Different types of orgasms, peeing, and squirting?

1)) I learned how to get myself off with fingers instead of using a vibrator, and I can actually do it pretty fast. I used to worry that I would only be able to climax with my vibrator and a guy wouldn't be able to make me climax (No one ever has, but they weren't so good at what they did, and I haven't been with that many guys, I'm not that type of girl). But now that I realized I can orgasm with fingers alone, does this mean a guy will be able to get me off? 2) The idea of peeing kind of turns me on. I don't know why but while I masturbate, imagining that he's making me pee when I orgasm helps me climax better even though if I release any liquid it is not a noticeable amount, and I don't even pee when I climax. If you release some liquid during orgasm will you definitely feel it? 3) When I finger my G spot alone it feels somewhat good but definitely not enough to make me come. When I finger my clit alone I can come. But when I do both at once, it is extremely intense and gives me the most pleasure and a more intense orgasm. Does this mean that I won't be able to come during sex without someone rubbing my clit? Last time he didn't and I didn't orgasm..but since it was my first time having sex it just hurt a lot anyway. 4) My orgasms are extremely mental when I masturbate. If I'm not focusing hard enough and telling myself certain things are actually happening and that it's him (whoever I'm fantasizing about) on my body, I can't seem to orgasm no matter how hard I rub etc. But when I imagine it is him and let my mind wander, I can climax quite easily. Is this typical for a female?
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  • 1.) Yes he will probably be able to get you off with his fingers - you will have to instruct him how hard to rub, or tell him any specifics that will simulate what you do to get off.

    2.) It's called " water play," a relatively common fetish where partners add pee into sexual play. There are a fair amount of guys into it - so don't think your weird for having that like :P YES you can feel liquid being released during climax - sometimes it feels like pee, but it's not. It's a clear liquid released by a gland down there. Called " squirting." I managed it a couple times - great orgasms - but I hear not a lot of women can do it. Need tons of stimulation too.

    3.) The clitoris has a sh*t load of nerves in it, so it's very easy to come from clitoral stimulation. The g - spot, yea it doesn't feel as pleasurable, but it's pleasurable in a sense of the pressure. I can gasm from g - spot stimulation alone - but I have to use a lot of friction and pressure. Maybe you have to add a bit more pressure or speed?

    4.) Makes sense - I think everyone does a bit of visualizing during personal sessions, just to intensify the moment, and keep the body sexually aroused. I do it to, and so do all my friends lol, so it is typical of a female I'm sure. It is harder sometimes to get off without the mental stimulation as well - so your focus is good.

    • I don't believe that no females pee during climax..how can we resolve this?

    • Oh I don't know if they do or not. I'm sure it could happen if there's enough pressure on the bladder - but usually during climax everything squeezes up really tight down there - including the urethra tube for the urine. I can't pee climaxing personally because of that, but I'm sure there are some people who can.

    • My lover pees during orgasm, ewspecially from oral. Sometimes a little spritz sometimes a lot. Once during oral she had a two second oops that had me blowing bubbles when I breathed out.

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  • Sounds like you have it all figured out. Your one lucky girl! Send me a message, few things I would like to ask, being as your anoy though maybe not.

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    • She's not bi...She's a friend of mine...(:

    • thanks, and I have a boyfriend too.

Most Helpful Guys

  • 1) yes a guy will definitely be able to get you off now just stay relaxed :)

    2) if liquid comes out of your pxxsy you will definitely feel it but when you climax itll feel like you need to pee that feelin is not pee you need to push it out its actually ejaculate and it feels 10000000x betteer when you let it out and you will feel it for sure it feels amazing.

    3) you don't usually come while sex I don't think ever but foreplay and oral sex is always what does it.

    4) its typical for everyone males too I do it when you imagine it you orgasm faster its just natural :)

    hope this helped :)

  • You can always talk to me about peeing..have been into that Big Time for years & years...My partners usually pee while I am giving them oral and they all love it. See I feel like some females DO pee at orgasm..but I don't have any way to validate..in a lot of cases they pee before orgasm. But I believe it is possible to stimulate females at the poit of orgasm until they lose control...that's fun...(:

    • I knew you wouldn't miss this one.

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  • ewww I can't ever date a girl who pees or squirts when orgasming.