"But asking people on the internet about this has made it hard"
Then stop.
ALL that matters, is whether you and he can be happy in the relationship. If you think you can (and it sounds like it: "This seems like a SMALL issue to me, not a big one.") then make your relationship work your way.
You're the only one who has to live in this relationship. Not me, not any of us--you.1 1 0 0Sex is not a big part of relationships in my country, but if you want him to perform better make him have a power horse or red bull before sex. Have oral in a 69 position. You can buy yourself some sex toys and use them during intercourse. Buy a clitoris stimulator or something like that.
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If it's a small issue to you then why are you listening to strangers on the internet?
Yes, I get the irony here.0 2 0 0
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0 5Well what you can do is spice it up a little. If you offer to do 69 when oral comes up (lol sex pun) it might give him more motivation. Also don’t be afraid to bargain a little, 'if you do me ill do you “short of thing. Try it out and don’t be afraid to talk about sex to him!
0 0 0 0get behavior treatment for that OCD , it's pretty easy to treat it and it has a very very high chance of succes :D
try 69 maybe ? don't know how to make him like giving you oral more ... maybe get into sexual behavior treatment hahah :D ( so you can both have something treated XD )
I don't see why you would dump him for not receiving oral that much , a lot of guys don't like giving it , and a lot of girls would like more of it ...0 0 0 0And why are you listening to people on the Internet who know nothing about your relationship? How do you feel about your relationship otherwise, and is it really worth dumping your boyfriend over it? Who cares what other people say?
0 0 0 0You're acting like cunnilingus is important if you're going to break up over it. Will anything else help fill the gap -- a vibrator or other sex toys, other positions, acting on your sexual fantasies?
0 0 0 0So you're giving him oral often, but he's not giving you oral sex back? Is that the issue here?
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