Have you ever caught your spouse/significant other masturbating?

[Anonymous]

How did you react? How were they doing it? Did you get angry, excited, hurt, or? What were your emotions and reactions?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes my girlfriend spontaneously masturbates when we're watching a movie or just sitting in bed doing our own stuff. I can't say I've "caught" her because if I ever did walk in on her, it wouldn't be anything out of the ordinary, haha. I'm kind of amazed that she can do it any time without even getting horny first and it takes her 2-3 minutes.

[Anonymous]

I don't like the way you say "caught", as if they were somehow doing wrong.

[Asker]

This is not how I mean it with the usage of the word, caught. However, the word caught is ambigous and does not in itself imply that there is something wrong with it. It just means caught, not busted with someone else or caught 'robbing a bank'! Obviously you took it that way, and that way is not what I meant...

[Opinion Owner]

Obviously, I wasn't the only one who took it that way. You might have tried "walked in on" instead of caught.

[Anonymous]

annoyed and irritated because he didn't lock the door and one of our kids could have walked in on him instead of me.

[l-hedoniste]

It's the sort of thing I encourage, so it's not really "catching" her, I don't think.

[kheserthorpe]

I havent'.

If she's been turning me down, I'd be pissed.

If we've been having lots of sex, I'd join in happily, and presume she would be happy about that.