Seriously, I'm a 34 year old virgin. I never intended for this to happen, I just never had the opportunity to experience a romantic or sexual relationship. I would like to have a family someday, but obviously things are not looking so bright. I really am starting to worry that I will never find someone, and I will be left to live my days out as a virgin. So would you date a 34yo virgin? In addition, any thoughts or suggestions to help me out of this situation would be great.
(Guys who respond: Please be constructive and respectful or don't say anything at all. Also, finding a prostitute is not an acceptable option.)
Thanks in advance to those who can offer any real help.
Most Helpful Guy
Alright bro I'm gunna be completly honest.
If you are 34 and still a virgin, there is something wrong.
Look at yourself in the mirror, are you happy with what you see. You should start hitting the gym and get a nice body, and then you'll feel more confident.
Also make sure you have a styled hair cut, nice clothes that firt your body type and you need to smell good.
Now its only the matter of you finding a girl who you can date or have sex with. Now if you just want this virginity thing out of the way, I suggest you go to the bar, get a few drinks in. Then scope out the place. Once you see a girl who you like, buy her a drink. Then if she comes to thank you for it, ask fro her number, but remember to be genuine, don't act like something you're not. Also, do not tell her that your a virgin, sheel be just a girl you can get some practice on.
I suggest you get sex for a while, before you decide to date a girl, becuase then she probably won't feel satisfied and cheat anyway.
Main thing bro:
-Think that you are the sh*t, and you'll look confident, but don't be cocky.
-Look fresh, clean and with style.
-Be happy, smile alot.
-And don't be a afraid to get rejected.5
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