an extremely strong sphincter and can control it during sex, you're going to have it continually falling out. Some things you can do to lessen the amount of time needed to get in the big one are (and some of these may be obvious but you'd be surprised what people overlook):

    1) Use a good water based lube. I recommend Astroglide. It's very slick and works well with plastic and glass plugs.

    2) Lay on your back with your legs up and have him start it in. Make yourself relax completely (put your legs on his shoulders so you can) and remember to breathe, long and deep.

    3) Keep firm, constant pressure on the plug. If it starts to hurt too much, back off a little but not all the way and wait for the pain to pass.

    4) Have him dilate your anus with fingers first.

    5) Start with the smaller one and then use the larger one before he enters you.

    6) In doggy, he can hold in the smaller one but that isn't all that much fun.

    Hope this helps.

  • I thought that it was a little strange, with one, but she liked feeling the toy in her bottom as we had sex. She wore a thong, and pulled it aside so I could get in, but the rest of it held her toy in, pulling it aside, catching the base of the toy, and she loved it!!

Most Helpful Girls

  • I had the same problem and my boyfriend got me a bigger one an I use it like…many days when my boyfriend tells me too.

  • wtf is a butt plug and WHY do you need one? lol

    sorry I've just nvr heard of this b4

    • Its a toy that you use in your butt, it makes your p**** tighter so gives you bigger orgasms.

    • Like everything else kinky, rely on Wikipedia

      link

      It even has images. Some vibrate some don't.

      I don't usually miss having sex with another guy but if I do I get it out of the drawer for a while.

      And hope that my daughter doesn't come snooping around and then wondering what it is.

    • You might want to try a toy with a bigger bulb -- shaped more like the Ace of Spades than the classic BP. A little harder to get in, but much harder to push out. It is not so much longer than a standard BP, but a thicker head and a smaller neck allows the anus to clamp around the neck more firmly. If it is that good, why not just have anal? His dik won't fall out!

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  • Butt plugs are meant for... how to I say this... "not vaginal use"

    That's part of your problem.

    • learn to read...

    • I did. "I just got a small butt plug to use during vaginal sex with my boyfriend. " And my take on that context was that she wasn't using it for her butt.

    • I have no idea how you came to assume she was using it for her vagina and I don't want to know.

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  • The small one is more than likely too small your anus has adjusted to big objects making it looser, which means when your using the small one it just can't stay in there correctly, I say keep the big one or try a medium sized one.

  • Did you get one that is really well shaped -- meaning that it swells out, then shrinks down?... that way, when you insert it, it is more likely to stay in place.

  • Get some white tape at the drug store that is made for skin. Get in doggy. Have him tape little plug in place. You can't miss!

  • I read a story one time that someone taped one in. But I dont recommend that. Just thought I would share.

  • I had to get rid of my smallest one because it would fall out. Start getting used to the larger one, but take your time and use lube. Don’t force it, put it in a little at a time and relax. If you don’t use it for a while it will take longer to put in.

  • Just use the bigger one. He's not going to object to taking his time putting it in you.

  • Even though the big one takes longer I recommend it.

  • You should use the large one and take your time. It will be more enjoyable. Have your boyfriend play with your asshole while it goes in. My ex used to love when I did that to her. Make it something for for the both of you and you will enjoy it.

  • i think it is a must that he tries it too so he knows what you are experiencing

  • Maybe you both with your guy shoud use a double ended butt plug at the same time or a double ended dildo so it goes into both butts at the same time?

  • if you can shove the big one up, then it's fine to use. your small one is probably too small.