Ladies and guys.....My girlfriend said she wants to have anal sex!

[Anonymous]

I was with my girlfriend the other night laying down, watching a movie and we started talking about just random stuff and then landed on the topic of sex. Then we both started getting excited and started making out. We already have sex, but out of nowhere she said that she wanted to have anal sex sometime. She has been afraid to tell me, but she said she REALLY enjoys it. I am the type of guy that will usually try anything once, so I am definitely interested in giving it a shot. I guess my question is...is there anything I should know about anal sex? I have been watching p*rn with it lately just to get a feel of it and I feel like it might be pretty cool. Why do women like to suck the guys d*** after it has been in her ass though? Is that not sanitary? If the girl has freshly showered, is anal sex sanitary and safe? I am afraid of bacteria kind of, being a slight germafobe. Please, any info and experience with anal sex would be helpful.

[Cryostatic]

In my case, we'd been half-joking about anal for about a month. One night, we were having sex (doggystyle) and she reached back, grabbed my arm to get me to stop and listen, and said "put it in my ass".

So I did. No lube, just her fluids that were already on me and maybe a little bit of spit, I can't really remember. Go SLOW to start. I can't emphasize that enough. Enter her slightly, just the head, and then SLOWLY penetrate her. If you need to pull back, do that slowly also. Make sure you check with her and make sure she's doing okay before you start any kind of thrusting.

If you don't give her enough time to relax that areas muscles and get used to it, it will NOT be a pleasurable experience for her, and you probably won't get another chance to try it again. This is one-shot deal for you, so do it right.

It's less sanitary than vaginal sex, but as long as she's gone to the bathroom and showered, sh*tcock won't be an issue for you. However, there is bacteria there. You should NEVER put your **** back into her vagina after having it in her ass, there's a very high risk of infection, and she should probably not be sucking you off afterward.

Although, I have to admit, there was one evening where we had anal, and she was drunk enough that she sucked me off to completion afterward. Sanitary? no. Extremely f*cking hot? Yes. Hell yes.

[Cricket74]

Wear a condom, use lube. Go slow. Anal is so erotic. So intense. Get her really going first. Prime her a few days in advance, roses, candy, nice stuff. No sex for those days. If she stops it at first. OK. Ask again a month later. Good luck. (Oh! Ass to mouth? IDK)

[laurieluvsit]

I have a colon hydrotherapy device which is what porn stars use to get clean. Ever notice how extremely clean they are. I will use that and then I will clean up my boy myself first. They never complain, trust me. After putting some organic edible lubricant on him, this allows me to take it bare because I so love the incredible feel of hot cum inside me, it literally drives me crazy. And with the organic edible lube, It allows me to deep throat him if he likes that after and he can even go in and out from my anus to my vagina if he wants. Ok, we all have our fetishes, but this is one of mine... I LOVE IT!

[Allesana]

Anus to vagina is like wiping back to front. Not a good idea. I'm beginning to think you ARE a porn star.

[laurieluvsit]

@Allesana For myself, oh and a few others... lol... you’re sweet :)

[elliesaur]

Haha I doubt girls like sucking on it once it's been in their butts, man. P*rn is fantasy.

1. Never, and I mean NEVER try vaginal once you did anal without a really good wash.

2. Always use a condom. She might have cleaned up beforehand, but there's still risk of getting bacteria.

3. LOL - LOTS OF LUBE.

[anony84]

I agree with all the above plus ... go slow.

[JonJames]

Never say never. It happens more than you think...

[JonJames]

It's called ass to mouth (ATM) -- and it happens more than you think. I mean think about it. You are rolling around in bed for hours. Your mouth is everywhere -- so it hers. Sweat, sex fluids, saliva is everywhere. You have orgasmed in her mouth, vag and ass. So ATM is GONNA happen.

All I can say is -- it is amazingly hot. I have never had a girl do it when my dik was visibly dirty because -- if you are having great anal -- it usually never is.

Check out "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" by Tristan Taorimo. She is a bit more conservative on ATM, but she is with a lot more people. I mean a dedicated one-to-one relationship. If you are giving her the the anal quake -- her whole body is shaking as you unload inside her ass -- then ATM will happen. Maybe not by design. Probably not every time. But some times -- it happens. The urge is just there. I have had my tongue buried in girls asses for hours -- and I am not kidding. Not so much as the sniffles...

[sixstring]

I don't think many girls like to do it, but the vast majority of p*rn is male dominated.

Unprotected anal can give you a bacterial infection, although she can lower the chances of that using an enema.

It's suggested to use a condom though.

Anything else you should know, she'll know.

[justlilly]

I don't think girls actually like it suck it after, that is just p*rn theatrics

[JonJames]

Of course if you ask them earlier or later -- they will say that. But there have been studies that when a girl is extremely turned on, "gross" stuff does not bother them so much. So in the heat of the moment, trust me, it happens. I have even had girls say "I forgot where it had been. I just saw it, had an urge to suck, so I did." It happens a lot more than you think.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Try it. And don't watch p*rn for it -_- just talk to her about it and ask her how she likes it. It really depends on HER.

[Gomezaddam51]

If she has never had anal, work your way up to it. Use anal beads, and a smaller dildo and lots of lube. tell her to relax her asshole and not to tense up when you finally put your dick in. When a girl gets scared or nervous she tenses up and that is where the pain comes from. After anal I always wash my dick mainly because I don't want my wife to taste her shit if she sucks me later.

[Louwearsthongs]

Hey go for it I don't understand why you would even be hesitant

[Anonymous]

No one likes poopy dicks

[Anonymous]

Girls in modern p*rn go Ass To Mouth (ATM) but this is not a good idea, as you noticed, for health reasons. It's done in modern p*rn because it's taboo and a little degrading.

Things to know... there are plenty of guides out there. Put down a towel, watch out for santorum, and use lots and lots and lots of lube.

Try using your fingers or a toy, to help her loosen up first. And go really really slow.

[sixstring]

No, ass licking is done in p*rn because it can feel really good. I haven't done it and wouldn't do it, but there are plenty of nerve endings to give you a pleasurable feeling.

[Opinion Owner]

@sixstring - We weren't talking about ass licking or rim jobs. He asked "Why do women like to suck the guys d*** after it has been in her ass though?" And I answered accordingly. Pay attention before commenting please...