Chlamydia is one of the most common STDs, and 1 in 4 men with chlamydia do not have symptoms.
Yes, he was irresponsible/ignorant for not getting proper STD testing.
But if you know it's not his fault and that he didn't cheat, then I think you just need to take a deep breath, take your medication, and move past this. I know it seems devastating, but Chlamydia is treatable and you caught it early. That's a good thing. Use this as a learning experience.1 0 0 0That's the thing though, like what the f*** am I learning from this? If I was sleeping around and having one night stands and got an STD, yeah, you live and learn to protect yourself in the future. I was in a monogamous relationship with a trustworthy man. There is nothing else in the world I could have done to protect myself aside from holding him down and testing him. I asked, I used condoms for a long time until we had mutual trust, like what the hell did I learn?
Well, perhaps if you're ever with a new partner, the two of you could go and get tested together, or you could ask more specifically what he was tested for/how he was tested?
Yeah true. I'm sorry if I sounded snappy I'm just like... beside myself. I'm scared that I won't get over this and I really do love him.
If you catch it early, which it sounds like you did, you can treat chlamydia..
My best mate got the all clear from it just last week (:
Yes, your boyfriend was an idiot. But if he geuninely didn't know you can't blame him.. These things happen. Learn from it and move on.
And make sure he gets treated for it too.0 0 0 0He could have had it the entire time and not known. Just because he didn't have any symptoms doesn't mean he cheated and only picked it up recently.
0 0 0 0Not true, tho most men don't have symptoms, the female will more often than not have a start of issues within 5 to 14 days from the date of exposure. According to the CDC anyways
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If you know he didn't cheat, then catching Chlamydia (which you can also get through a condom) is unfortunate, but it happens.
If you trust him, then maybe you need to let go of this. You see, there is always a risk of catching something when you are in close contact with someone. When you kiss your boyfriend, you can also catch the flu from him. Would you be upset if he gave you the flu without meaning to?0 0 0 0It's just like... I mean it's NOT the flu is the thing. How would you feel if you got a random call out of the blue saying oh he guys what? You have a sexually transmitted disease. Welcome to the statistic.
I obviously understand how you feel. It sucks to learn that you have an STD. I'm just saying that there is no reason to inflate this to more than what it is: Chlamydia is not dangerous when treated. It will normally go away in a short period of time by taking antibiotics (for no longer than a week). So all I'm saying is that if you trust that your boyfriend isn't cheating on you, and did not know that he had it, I think it's just one of those things that happen.
How did he not know? I didn't know You see guys DON't go to the doctor like women do we go when we're hurt or have to go get a test (HAVE TO) YOU go what 6 times or more a year? And you as a women need to get your plumbing check multiple times a year GUYS NEVER DO.
How the hell would he know. How to get over it is to Grow Up and say over and over again Shit Happens and calling him a retard doesn't help.0 0 0 0Getting checked for STDs is not an abnormal thing for a man to do. If you're sexually active, you get tested. End of story. Especially if you plan on being intimate with someone you love.
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1 1Sex is not for everyone? Ugh, that just made it worse...
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Guru is it? The gentleman who responded genetically with a grain of salt attitude? "Meh, least it's curable!.. you don't know for sure (this is where you bring up the stats am I right, the 1 in 4 or most men don't show symptoms, it's very common (so is that foot you're jamming in your mouth pal) week worth of meds you're all good! Move on!" Buddy you're a fucking Moron and know fuck all about women lmao... although what you do know is how to mindfuck them, manipulate them when things get a tad uncomfortable for you... that's blatantly obvious.. I have a strong feeling your Daddy owns this... GirlsaskGuys... your idea? And he fronted the money? Lol.. ya I'm making fun of you cause you're an ass. Should of listened, heard and perhaps showed an empathetic ear upon responding to and not just when she got emotional and you felt it was about you...
To the young lady, both of you should go back after 2 weeks of treatment and get tested again that is how you stop the spread, refrain from sexual contact till you get the full STD screening. It's likely no one cheated. It was brought into the relationship.. if she let it go for longer than 2-3 weeks after initial contract she would know it, he on the other had may have had slight uncomfortable urination perhaps even a discharge. Worse case a rash. Depends on your system, diet, meds you're on also believe it or not ethnicity if/how/when symptoms will appear.. that include alcohol intake, auto immune deficiencies, CNS disorders, even type of lubes, creams, toys, fabrics you wear and use. Coconut oil for one has been prove so evidence based to kill bacterial growth caused by yeast infections but only a will also help prevent bacterial/vital infections not against STDs... many benefits. Know your shit Guru.. this lady walked her path and my view which is just as much shit as yours nonetheless she owned her shit and took responsibility... so don't make light of a situation like an STD that some nasty dirty girl gave some guy and didn't tell him... not to say her wasn't gullible, oh yes he was.. needs a lesson in how to clarify to understand.. yes... but I believe her.. and lady I'm sorry but you reached out that's shows courage, you worked through your struggle that shows resilience, and saw the glass as not a metaphor but yet... you drank it and found a solution you deserved... Bravo!0 0 0 0
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