What do you think about girls sleeping around?

there's nothing wrong with having sex or having lot of sex partners. but it upsets me when I heard that my friend and other girls, sleep around with "friends" its okay if its only one guy friend, but it makes me hate them when they go from one guy to another. then they tell me they want another guy :( then they tell me to shut up Because I have sex every week...but its a different story if its with my bf!
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  • First of all "theres nothing wrong with having sex or having lot of sex partners" seems to conflict with "it upsets me when I heard that my friend and other girls, sleep around with "friendSSS"".

    Personally, I don't believe in judging others by my personal moral standards. Just because I'm waiting until marriage doesn't mean everyone else has to. I also believe that a person's sex life, is absolutely none of my business unless they make it so. And even then, judging others' behavior to be poorer than my own doesn't usually make a positive difference. By empathizing and trying to understand why people act a certain way has more of a positive effect on both my view of them as a person as well as my personal contentment. But like I said, you have a right to your beliefs.

  • You're getting MAD that your friends are having a lot of sex? Why do you care what another woman does with her vagina? That's their business. I personally don't agree with going from guy to guy every week, but I'm not going to hate a girl who does it. I am only annoyed when a girl is codependent and has sex just to keep a guy around. If she's doing it for her pleasure then more power to her. If she gets paid, she's even smarter.

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  • Are you jelous maybe? What is the problem. At least they sleep with guys they know, rather than complete strangers. That I have no respect for.

    • but it upset me when she did it a week after her break up :/ and when they were dating...she got a picture of someones d*** on her phone im not gonna lie, I am jealous she can get guys like that. and talk to cute strangers w/o a problem. but I'm upset that she would actually sleep with them. in my head, everyone has sex only with people they care about. its full off cuteness and all those bs. then here she is telling me she had sex with a cute guy that annoys her

    • So basically she is either not very faithful to men. Or she just wasn't that into her boyfriend. I respect her ending it and just moving on more than I respect it if she pretended to care and forced her self to find emotion when there are none. If you want to get why guys tap that and quit, you have to understand it is usually because the chick they are tapping is just not the chick they see being with long term. So it is just a waste of time staying there for something which is bound to end.

    • "im not gonna lie, I am jealous she can get guys like that. and talk to cute strangers w/o a problem." most girls (not to say all girls) can. You too, probably, so why be jealous? If she wants to have sex with them, as long as she's adult, it isn't your problem. Not at all!

  • It's their business. I have no say in that. However, I wouldn't date them.

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  • Quality over quantity. They may not know what they like yet and are trying to figure it out.

  • Her sex, her business.

  • "it makes me hate them "

    That's a bit exaggerated, isn't it?

    • not to me i hate that she does it...but she's still my friend and its her life. I would just hope she'd stop one day

    • That isn't the same as writing "it makes me hate them "

  • I think you seem a bit judgmental. A guy is a hero for sleepin around and a girl is a hoebiscuit if she does the same thing.

    • but I didn't call her a hoe it just upsets me...id be upset if a guy did that too

  • Depends are like randomly jumping from guy to guy within days or a week? I have no respect for that.

  • You *hate* them? For enjoying sex? Or for talking to you about it?

    I don't think you're a very good friend.

  • Girls who sleep around are disgusting.

    Have some class for God's sake.