Ladies, are any of you interested in plastic/cosmetic surgery? what about butt implants?

[Anonymous]

What are your insecurities that you want to change through surgery? it can be anything realistic. I need a couple things done, mainly I need a boob job and butt implants. the only genetic favor I got from mother nature was a pretty face, and that doesn't really amount to sh*t these days. its all about the curves. I have big, saggy boobs and a butt that is pretty much flat. so, I need a lift/reduction and butt implants. if there were hip implants or something id get those too! (there aren't...are there?) I look like a child with boobs for Christ sake. its sad. my mom and my sisters got the reverse - they all have smaller, perkier breasts and full hips, butts, and thighs. I'm the bad seed! lol sometimes when we would all go out together to the beach or go shopping for clothes, id look around at their bodies and then at mine and think, wtf happened. I blame my father. I'm sure he's responsible somehow. lol anyway does anyone know anything about butt enhancement ? I don't read too much about it or hear much about it but I know its a thing. help me out. anyone have experiences with it or any other plastic surgery you've had?

[Anonymous]

Why don't you exercise? There are certain exercises you can do to help perk up your breasts. And if you exercise, your lower body will look good too. A lot of girls think they have 'flat butts' but really, their waists are bigger than what they could be to show off what natural curves they have. Look it up. It also helps if you eat healthy foods. There's no reason to spend a hella lot of money on breast reductions or butt implants. Besides, there are SO many things that can go wrong with plastic surgery. They don't advertise the 'mistakes' often, because that would be detrimental to the business. Look it up, though. It's all over the internet.

That said, if you're already pretty skinny and still think you have a flat butt, do some butt work outs. Seriously. Build some muscle in that trunk of yours. Or... you could always have a baby. Haha, that works too. :P

I doubt you'll be happy with butt implants or breast reductions in the long run, and the risk is too high. Look up pictures both of successful surgeries and of unsuccessful ones and truly decide if you want your body to look like theirs.

[Asker]

exercises for breasts don't really have an effect when you have DDs, babe. if they work at all, it would only be effective when smaller amounts of fat, like B cups for example. I've even asked the doctor about that and she agrees. it won't make any difference when each boob weighs like 20 pounds lol I want a naturally big butt, not muscle that will disappear if I stop doing the workouts. surgery is next best thing.

[Asker]

i think these look pretty good : link link link

[Opinion Owner]

You should exercise anyway. I kinda hate all of the posts about how insecure people are about their bodies when all the have to do is have some will power, exercise and eat healthy. But yeah, I have a cousin who had like... Fs? Or something ridiculous like that. Her husband loves them, lol. But, she did have to have a reduction (not a super dramatic one) because she started having back problems a few years ago. So, I guess a breast reduction would be okay... lol just pray you're not one of

[Opinion Owner]

the unfortunate ones. As for butt implants. Whatever. I would never do it. I wouldn't want something unnatural inside me for good... but, alas, I have a butt. So I wouldn't need to do that anyway.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol! nooo! Only the second looks good. And that's because she started out with nothing. If your butt looks like either of the other two, then it just needs to be toned up, not implanted. Those two look obviously fake.

[Asker]

oh I do exercise. I run all the time, I'm obsessed with yoga, and I'm taking a zumba class soon. zumba! lol butt is still flat. exercise can't give you a big butt. it can tone, lift, but it can't redistribute fat onto your body. this is fantasy, I wish. and I'm not saying YOU should do it. its all about me B) no seriously you're lucky. you have an ass. those of us who don't have junk in the trunk need to get it other ways. you should sympathize with those of us who are less fortunate! we need ass! >:(

[Asker]

seriously though just think. I have boobs that are huge and nipples that point to the ground. theyre just gonna get saggier as I get older! I'm only 20! I don't even want to picture the horror freak show that will be on my chest when I'm older. be honest. wouldn't you want to get surgery as well? I don't have back problems. I have "i look in the mirror naked and want to punch my parents in the face" problems. its a pretty serious condition.

[Opinion Owner]

If you've viewed all of the options out there, and are realistic about what the end result will be, then sure, it's your body, darlin'. I guess it's sort of like buying make up to cover up blemishes and enhance your features... except 100x more expensive. :)

[Asker]

lol yup. cha-ching! bad genetics are expensive.

[Anonymous]

for your butt you can buy pants that have butt paddings like this: link

for your boobs you can try to get them unsaggy looking by wearing tighter bras?

I don't know...

but you know once guy falls in love with you he should love you for what you have rather than what you don't have... or rather he should love you for what's inside you rather than only what is on the outside.

[Asker]

wearing clothes isn't the problem. my body is. like when I'm naked lol and I agree. I'm not doing this for a guy, I'm doing it for myself. I don't like what I see in the mirror.

[Anonymous]

I would get a labiaplasty if I had enough money. My vagina makes me so self conscious it's stopping me from having sexual relationships.

[Guysensei]

WHY that is so f***in ridiculous... guys like p**** in every shape you can imagine x.x

[Opinion Owner]

I don't belive that. I've seen what men say about big labia, and it's not nice.

[Asker]

yeah I remember reading about those. pretty invasive. it is pretty tempting to have a p**** that looks like a p*rn star's :D I've seen some pictures after googling it and yeah if mine looked a certain way id probably want surgery down there too. seriously, I wish this sh*t was covered under our insurance! get on that, obama :)

[Asker]

yeah honestly I wonder who the men are on this site. I don't think its healthy or productive to portray a false sense that all men are open to anything. f*** that. I have brothers, cousins, male friends and I HEAR with my own ears the sh*t they say about womens bodies. and they aren't all a**holes either, just really narrow minded and I think most of us are. hardly anyone is open to everything. you usually have a preference and turn offs. its nice but it doesn't help anyone here in the real world.

[Anonymous]

As long as you don't expect your boyfriend or husband to pay for this, or the insurance companies, fine go ahead with it. Personally, I am against it. I actually broke up with a long-term girlfriend that wanted to cut her body up over this very issue. I was perfectly happy with her body, but she not only wanted to continue on with cutting it up, she tried (unsuccessfully) to get both the insurance company and me to pay for it. Being sexy is okay, but personally, if you want to cut yourself up to be a new person, pay for it yourself.

[Asker]

you do realize that there are thousands of cases of plastic surgery "cutting people up" because they have certain conditions that leave them looking a certain way? that isn't my situation, but you're kind of attacking plastic surgery in general for all reasons when you say insurance shouldn't cover any of it. anyway...i would have dumped you regardless. id like someone who wouldn't leave me when my body changes, naturally or unnaturally. different strokes though.

[Opinion Owner]

Plastic reconstructive surgery is not the same thing as elective surgery. For instance, if a guy's penis is 6 inches long and works perfectly normally, he doesn't need to add 3 more inches just "because". Now, if he has a micro-penis and can't urinate or has other issues related to it, that's different. Getting other people to pay for body jobs that have nothing to do with medical need, be it the insurance company or a SO is selfish. Do you want to subsidize my penis enlargement?

[Asker]

breast implants after having your t*ts chopped off due to breast cancer isn't a medical need. you don't have a "medical need" for a boob job. if youve been shot in the face and survived or youved survived serious burn injuries, whatever, and your face is left deformed in some way, you're going to want plastic surgery. it isn't a medical need. you don't need anything. but you want to fix your appearance because of some misfortune. you can function fine though. you're against this?

[Asker]

im not saying its the same as me wanting my body fixed because nature just dealt me a sh*tty hand. but you're making huge statements about how you think its selfish for insurance to cover anything that isn't a medical need for functioning properly. that includes a lot of things. treatment for severe acne, vitiligo, braces for teeth, etc. this is pretty radical is what I'm saying, and kind of showing a coldness and lack of compassion for people as well. its just food for thought really.

[Opinion Owner]

Getting shot, having breast cancer or any other type of accident is triggered by events outside of the control of the individual that would like the surgery. I'm all for insurance paying to restore the looks of people were suffering in this fashion. Wanting to have less saggy breasts is not something that insurance should be subsidizing. One group of people have had serious damage done to their body, the other person just has insecurities. There's a HUGE difference.

[Opinion Owner]

You're overreaching with your argument. I never said that I NEVER supported cosmetic insurance support, just limited to real need. Acne is a very serious problem for some people. It is a skin condition, one that is defined by dermatological. To the best of my knowledge, there is no "I have a flat butt" or "I have saggy breasts" condition in the medical dictionary. I understand why you might want work done, even if I don't agree with it. I just don't think it is right to ask others to pay for it.

[Asker]

right but they want surgery because theyre insecure with the way their bodies look after that damage. the point is that logically you're going to find a road block in your position. insecurity plays into both situations. if you're one of those radical people who like to "bare their scars to the world" then you won't want plastic surgery after being deformed or losing your breasts (and yes I've met people like this). you don't have a "medical need" you just don't like the way you look. whatever. lol

[Asker]

so you think its rational to support face wash and creams to reduce the bumps on my face but not to alter other parts of my body? and again, the aftermath of those surgeries from tragedies aren't conditions either. cancer is the condition. curing cancer doesn't give you t*ts, it gets rid of cancer. lmao. anything after that is plastic surgery to improve your appearance. its okay you're not getting it and you're entitled to your beliefs as well so we'll just wrap this up and call it a day :)

[Opinion Owner]

Having saggy breasts will not deny you entry to the workforce. Having a massively scarred face often times will. I'm not against plastic surgery, just that I don't believe that I, as someone who pays premiums on insurance, should be footing your bill. If you want, go ahead and get your boob/butt job. Seriously! I'm not trying to stop you, I just don't think you should ask me or anyone else that pays for insurance to help cover your costs indirectly.

[Opinion Owner]

QA, you seemed to get lost a few comments back. I have nothing against you getting work done, even if I am not a fan of the idea on a personal level. My main point is, that I don't want to have to pay for it directly or indirectly. You being born with a flat rear end is not reason enough for me to open my pocket book and subsidize your costs. If you can bring cash to the table, you make your rear end as juicy as you want. And you have a wonderful day too! :)

[Asker]

i thought it was fairly clear that I didn't have an issue with your personal views on my surgery, just the irrational, bold views you stated when you said that only medical need for functionality should justify insurance covering surgery. I saw a flaw in that and pointed it out. if you want to change your position or something, that's fine. now its about how it affects you in the workplace? I could easily make the claim that having a hot body will help me at work as well. be CONSISTENT! is all :)

[Anonymous]

Ladies I'm telling you now don't get implants. You say now that that may be the only way for you but its not. If you stay natural you have a much higher chance of finding a quality guy. Most guys worth going out with prefer natural girls. The only kind of guys you will get with those major surgeries is guys who only like the new you and chances are would never have talked to you in the first place without them. Do you really want someone that requires you to be fake just to have a relationship?

[-Darling]

+++++++++++++++++++++ I like you!

[Asker]

i don't base my decisions around finding men who are so shallow that they would reject me because I needed to do something to improve my confidence and happiness with myself and my appearance. women should do what makes them happy, not move chess pieces throughout life to make sure they catch a man. wtf is this, 1960? gtfo here, dude. thumbs down. :)

[cyrus7]

eww butt implants? no thnx

I prefer my women natural and comfortable with themselves

[Asker]

lol its okay you and I can just be friends then. yay :)

[cyrus7]

sure lol

[99PROBLEMS]

i need bigger boobs

smaller nose

fuller lips

I think it looks too fake when you get butt implants. and I heard you can't sit for quite a while :/

[Asker]

its okay, ill just booty clap all day xD yeah things in general look fake. fake boobs look fake usually. I guess I just think its better than someone telling me I have a flat ass, that men want "real women with curves" or that I have the butt of a little boy. these things don't make me feel great. fake> feeling like sh*t about my body.

[99PROBLEMS]

yeahh.. I know what you mean. :(

[taster]

Leave your boobs alone..they are just fine...(:

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with you-not with your body anyway.

[Asker]

lol that's so easy for you to say. you don't have to live with it. thanks for the half-compliment though. ill take it for what its worth.