When girls talk about penis size, how do they describe it?

how do they talk about it? i mean like, do they just keep it to "he is big" or "he isn't big" or do they go as far to say "he is small" "he is normal" "he is tiny" "he is huge" etc? also what size do you honestly prefer? what size can you deal with?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i am gonna be honest.

    girls talk.

    it depends on the girl. generally I think its pretty cheap and personal to talk about a guys penis size . although when I met my ex, I did tell my friends cos the sex was soo amazing and he was big, and I just wanted to share really.

    the only other time was when I was in love with a guy with a small penis (not really over him or his penis tbh) - I did tell a freind... not in a bitchy way but I was just sooo disappointed, still wanted him tho but he broke my heart :-(

    if a girl is in love she may not share your size but many do.

    iv heard many girls say "i like him but he's got a small willy"

    and "he's big"

    small willys are a turn off for me, my ideal size is 7.5 inches. just above average I think.

    but you come as you are!

    do the best with what you got!

    • Lol if 7.5 inches is just above average.. than a lot of guys are screwed. A LOT.

    • FYI 7"-8" is only 5% of the population. 8+ is only 1%. Most men fall somewhere between 5" to 6".

    • How small was that guy?

  • those are the terms I use. nothing too exciting.

    and I don't care or pay attention to specific sizes, so I couldn't give you measurements. I don't expect anything particular (i.e. - excessive length, extreme width) but generally like a well-rounded combo of both. I can take a lot, but it's really all about if a guy knows how to work what he's got.

    I've had very very well endowed men absolutely fail because they didn't really know how to maximize it's usage or what they were doing. And I've had average to under-endowed certainly make up for it and rock what they're working with.

  • The number one thing is you don't want to get a girl all hot and heavy without delivering - that means hard core bitchyness. I'm talking two times when a girl turns a guy on and leave him with blue balls. It's not all about size honey, nectar drinking is a good way to make up :-). We do like that!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys often have this illusion that women think of penises (penii?) in the same way that men think of breasts: that there's a constant discussion and evaluation of size, shape, etc.

    It's not usually that way.

    Look at this site, for example. Most of the questions about penis size come from guys. Women know that most dicks are 5-6 inches long, and roughly the same girth. There might -- might -- be a problem with satisfaction for her If you're extremely small, or extremely large.

    Otherwise, it's a non-issue to most girls.

    • LOL penii. I think it would be penis'. That made me laugh:P

    • Right--if you are on the very large or very small end, some girls aren't going to want you, and a slight few will prefer you. on both ends of the scale.

    • Honestly, there are a few size queens, and a few who like it small, but only the top or bottom 5% of men are going to especially appeal to these few women who care.

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  • I believe that no matter what a girl says to a guy to validate a guy and the size of his penis, if he's insecure about his size he will always deny it in the back of his mind. He'll sooner believe the the girl that contradicts the opinion of the girl that tries to be reassuring. It's easier to believe negatives that positives. That's always been the general mentality of humans.

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  • i say its a 6 and 3/8s,and its straight, and I love because it does the job and just what I can take..im pretty honest with my girls comes to penis talks..

    my friends discribe theirs massive,crooked veiny but mostly just say normal size or big or small if it is..

  • Personally, I have never had a conversation with another girl about any of my guys' penis size. The subject just never "came up".

  • I think I've heard all of that from my friends at some point.

    I'm sure some of it is because of who it's attached to, but the perfect size for me is my boyfriend. At least for sex. For oral he's a little too big, because he's the only guy I've been with that I can't deepthroat. Although that's kind of a fun challenge too.

  • Maybe it's just my friends, but I've never been asked about the size of a guys penis. I can't imagine being asked because it seems rude and like an invasion of privacy. As far as what I'd say IF asked, I suppose that I'd give a general answer that doesn't make him look bad. Maybe I'd say "big enough" or "just right." More than I feel like protecting my privacy, I'd do it to protect his. I wouldn't want him talking about my body in detail with his friends.

  • I usually approximate the length, hold up my hand to show that he was "yay girthy," and then describe any weird things that I noticed about it (pointy, curvy, etc.).

    • Grow up

  • Personally, I'm more discrete, but all my girls describe it using inches. Like, oh, he was about 7 or whatever.

    • wondering what you should think about me

  • That's really different for everyone.

    You will just need personal opinions and experience from girls but it won't tell you much about anyone else.

  • it really depends on how close the girls are with each other.. I got 2 friends I talk to that about and they talk to me about that too... we don't do major details but we might show length and thickness or just say he sucks or he is perfect..

  • I think men care about penis sizes more than women. I have maybe 1-2 friends who discuss this...not the majority.

  • I describe them as "big/large" or "average". If we get into detail then I use my hands to show the length and girth. I never had to say small but I'm always excited to tell my friend when it's big. too much girth (no such thing yet) feels better than too much length.

    • Grow up

  • When girls talk about their guys penis size, they'll talk about length, and width, and if your good with it.

    I like thick and sort of long but not too long because they can hurt to take and are way harder to deep throat.

    But that's just me.

  • My bf's is 7inches exactly, and I like his... (I haven't had sex yet but I've seen and touched it) I think average size is perfect. (5-7in)

  • the size is only the small detail... the think that they will talk about is how "good" it was ... and now lets be honest, we guys usually come before them, and if you don't keep going ... well the answer is " he wasn't that good". now what if you can amaze her and make her come 2, 3 and even 4 times straight ... no matter what size you have they will always say " WOW" take a look on my website www.endurnz.com , you might wanna try that.

  • When I talk to my girlfriends about my male partners I usually say "he had his own style, it felt good for what it was"

    I don't give away way too much information

    I like something not too long like 10 inches but not too short like 4 inches but I like someone that's pretty thick. I love thickness. haha

  • With my good friends I will describe every detail, especially if I like it.

    If its smaller than my preference then I won't say much (just so the guy can keep his dignity).

    I like Magnums and Magnum XLs.

    • I agree with you Greedy, I love Magnum XXXL ! Lolll

    • @TallGina of course you do. Grand canyon vag

  • You girls can't handle fat dicks

  • A guy with a smaller penis is more attractive than a guy with a bigger penis who needs you to be all in awe of what he thinks is some cosmic accomplishment but really is just genes or biology or whatever.

  • I have 4 inch penis its enough for my girlfriend she was 20 years old and a I am 22 years old

    Answer me yes or No

  • For Me, I explain it like this. I use my hands to describe shapes and for girth I use different bottles.

    I prefer a good length and a good girth on a guy.

  • If a guy was small, I'd tell my friends he was small. Same if I thought he was big, thick around, or not thick around.

    Honestly, like 6.5 inches would be amazing. My boyfriend is like 6.3 and it's perfect to me. He's thick though, which is a massive turn on to me.

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