Well me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time...well wouldn't really call that embarrassing situation 'sex'.
I mean..he couldn't even barely get the head of his d*** in me without me screaming! It felt like I was being punched in the vag! He was going in slowly but I had to tell him to stop, the condom be bought was not well lubricated and neither was I. Things got a little awkward afterward and I could tell he was disappointed..but so was I. I didn't expect mind blowing orgasms right there but at least have him go inside me all the way! Sheesh -___- I wonder if its just because it was the first time and I'm really tight or if I have some sort of condition where sex is always going to hurt. =/
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it is normal for sex to be painfull the first time. But the condom without lube isn't helping.
Try more foreplay, Maybe buy some lube.
I don't think there is anything wrong with you. If it is your first time, it can be more painfull if you are nervous because you are tense. try to relax.1