Do sex and fingering feel the same?

[Anonymous]

i haven't have sex before but my boyfriend has fingered me several times. it was a little disppointing to say the least. the first few times it just kind of hurt, but then as I got use to it it did feel good or feel like anything really. he's used two fingers, he's gone slower, faster, he's tried different ways. and still nothing..although I don't really know any better I don't think he's doing it wrong or anything, it just doesn't feel any good.. so I stopped it and we don't do it anymore. then he tried with "toys" and the same, so we stopped that too. it's almost like I'm "numb". its odd. and kind of sucks. the only way it feels good is if he rubs my clit. might be a dumb questions but is sex like fingering/toys? does this mean I won't enjoy sex either?

[queenofpeen]

Nah, they don't feel the same. There are a lot of aspects of sex that make it more enjoyable. Plus, you (or he) can always rub your clit during it to make it better for you :)

Are you aroused and wet when he does it? Does he just go in and out with his fingers or does he curl his fingers in a "come here" motion to rub your g-spot? I'm assuming he's tried both since you mentioned he's tried different ways, but just checking.

Worst case scenario: fingering just isn't your forte. I've seen a couple of girls on here who feel the same way but still enjoy sex because it's mutual, it's not just one person giving and the other receiving.

[Anonymous]

One position that can help you when you do have sex is missionary, but with your legs together. It's a bit tricky to get into that position at first, but it's great because it stimulates the clit a whole lot while penetrating you, so you might enjoy it. It's the only position that actually works for me haha. Good luck!

[shinnygold17]

HELL NO.

Maybe its just his fingers.

One guy fingered me and it hurt so bad and then this other guy fingered me and it felt so good. LOL.

But sex is way better :) IMO