Dirty talk during a BJ?

[Anonymous]

so my guy loves the blowjobs I give him. I surprise him with new techniques every once in a while and he goes crazy. While (according to him) I'm amazing at giving blow jobs, there are certain things he wants me to add. 1. looking up at him & 2. talking dirty. I am a bit shy so I'm getting used to the looking up at him thing. I love giving him head, its just different when its me watching him watching me if that makes sense. I tend to concentrate so hard on what my hands and my mouth are doing I never think to use my eyes. I get a bit timid, but things are going better with that. but part two is the talking dirty part. I've watched p*rn to get some ideas but it all just seems so exaggerated. like the girl saying "oh yea baby oh yea you are so big so hard blah blah blah." once again I'm shy so I just can't see myself being that exaggerated about that. But I guess my question is.. is that what guys want? what would be hot for your girl to say during a blow job. and would you want her to sound like the girls in a p*rno? thanks :)

[Anonymous]

lol you'll get used to it. Trust me, I was SOO shy, but my boyfriend has really brought a freak out of me lol I whisper in my boyfriends ear sometimes. I don't usually say things they way that say it in p*rn (it just sounds so fake to me) but as for what to say, its pretty spot on. when I give him head I usually do look at him and say things like "Mmm," or take it out of my mouth and ask if he wants me to put it back in my mouth, does he like my lips around it, etc

[Asker]

yea I'm definitely not as shy as I used to be. we do some crazy things.haha its interesting though.. I can talk dirty to him during sex but I get shy with blowjobs. maybe because all the spotlight is on me? but what you said sounds good. not as crazy as what the p*rn girls say. I think ill try it out next time. thanks :)

[Opinion Owner]

lol yeah the p*rnstars almost always take it too far in my opinion. & I completely understand about the spotlight thing. But trust me, once you star saying something and get a good reaction, it will be so much easier to keep going.

[Opinion Owner]

start*

[imonfire]

"do you like it when I do that" "can you fee my tongue on your head" "You're so hard" " I love it baby" "this is turning me on, baby" "i love your body" "you are so sexy" "god damn I love it, baby"

[Asker]

oh man. OK I gonna have to build up some courage to say these things but ill give it a try.. thanks!

[ManFromHat]

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[Asker]

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[djhohrath]

I wouldn't like the dirty talk part that's dumb but looking up during the bj is important lol

[wolecollner]

Say things like, "do you like that?", tell him how horny you are, be eager to have sex with him as a way to tease him because he has to wait for the bj to end before you guys... ya know.

[Broken719]

say sh*t like yeah baby you like that, well actualy the p*rno is probably spot on lol

[SpenserB]

You can literally say almost anything. You can take control and tell him that its yours and he better not cum until you say so, or be submissive and ask him if he likes so and so. Test out what you want to say, do what you like.

[RebeccaSJ]

I don't have a lot of time for talking.

[weaverman]

Lol great reply

[Anonymous]

it be nice to hear about how she loves my d**k in her mouth, and her asking me if it feels good and that she wants to make me cum. etc.

p.s. I love when she looks up at me.