The other posts talk about lube and relaxing, and they're right.
But also, and maybe most importantly, you need to have a partner that you have FULL TRUST in. You have to trust that he will go very slowly and carefully when he enters you initially, and that he will stop instantly if you ask, and remove himself if you ask. If he's the kind of guy who is instantly going to forget that it isn't all about his pleasure, then it can easily be uncomfortable or even painful.
In my experience, most women need some loosening up with first one, then two fingers (using lube, of course), before he uses his penis. Then, he needs to enter is slow steps, stopping along the way until she gets used to the sensation, before pushing in the next step. And once all the way in, again, he should pause and let her get used to having him in her there. Once a girl gets used to the idea and the feeling, she will relax, and he can start some slow, gentle thrusts, eventually building up some speed and power as she gets more comfortable.
Every girl I've done this with has found that it is very pleasurable, though it's also common for girls to take a week or two to "think about it" after the first time before wanting it again. Girls kind of have to get used to it before they can relax and enjoy it, and they get their at their own pace. I always let my girl decide when she's ready for it again, not putting any pressure on her, and before I know it, she's asking for it again.
About half the girls I've been with have told me "I've always wanted to try...", and the other half said "I've done it a couple of times, and it was painful and bad and I said 'never again', but with you..." It's the trust factor that made them open to the idea: knowing that I would put her needs ahead of mine, so that she could relax and not worry that she'd have to endure discomfort and pain just because she "agreed to try it." Letting the girl proceed at her own pace, even if that means stopping for the night and waiting a week or two to try again, is the key.
There are two key points on recieving anal, you need to relax and you need to use more lube than you think you do.
The lube part is easy, just make sure there is enough of it on him that he could get it in between... A couple of things that are extremel tightly pushed together I guess...
The relaxing part is a bit more difficult. You're naturally going to want to try to push it out so you're going to have overcome that and teach yourself to relax your butt muscles. I would suggest investing in a couple butt plugs or dildoes to practice that with as it's not an overnight thing to learn to relax.
Once you have those two things down it is quite enjoyable.
Its called first you have to relax and take the time to prep meaning he has to finger your ass and do a sissoring motion . Use a lot of lube , have him enter you slowly and maybe having him massage you will drive your focus on that area of your body and maybe even have him nibble on your neck while he is at it works too. But hey those work for me. and go slow.
Use lubricants, they will help alot, also massage the anus before sex. This may sound strange but putting a piece of ice would numb the anus. :P
use a ton of lube and itll just slip in and out ! holllaa
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Have him start with lubricated stimulation of the outside, no penetration.
Then one lubed finger. Once that feels 'easy' add a second finger. You'll probably need a few minutes at that stage before you feel ready for more.
When he tries with his penis, just slowly ease it in, then sit still while you're getting used to it. You may want to pull out,a dd more lube, then go back in before he tries thrusting.
um not really just use vasaline and don't get on top tell him to play with it before he just sticks his d*** in it lossin it up a little then put it in and do it real slow at first then pick up speed
Lots and lots of lube, entering slowly and communication leading up to it and during it. Don't be afraid to speak up - it can be quite enjoyable for the both of you if done right!
Just use a ton of lube and take it slow...
You have to be super relaxed so no muscles are tight, lots and lots of lube, lots of foreplay like starting with one finger moving up to two and finally his penis and he has to start out really really slow and probably should not put it all the way in depending on how long he is. Have a safe word in case it hurts so he knows to stop. Tell him before you do it that if you accidentally tighten up during it make sure he pulls out really slow so he doesn't tear you.
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