Actually it is pretty normal for guys to receive more than girls.
If he doesn't enjoy giving oral then you can't do anything about it. I think if you could actually enjoy receiving knowing he doesn't enjoy giving then that says a lot about your character and makes you no less selfish than him.
I think you need to talk to him outside of sex, that way he knows it's a serious talk, not a spur of the moment type of deal0 0 0 0Oh, I have talked to him outside of sex. If I knew he hated oral, then I wouldn't enjoy getting it. But he keeps insisting he likes it and is sometimes just too lazy. It's true that he is often pretty tired and we do have sex all the time as is. Every time I try to talk to him about this he seems embarrassed and seems to think I'm telling him he's bad st sex...he's GREAT at sex, I just feel like he doesn't care enough about my pleasure the way I do about his. I think I got that across to him
I normally do not suggest this but if he's admitted to be lazy, then you can be lazy also.
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You could assert yourself more, by insisting on no BJ's, but you'll indulge in 69's.
Or you could try something like BDSM. Tie him to the bed, and ride his face for a while, before allowing him to have sex.
There are always options, in how you could approach it.0 0 0 0I don't know. I give more then I receive.
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1 3OK. I don't care what "most guys" do, and neither should you. If he's selfish in bed, that's no fun. That's bad and he should fix it. Period. You are right to be annoyed.
If he won't eat you out, someone else should.0 0 0 0i think you resolved the problem yourself. sounds like he genuinely cares, but just had the mentality that guys get more oral than girls typically. He probably didn't see an issue with it so he just enjoyed that fact that your willing to do him.
0 0 0 0You're absolutely right. It should be give and take never one sided in a relationship. Not cool he asks for bjs and doesn't return for you. I'm 100 percent give and take. If he doesn't like it and your ok with it as long as your getting other things and that that's good at least. And being tired is no excuse. If you live intercourse he should buck up and absolutely give you that.
0 0 0 0cut off all oral until he starts giving back
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