Today Actually, I accidentally touched a girl's ass (btw it went in the crack as well). Before you judge me let me tell you the story. The teacher was talking from the back of class. So I turned my chair and rested my face on my right hand. Then the other teacher asked girl to pass out papers. (Just for some context I was in school and theirs a desk behind me). Then as she was passing the papers she attended to squeeze through my elbow and he desk behind. I wasn't aware of this. But my elbow went across her ass and into her crack and then across the other cheek right before my eyes. And I expect her to say something but she didn't. And know I feel really embarrassed.
You are probably the only person that knows what happened. You did not get a reaction and you did not react in a way to draw attention to the accident. She probably didn't know it was your elbow or any part of your body. It is conceivable that she could have just thought it was the corner of a desk that she bumped up against. Being that she did not react you shouldn't feel embarrassed.
Well when I accidentally touch a girls butt and I notice it, even if I say sorry that girl thinks I'm saying sorry for bumping into to her. except today on December 15, 2014 someone step on the back of my right shoe my, foot rammed into the ground and right at the girls butt, my face slams into it, then I roll back on my feet like I was part of the matrix and she sped away and somehow no-one managed to get hurt. Plus I where glasses so I felt none of it and even more unlikely of the 10 lbs. Paper in my hands didn't fall at all.
Yeah, it happens sometimes. Especially in crowded situations like cars or packed bars. I had my boobs accidentally brushed or touched by probably dozens of people at the bar last night. Some I knew and some I didn't, but it's not a big deal and I don't think much of it. No apologies necessary if I know you, but strangers usually apologize for bumping into you anyway. Though my gay friend was rowdy drunk and brazenly grabbed at them, haha, but I just think that's funny and he makes me laugh.
I'd think it was an accident, unless there was some kind of grabbing motion involved. if you acknowledge it or say anything like what you suggested, then it's just weird. if you're attracted to someone, you should have to accidentally-on-purpose brush their ass to get their attention, there should be other features you can compliment her on without touching her. then once things get flirty and if she seems like she'd be open to it you can start to get more touchy feely
Your interpretation is nothing like what happened. I was with a friend in her car, and when she dropped me off we tried to hug. Long story short my arm hit the steering wheel and I sort of lightly punched her breast. Then I said that and we both laughed, but there's no real interest in anything romantic. She does tend to have a guy-like sense of humor, so maybe that's the difference.
People accidentally touch me all the time, its not a big deal. But if he said that, I would feel extremely uncomfortable :| I never expect an apology, but I certainly didn't want to hear that you liked it and so you're not apologizing :\ Makes it sound rude.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Happens a lot actually, usually when I do it I say something and say sorry. Or just say sorry haha, when it happens to me though I don't think it's awkward but I guess nothing usually gets awkward for me. If it's awkward for you maybe try laughing about it? That usually helps a situation
i can tell when its an accident and when its not. I developed early so I have had the "pretend it was an accident so I can cop a feel", they're not slick! if it truly was an accident I can tell.
You can normally tell when its an accident because of the guys reactions. If its an accident they normally go bright red with embarrassment or apologies constantly lol!
if it was a friend it really was probably an accident. its much less awkwerd if he says something. and if that's what he said then laugh and shrug it off. he's not gona pretend he didn't like it guys like touching girls! he's not gona purposly touch you innapropriatly but hey if it happens why would he regret getting a little feel? there's nothin weird behind it.
Thanks, I was started to feel very outnumbered.
What ? are you intending to make it look like an accident? LMAO
it work for killing people maybe it would work with this also :P
Nah... Just happens to me every now and then, and just wanted to know what the best way to react to it was. Accident or not, it's always pleasant though.
It’s not a big deal at least to me, and I think saying something about it will make it more awkward so just act like it didn’t happen :)
... with his penis.
With his tongue?
I tend to just ignore it, I don't really care, as long as its not like grabbing or anything. I think it's better to just ignore it, 'cause I had a friend who said something like "wow, that was awkward, I didn't mean to do that" and it really wasn't awkward until he said anything.
i just play it off but really i like it
If she didn't acknowledge this it doesn't mean anything. She most likely didn't know it was your elbow or any other part of your body. It could have as easily been the corner of the desk. Your reaction was not noticed and you got no reaction from her so there is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about.
In 6th grade one of my guy friends and I where like messing around and he accidentally poked me in the boob (which were barely developed by the way). When he realized what he did he looked like he was about to die and he apologized like 20 times. hahaha looking back at it makes me crack up so hard. Mostly I would say it was just an awkward experience to go with an awkward phase... anyways, I'm out!
Yeah, this guy went to give me a hug and almost planted his head right in between my boobs, we both laughed about it but I could tell he was embarrassed.
I would believe that it's an accident. I'd rather have him just ignore it. If he said something like that I would be creeped out..
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