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I hate my boobs, do guys like big areolas?

I'm a 23 year old, my boobs are not too small, but they're not big either (36B). They have big, brown areolas (I'm olive skinned). I haven't measured my areolas, but they look big and they're definitely bigger than the usually "ideal" areolas depicted everywhere... my boobs are also more in the smaller size range, and guys usually expect small breasts to have small areolas. My nipples are about the size of a pencil eraser. But they only stand out when they're touched and stuff, otherwise they look kinda flat in the areola, the areolas also shrink and get wrinkly when you touch them. But I also don't like the shape of my boobs too much, they're kinda pointy, rounder in the bottom half, but overall kinda pointy. I really don't like them... they're so not like the boobs usually drool over. Are there guys out there who find my type of breasts more attractive than those with tiny areolas? I've thought about surgery, but I'm afraid it could go wrong, plus I'd feel guilty about spending so much money on vanity issues.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Pretty much what other people said. if a guy doesn't like you solely bcoz of how you look, then it's just not meant to be. each person has their own preferences, i'm sure there's someone (actually more than some-ONE) out there for you. i kno it's cliche' to tell you that you have to love yourself first before others love you. but it's true, those Buddhists got it right. *im not a Buddhist by the way nor a devotee of any other religion, just purely synical by nature* everyone has their own insecurities, believe me. i dont like being a short guy (5'6" at age 25 is short by norm, not like im a dwarf) but it's just the way i was born. so i accepted it, moved on and tried to better myself in other areas where i can change. if someone doesn't find me attractive due to my stature then it's NOTHING PERSONAL... i dont blame them nor blame myself. think about it... if all of us in the world want the same things all the time then we wouldn't be able to survive and evolve for this long. sure there is a golden standard set by the Greece regarding human aesthetics *i think it was PLATO who came up with it, can't remember, dont quote me on it* but nobody is that "perfect" and to each his own. you don't need surgery, you are far from being disfigured. plus look on the bright side, natural selection wise, your physical feature (that you dont like, will be your greatest weapon for evolution) will eliminate the mates who are not compatible to you. dont feel sorry, just embrace your differences and love them. they'll open up the door to a whole new experience. * i kno i type like a retard coz im lazy but trust me*

  • To be honest, if I had to pic, id pic smaller ones. Big ones don't bother me at all though. My girlfriends are pretty big (has D cups). I love everything about her, and wouldn't change a thing, to include her areolas. Yours are fine I'm sure sweety. If its a deal breaker for a guh, then he didn't deserve ya in the 1st place. If he loves you, he will love all of you. Be proud of your body the good and the flaws, its how god intended for you to look. I have things id like to change, but I'm proud of my body anyways. :-)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Bigger areolas are actually pretty hot. Way nicer than tiny ones, in my opinion. That said, you don't date a girl for her areolas. As for boob size, I guess all guys have their preferences, but I've dated hot girls with B cups to E cups. My preference is probably for slightly bigger ones, C or D cup, but like most guys, if you meet the right girl, her boobs are just a nice bonus to the overall package. Pointier boobs or puffy nipples can actually be hot.

  • to be honest girls care about and have boobs on the mind more than guys do! all guys want are at least something to grab, nipples that when touched turns a girl on. which if you got boob surgery you would lose ALL feeling in your boobs so you would actually feel like you have no boobs. don't sound fun at all but its your choice.

    • Good Advice Here^...(:

    • :)

  • I'm here because I googled it lol

    From the majority of the responses by men, they seem more OK with it than I was thinking. I have triple D's and my areolas are also big so, I was curious on the same thing.

    Hope you find happiness & contentment within your body, sweetheart.

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  • Shove your boobs with the big areolas into a man's face and he will show you just how much of a damn he gives about them! Never in all my years have I ever heard of a man rejecting a woman because of her boobs.

    Never

    Now go get your man and suffocate him with your chest! Think I'm kidding? Oh do try us

  • It is like any male preference, some of us will not like them, some of us will. In general, unless you are really overweight, men are far less judgmental on a girl's body than the girl is on it herself. Most men would be delighted to see any real breasts, instead p*rn. If you give a man access to your bosom, odds are, he will be a very grateful man. I've never known of a man who made it a requirement for a girl to take her bra off before asking her out on a first date.

  • You're breasts are beautiful, just like mine and every other woman's on the planet.

    • Yes beautiful they are

  • I have a feeling you are dating the wrong kind of guys if they are going to dump you over the size of your areolas. Get what I'm saying? It's a small thing, you're fine hun :)

    • Yep if they don’t like them don’t waist your time there’s plenty of real men that would love to have the pleasure of seeing and enjoying your beautiful big areolas I love large areolas for sure

  • I don't know about other guys but I don't go around with a ruler and measure the diameter of a girl's areola before I decide to like her or not.

    • LOL!

  • Quite simply guys just love boobs. Don't worry about it, you see flaws that guys never will.

    And if you find a guy who is worried about your areolas, he's not worth finding.

  • Olive skin and big brown areolas? Don't tease me like that!

  • There are guys who will not like your boobs, as whatever kind of boobs a girl has, some guys don't like that type. For the vast majority of guys, your boobs are just fine. No girl has the perfect weight, height, hair color, perfectly shaped ass, perfectly shaped nose, perfect boobs, etc. All girls have several things that are not the "ideal." That doesn't keep guys from liking their ass, their hair, or their boobs. Plenty of guys will like your boobs, just as you described them. They will love to look at them, play with them, etc. No guy is going to look at your boobs, and think I won't touch, because they aren't perfect. He's going to think, she's letting me see her tits, and they look great, and I want to feel them and play with them. Honest, that is how it will be.

  • look, guys are into different things. don't presume to know that just cause the so called "ideal" is small areolas that guys don't like big ones. There are some guys that are ONLY into big areolas. Don't presume to know and generalize all guys tastes as if they were the same, taste is very individual.

    • and fyi, I happen to find big areolas hot

    • Good, it's just the whole "pepperoni nipples" thing didn't start out of nothing, and that can really get into a girl's head.

    • i understand, but judgements like that are immature and only said by people who aren't getting any anyways. Theyre just trying to make someone else miserable like they are by judging them. Boobs in all shapes and sizes turn guys on, if you really wanna find out for yourself, just lookup some boob p*rn and you'll see many of those girls have gigantic areolas(and there are guys that have a fetish for that)

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  • sexy sexy sexy oh yes did i say very sexy, dont change a thing. keep and enjoy what God gave you. i know i would.

  • I'm a 38 B! Smiles!

  • I love them, play message me haha

  • Yes we love them!! (most guys anyway). They have porn categories specifically for them! YOU'LL hate them, we won't.

  • I prefer smaller breasts and I do not mind large areolaes..you might want to look at this old Question..and particularly the last (first) female's response...(:

    link

  • Can't really say for sure about yours honey with no pics, but I just love boobs, so I am up for whatever. ;) I'd tell you honest though if you sent me a pic.

  • they sound just fine :) don't worry so much. guys won't really care that much. you're overthinking it

  • Yes I have a real attraction to big areolas I really get turned on by them they make the sex so exciting

  • They are phenomenal boobs. Any man would go nuts over them. They are my favorite!

  • learn to love your body and you would feel better

  • for me and before met my mate I hared big areola too much, not was my preference at all
    after met my wife i don't care (even she has small areola) but I learnt that it is not the thong for a serious relationship or commitment
    don't worry
    uf any guy would leave you for this so the are the acid test for guys

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