Hold hands: could do one first but my personal preference would be 2nd. I may not actually like being on the first date in which case I don't want to be uncomfortable. If we are on a second date, it's because I want to see where things go. Now, you could reach over and touch her while you are talking on the first date. Quick and lite.
Kiss: hug and kiss on cheek 1st date. Kiss on lips 2nd date at end of night. Again you will ensure you are not making her uncomfortable. Even if she does want to kiss you the first time, she will want you that much more next time. On the 2nd date, Make it a good kiss. A little tongue, only a few seconds to where you both want more but keep it classy. Tell her goodnight and part ways. You will drive her crazy...in a good way...if she likes you.
Making out: 3rd or 4th date. Whenever it feels right.
Sex: hold out as long as possible. It complicates everything, too many feelings get in the way, and waiting will give you the time to get to know each other as people. Plus it will be that much better down the road as the anticipation builds.
A lot of time it doesn't go with the standard ...I told myself I won't sleep with a guy unless we are in a relationship for like at least a month ..basically I want it to be 3 months ..lol but my last relationship I slept with my ex in like 3 weeks time..sometimes its not controllable ...
I would like to hold hand and kiss on the first date ...making out will happen on second date afterward..probably becos I m that kind who enjoys kissing ...
Don't try to sleep with your date unless she gives you signal no matter how many date you had with her...but you can defo hold hangs and kiss her gently.. who doesn't like sweet moments right...even if its the first date ...kiss if the first date goes well..
1st Date : Just a peck, maybe hold hands. But to me, unless you knew each other before .. it'd be a bit to personal for the first time you meet someone.
2nd Date : Hold hands, why not. More than a peck, but I wouldn't use any tongue.
3rd Date : Makeout.
All the other stuff , that isn't sex (Bj's etcetc.) anytime after third date.
THEN, since I consider dating and boyfriend/girlfriend to be two different things. I would say it'd take a month to sleep together after at least a month of being girlfriend/boyfriend. Same with meeting the parents, anytime after a month, but it better happen before the three month line.
so, you'd put someone's d!ck in your mouth at least one month before you'd put it in your pxssy? am I the only one who finds that weird?
Well, not much before. It depends on the situation. If it's a guy I've know for a long time and he's just asked me out now, I'd wait about two weeks before sex.If it was a guy I didn't know before, I'd wait three weeks-a month before we have sex. I knew that sentence would because trouble haha.
@gegegevtfpor I totally agree. I consider screwing far less personal than a blowjob! Lol
If you're really into her and you can tell she's into you, then why not go in for a kiss..i say go in 90 percent of the way, let her come the rest of the 10... if your having a good time then wait it out..nothing wrong with waiting for a week to kiss her on the cheek..that way she won't see you as a player and just trying to get some...and for sex..every girl varies man.. I waited 6 months once..2 weeks.. it all depends on the girl, if you guys are down in the basement a lot watchin "that 70 show"
and she's all over you...go for it.. goodluck man..confidence is key.
Some good advice, I should rewatch Hitch and take some notes!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Assuming I like him and we know each other a little bit (it's not a blind date):
Hold hands - first date
Kiss - first or second
Make out - second or third (the date after the first kiss date)
Sleep together - no clue, depends on a lot of things. A few months at least.
Holding hands: after sleeping together
Kiss: 2nd
Make out: 2nd~ 3rd
Sleeping together: whenever feels right
Hold Hands: 1st date
Kiss: 1st or 2nd date
Makeout: 2nd date
Sleep together: whenever the time feels right after the 2nd date
Mee the parents: that's up to you
the only standard I have is "whatever feels right". it doesn't seem to just pick a nicely rounded random number and say: "i won't ____ until that exact time period passes".
absolutely no feckin on the first day though
when I felt comfortable really. it also depends on the situation. if I'm dating a guy I just met and barely know, it is obviously going to take longer for me to feel comfortable with him than if he was a friend first.
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fourth
3 months
3 months! LMAO
3 months sounds fine to me
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