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Real men don't give oral sex. Do you agree?

My girlfriend threatens to break up with me because I refuse to give her oral sex. Why would a man give oral sex? It's humiliating and degrading. Girls are supposed to serve their men/supposed to be submissive. Men are dominant. Why would a man humiliate and degrade himself like that? How is she supposed to respect "men" who give oral sex? Impossible. What do you think? Why is she expecting me to give oral sex? Is she trying to annoy me?
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look at all the wimpy and submissive beta males who give oral sex to their girls. where is your pride? do you also lick her anus? her feet? the smell of a vagina, clean or dirty is disgusting to me. it's impossible to give oral sex in a manly/dominant way. a girl giving a blowjob to a man is actually a traditional symbol of male dominance... a man giving oral sex to a girl = abasement of pride (he turns into her slave). real men please their women. true. they have sex. "normal" sex.
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"it's really manly to leave your girl unsatisfied in bed." sex is all about the man. a woman needs to fulfil her man's sexual needs. that's the most important thing. it's not the end of the world if he doesn't fulfil her sexual needs. sissy boys who are unable to satisfy their women "the normal way" feel the need to give oral sex. it's obvious these meek women-pleasers aren't real men. real men don't humiliate themselves. they'd never put themselves in such an emasculating situation.
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  • hey buddy, as a man I'm gonna tell you this, your full of sh*t, if this girl breaks up with you, more than likely the next girlfriend you have will not give you oral if you don't do sh*t for her, also if you think that making your girl happy is degrading, you have way to much to learn, a stupid amount to learn actually, the only degrading thing a girl can seriously do to you during sex is screw you with a strap on, then she is dominate. It sucks that you think a guy or a girl needs to be dominate in a relationship for it to go well life is gonna suck for you. Here's something you need to learn. Good men make their girls happy, and good women make their guys happy. Also most girls don't come from just penitration, so I got news for you,"your doing it wrong". Also your quote "real men don't humiliate themselves, they'd never put themselves in such an emasculating situation" Bull-Shit . If you can't let your pride go for 2 seconds to make someone else happy, life is gonna suck for you. You know what the saddest part is, I am a man who has bever been in any relationship nor had sex, and I am STILL more of a man than you.

  • I think men who are not gay like it.

    You can give her oral sex in a dominant way.

    if your ceilings are high enough lift her up high enough that her legs are over your shouldrs and she's against the wall - like she's riding on your shoulders, backwards.

    or, grab her hips and lift her lower body off the bed and do it.

    or stand, holding her upside down while you thrust into her mouth.

    All plenty manly and dominant.

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  • A real man will give oral sex. And I think you have the whole submissive/dominant thing completely backwards. I'm dominant in pretty much every area of my life except for in relationships, I like taking care of guys, I like cooking for them, I like giving them massages just because I feel like it'd be a nice thing to do, and for sexual stuff 95% of the time I'll let the guy take control if he feels like it. However a dominant man doesn't control a girl and force her to serve him, he goes out of his way to take care of her and make sure she's happy and in bed it's not about controlling a girl and forcing her to do things to him it's actually the opposite, he'll spend just as much if not more time on her than she does on him. The submissive/dominant thing is about balance of power, not abuse of it.

    I've also never had to ask a guy for oral sex, they've already moved down there before I have a chance to say anything.

  • curious what your background is, some men from diff. curltural background feel that way.

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    A real man loves his women everyday of the month.

    • The best xD Bear Grylls, my hero...

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  • are you an idiot? you really are not a beta male, certainly not an alpha male. You are just an omega.

    Good sex givers who get the best girls have nothing to do with you.

  • Hahahahaha you are so funny, a man who eats it like a champ is a REAL MAN!

    • who thinks his girlfriend should dump his a**?haha

    • If he can get one with that attitude!

  • A cunning man can find a way to give oral and remain dominant.

    • CUNNINGLINGUS

  • Sounds like "real men" will get passed up or cheated on with guys who actually know how to please their women.

    LOL it's really manly to leave your girl unsatisfied in bed. Just leave the door wide open for someone else to take your spot, eh?

  • If that's the case, I never want to date a "real man" ;)

    having fun, trollytroll?

    • who thinks his girlfriend should dump his a**?haha

    • I do :D

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  • So, how exactly would you react if your girlfriend refused to give you a blowjob? or any sexual desire you had?

    • ah dude your sucha retard. havnt you seen already. you lost this argument. nobody agress with you. your not making a point, save that that your an idiot rapeist my the comments of some.haha and sex isn't just about the man you dumb***. the girl is very important in this. in why oppinion and I'm sure everyone will agreee with me, I think you should be castrated. you call yourself a real man,ha, your not worthy of getting any sexual gratification. everyone doesn't think your a man, they think your

    • a p****. you should give one of the guys on here your girls number so they can give her what she wants.

    • HAHA, you can't even spell properly. how am I supposed to take you seriously? seriously, I feel sorry for you. you're mentally challenged and that's why I forgive you. small penis guys who are unable to please their women the "normal way" feel the need to degrade themselves --> give oral sex. real men don't give oral sex. only sissy boys put themselves in such a humiliating situation. @ kittykett: girls are supposed to give blowjobs (they are submissive). they don't refuse to give oral sex.

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  • i think you're a troll who's fishing for attention. my ex never gave me oral sex because he didn't know how and was scared. and if your girl friend knows what's good for her (assuming you even have one) she'll bail on you because you're a primeval prick. if making your partner happy doesn't give you a sense of satisfaction then you should just be single. end of story.

    • i'm not a troll. wtf? giving oral sex is humiliating. that's a fact. only weak and submissive guys give oral sex. I make her happy... ever heard of "normal" sex?

    • and you have a problem with your sense of masculinity if you think that what you're doing is manly quality.

    • who thinks his girlfriend should dump his a**?haha

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  • Haha. Trolling troll is successful.

    Or raised wrong...

  • This question is so hilarious I don't even have words

  • Give her the oral, or make way for man who will--there will be plenty.

  • Ever hear of give and take...if you take you'd better start giving

    • who thinks his girlfriend should dump his a**?haha

  • I actually agree mostly. Many women get their kicks getting the man off. For us, sex isn’t over until I finish, and it does not continue after. Except for the cleanup bj. But that’s more to get the semen out of my tubes so it’s comfortable. I rarely finish again during cleanup.

  • Yeah, no wonder your girl left you because of this "Its really manly to leave your girl unsatisfied in bed" lol ...goodluck mate.. Let it out! :D so you can get over it asap!

  • You should google the traits of a alpha male before you come here and ask this question.

  • Nope. Sorry. I've never had it done because I didn't want it done at the time. I see what you're saying and all, but not really, sorry XD

  • Obvious troll is obvious.

    • not really. sorry to disappoint. I can't believe so many "guys" are OK with giving oral sex. no pride, no self-esteem... it's kind of sad actually. where have all the real men gone?

    • Well Mr. Troll, I'll throw you a bit of food this time. How are you defining "pride"? And how are you defining "a real man"?

  • She doesn't threaten to leave you because you refuse to perform oral sex. She threatens to leave you because your stinky attitude.

    • So if a woman isn't able to please her man the "normal" way, she has to give oral sex... but if a man isn't able to please his woman the "normal" way, he can't give oral sex? You can call these men sissies all you want to but men like you, my dear, are douchebags.

  • I think you're gay. Normal sex as in missionary only? I think Id fall to sleep having sex with you

    • I like this girl. :)

    • who says only missionary? just because you only know one single sex position, it doesn't everyone else only knows one sex position. try harder next tim. wait.. forget about it. you're unable to provoke me.

  • I think you don't know how to give oral sex and are scared that she will think you aren't good enough! Have you ever tried it? Really don't understand how and why you think its humiliating and degrading. I doubt you will ever find a woman that does not expect you to give her oral sex! Treat others how you would like to be treated. ONLY REAL MEN GIVE ORAL SEX! In fact you can't class yourself as a man let alone a real man if you scared to do something.

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