Had a semi-threesome with best friend & her boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I'm feeling kinda dazed/thrown off and still wondering what to think about this. My best friend recently moved into her boyfriend's place (they've only been seeing each other for a few weeks/a month or two) and she invited a whole bunch of friends over and we all drank and smoked. After they left, I stayed behind a little and said that it might be time for me to leave and she insisted that I stay and that she didn't think I should drive and I said I felt rude for staying and that I should go get my sleeping bag and she said don't worry that I can share the bed with her and her boyfriend. well when I jumped into bed with them he was in between us and then he started stroking my back and pulling my panties up and I got incredibly turned on. he would kiss her and I was trying so hard not to go crazy but I think they could tell I was horny because I would breathe a little louder and move my butt and legs around closer to him when he was stroking my back and butt. then, to my surprise, she joined in and they both were rubbing my butt and touching me all over and ughh omg I was so turned on. then I heard her whisper to him "make her feel good baby" and he pulled me in and started fingering me and I felt so good I started moaning really really loudly almost as if we were f*cking (is that a turn off to guys btw.. he was just fingering me at that point and I always wondered if that'd be considered too "loud" since I tend to do that) and then he started to go down on me and I held her hand and asked her if she was sure she was okay with us doing this because I was her friend and I didn't want her to regret it and if she would remember this and she said "no sweety don't worry, its okay, I just want you to feel good I want you to be happy ok" as her boyfriend continued going down on me. then he got up, put a condom on, and started to get on top of me as I laid there and then she said "wait, I don't think I'm comfortable with that". and then he stopped and said "you're going to let me eat her out but you're not going to let me f*ck her?" and she asked "would you let your friend jay f*ck me?" and he said "no" and then they started arguing and she left to go to the bathroom. I went in after and started holding her hand and talking to her and she was crying. the next day I told her I felt kinda bad and wasn't sure if I should've participated but she said "no stop, I wanted you to feel good because I love and care about you, its just-" and then she stopped talking and shook her head and went back to going on her phone. she then said she was furious with him and that he better apologize for just jumping into try and f*ck me without even asking if me or her were okay with it. I stayed behind for a bit and we were all just quiet watching TV (so awkward) and I eventually spoke up and said I should be getting back home. I need your insight and 3rd person perspective on this matter... =/ I'm still kind of thrown off by everything

[pandaninja]

um the whole she wanted you too feel good thing, ... do you think that maybe she likes you? like more than a friend. It could be a case of her being a closet lesbian who likes you, in that case it would be reasonable to assume that the boyfriend is a beard and the threesome a plot to get her and you together which would also explain why she was pissed off. While she might have thought thet introducing a guy could get you two together you and him started doing your own thing and in reality it could be that she was jelous not of him f***ing you but of the fact that you were getting f***ed in front of her no less and she got nowhere near the goal she wanted to acheive in the first place. I see no other reason for why she would initiate and then back up in that particular circumstance. Even the get in bed with us and please don't leave thing hint at this.

[kriskiss]

well if she ain't talking to you you might as well have screwed girls are so jealous he wanted you more. if they wind up breaking up then get with him but I like your honesty in the story. it sounds like this song called "halfway to a threeway" its truly beautiful listen to it...link provided below:

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=5fmRmQ6E0Mg

enjoy

[viva_glow]

It sounds like she got a little excited to try something daring and then as it progressed she realized the consequences and how she was actually uncomfortable with it. You're her friend and she wanted you to experience her boyfriend a bit but she didn't want him to experience you because then it's like cheating. She didn't think things through beforehand. I'd give it time for things to sizzle and let her work stuff out with him.

Give her some space right now because she sounds like she's having trouble processing. It's not your fault and she doesn't blame you. She's questioning her boyfriend and his real feelings for her and she's probably asking herself if moving in with him was a good idea.

Distance yourself for a bit til things blow off and remember that it's only as awkward as you let it be.

[Matrim]

Sounds like you had some fun until he moved things along a bit too fast lol. totally bad timing. Should let her have some fun too first ;) But anyways nothing you should worry about. You had fun and then the fun ended sadly

[Matrim]

Also; moan as loud as you want to :p

[Asker]

honestly, it was like trying heroin or something for the first time. head was exploding and I felt so good and what was even better was that it was all unexpected. first semi3some experience. but I have to also keep my friend in mind too and respect her so that's what makes me feel kind of dazed and thrown off after it all happened =/ ps thanks for the moaning answer... I was afraid it would be too much or seem fake since its just a finger!

[Matrim]

I have had a couple threesomes and a rule I try to keep (lol not really because threesomes happene when you are at the right place at the right time) is not doing them with couples that never done it before. lol Best time was when I was making out like crazy with this girl in a bathroom and then another chick bangs like crazy on the door so we let her in and before I know it they are making out too lol

[Asker]

hotttt ugh yes it totally turned me on. it would have to be FFM though or else id feel like a whore that's being raped and I find FFMs sexier anyway for some reason. big detail I forgot to leave out though... I'm still a virgin (yes as nuts as that sounds at this point in the story). which is also why I'm kind of glad she stopped it for me as I didn't exactly plan on losing it that night. I think I'm more confused now as to her feelings towards me. I love her & am trying to figure out what it was t

[Asker]

hat triggered her to want me to feel good and be happy, even if it involved her own boyfriend. because honestly, I don't think id be able to handle getting in a 3some with a guy I truly love, esp with a best friend, it'd hurt even more. is it because she trusts me that strongly? is it because her feelings for him aren't that strong? was it to please her bf? or is she possibly attracted to me in more than a friend way, even sexually? why did she want me to feel good that night even if it involved he own bf?

[dnately]

First of all, you clearly did nothing wrong. The issue there is between them: they probably discussed an interest in having a 3som, and he overstepped the boundaries that they agreed on.

Second, what you did after the fact is exactly the right thing to do. Let them resolve their issues. Be supportive of your friend, but don't try to solve things for her and her bf.

Give her some time. It'll all work out.

[Carping]

I'm just wondering what the outcome would have been if your girlfriend got f***ed first? Whould she then have allowed her boyfriend to do you?

[MikeK]

They sound kind of screwy - you yourself shouldn't have anything to worry about.

That's the trouble with couples and FFM threesomes - the girl of the couple always installs all these rules and guidelines (a NO list) when a threesome should consist of NO rules