Tips on how to ride a guy?

I've only tried being on top once so I'm not really sure how it's supposed to work. Obviously I sit on him, but then what? I grind up and down, side to side...? How am I supposed to support myself to push myself up and down?
Should I just watch some p*rn for pointers? lol.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • ahahah oh yeahhh gurlllll

    I mean, you'll figure most of this out, but, here are some winning tips to... get you off the ground. (Get you off the ground! ahah look how I did that)

    • You might want to put a pillow under the boy's ass, because deeper is better. (In fact, you may as well *always* put a pillow under whoever's on bottom, but, yeah.)

    • The primary action is back and forth, not up and down. If you are going up and down, then, (1) yr legs are gna get tired really fast, and, (2) you are pretty much doing life wrong in general.

    • Yr hands should be pretty far in front of you.
    --- If you are facing forward, they should IDEALLY be on his hands, pinning them overhead. This is the best positioning for yr own pleasure, if you are a selfish bitch who is concerned with yr own pleasure, as you should be (see below).
    --- If you are facing revers, they should be on the boy's ankles or feet.

    • The FORWARD part of the action is for YOUR selfish pleasure.
    This is why you should have yr hands so far forward. Because you have a clit, and if you are leaning forward, then you can basically masturbate yourself against him.
    Basically, you drag yr clit along the boy's body. Because yeahhhh.

    • The BACKWARD part of the stroke is where you are really gna *fuck* the boy.
    HARD.
    Here's my fav analogy for this:
    Imagine the boy's got paint on his legs, right underneath yr ass.
    If you are doing the backward stroke properly, you should be scraping that paint right off the boy. Strip that surface clean, girl. <3

    You'll get the picture from there.

    @smmyskittles sry, you'll probably be all hot and bothered from reading this, haha.
    Actually, well, shit, I just got *myself* all hot and bothered by writing this. Well, shit, lol.
    I know what's gna happen pretty soon after my husband wakes up...

    • You know me so well.. Was visualizing the 'deeds' as I read it. C'mon "scraping the paint off" was just meant to bother me wasn't it? ;)

    • Thanks :D Really helped!!!

    • Glad to hear it babe!

      Not the easiest thing to put into words lol -- hope I did a decent job for ya. <3

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  • Sit how ever is comfortable and move in all directions, circles, up and down, side to side, and any thing you can think of. It's really fun :D or ask him how he wants you to ride him :D it's simple!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Okay, if you are facing his head, you can 1: Slide up and down (vertically). 2: You can grind front (towards his head) and back (towards his legs) while leaning a little bit forward. If you are doing that, you can balance yourself with your knees bent, and legs flat on the floor (horizontally). Put your palms on his chest for extra support. 3: Slide up and down, or grind back and forth while leaning slightly back (don't lean too far back because that will hurt his penis. Your knees bent, and your feet flat on the floor. Push up with your legs. Placing your palms flat on the floor, or on his legs for balance, and extra support. 4. Same as #1, but along with sliding up and down, you can do the circular move you make when yo are swinging a hoop around your waist. (move your hips in a circle). If you are facing his feet. Same as #3, except, this time, don't lean too far forward. 5. You can rock back and forth (like riding a horse).



  • A -A frontal position; with him laying down on his back & and facing him. you can place your legs near his bellybutton (on the sides of him), so you can recline down onto him like your sitting down.

    B- With him in a chair or laying down & with your back turned from him. You can place your feet on his thighs for balance, and then you can slide up & down in a sitting motion.

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  • Well for a visual sense, yes watching p*rn would help your problem. But just straddle him and move slowly up and down while your laying on top. Try that out and get back to me for pointer #2.

  • Omg I need to know this answer. Same here girl. Want to have sex soon and my boyfriend has made it clear he likes when a girl rides but alas I am but a clueless little virgin lol

    • It actually went really well. From most of the advice on here, to what I just did naturally, it was great. I actually liked being on top better than when he took over. Just be sure to take it slow :D

  • if it is your first time I would not get fancy. Plus make sure the guy likes it first.
    I hate the woman being on top.

    • Thanks!!! Meh, he really liked it. Just goes to show all men are different :D

  • when I was a virgin one of my best friends told me its like dancing dirty with you whole body while on top of him but just don't do one move or one position because that gets old fast

  • since its your first time obviously take it slow. But once you're on top, moving your hips in circular motions will drive him crazy. Also for both of you try leaning back with him inside, as it will help hit the G spot as well as feeling good for him. You can also either be dominant top, or submissive top. Basically try switching between who does the hip movement and find what suits you two best. Hope this helps 😂

  • Heh Heh! This old man has not done that for awhile( or maybe I should say ..my aging wife? lol...however if memory serves me..is best if you can squat or rest on your knees? I don't know if I speak for all males but, at least with me, need you to go up & down vertically..I would not care for side to side..oh..and yes p*rn will set an example...but you seem like a bright girl..isn't exploring & experimenting half of the fun?..(:

  • Sit on his face first! then master his C

    • Wow XD I'm never going to see these freaking kid rides the same way haha >.<

    • The woman on the bull, I want to learn from her!!! Lol, I thought I had a leg "death grip" but she might have something on me there.. @Joc4position @Bertmacklinfbi

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  • Do you know how to do butterfly stroke in swimming?
    That seems like a helpful life skill

    • rofl hahahhaha see why everyone should get into swimming xD

    • @archiz exactlyyy!

    • Now for the nonswimmers

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  • A bit over the top, but you get the idea...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ab4srwcTNlw
  • Ever rode a unicorn? Yes? Good..
    Do it again, this time, sit on the horn.

  • A saddle and bridal help.

    • Pfft. XD

  • I guess you calm him first with a carrot then put a saddle on him then ride off into the sunset

  • Oh god. Make sure when you go back down that his dick is either inside you already or right at your entrance. It makes me cringe to think of a girl going back down and bending the dick🤕

  • It'll come natural, trust me 😏

    • Had enough dicks in your ass to know huh? :D

    • lol that's pretty funny, good one

  • I like how you have the date & time set. Tomorrow morning for sure; it's going down. Good hustle.

    But onto your question I suppose just get on top, grab his thing, and put it in your thing. Bonus points if you do it backwards (your butt facing his face aka reverse cowgirl). It's not one of the more "romantic" positions but it seems to hit all the right spots.

    • Gotta plan ahead haha. :D

  • Experiement. Do what feels good for you.

  • Well different styles sitting on him and and grinding or going up and down or squatting on him and riding him. Squatting you can go harder and faster.

  • Get a dildo stick it on a box and try it

  • watch videos on porn sites lol

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