Do you consider this incest? And what do you think of this situation?

[Anonymous]

Another question kind of triggered this in my mind. Do you consider adoptive siblings having sex and a relationship together to be incest? I'm curious because I was in that situation. I'm adopted, I was adopted when I was 14, and never really thought of my adoptive mom as my "real mother". This is in large part due to the fact that I was only adopted because she wanted to adopt my baby brother, and the social worker advised against splitting us up since I was the only family he really knew. by extension, I didn't really see my new brothers (the ones who were at her house already) as my real brothers either. Also, the racial difference kind of emphasized that for me as well. she had 3 boys there already, 2 were her biological children. the one I had a relationship with is one of her biological children. all of the boys kind of had an attraction to me when I got to the house. it was kind of awkward. how do you try to start seeing people as family that you love and care for in the middle of teenage hormones gone wild, and with someone you're attracted to? so weird lol Anyway, they all flirted with me but the others grew out of it. Theyre still attracted to me, and there's that odd feeling of knowing that if I wanted to have sex with any of my adoptive brothers, I could. that's not really something I want to know, but its there. in general though, they all kind of shook it off and now I'm mostly just their sister, (except the one I'm telling you about). this one apparently had strong feelings for me for about 2 years and when we were 17, we started getting closer for some reason. I think we had more of the same classes in school and we found ourselves at home at the same times more for some reason. I don't remember but we started getting closer and I started getting a bit of a crush on him. and I asked him if he thought it was wrong if I "hypothetically had a thing for him" lol and he got quiet for a bit and then he told me how he felt right there on the couch. he said he really cared about me and basically poured his heart out. he told me he understood if things were weird between us from that point on but that I should know. we didn't talk about it for a few days and then I kissed him. yes, it was my fault that the whole sh*t started, but that's what happen. to make a long story short, we started making out and touching each other, then having oral sex, then actual sex. this lasted for like 2 years on a regular basis and then we both moved to the same state because the schools we wanted to go to were both in the same state. then we started dating. that lasted about 8 months. its over now but I do care about him in a way that I don't feel about my other brothers because we actually had a relationship together and I did love him (like romantically) at some point. I just stopped it all because it couldn't go anywhere. she still has custody of my brother. if she found out, there would be hell to pay. and I don't trust her like he does. thoughts?

[Anonymous]

you said racial difference. what's your race?

i think you should be together if you really want to. however, I can see how the situation with your brother would be reason enough not to. I don't consider that incest based on this example but I know people who are adopted who would disagree. they feel that their families are actual family to them and I know that saying he's not your family could offend many people who are adopted and make it sound like I'm saying they aren't really family with their loved ones. I think you're fine though.

on another note, I also think that's pretty hot lol I would have loved to have an adopted sister that I found hot to be in my house, available to f*** at all times in my adolescent days. sign me up for that!

[Asker]

lol calm down. he's white and "part native American." im multiracial I guess you would call it. black, white, and chinese.

[anthony8x]

Screw that be with the kid if you love him. It's not incest at all! If he was biologically related it would be different. However, this is a technicality! You have no true connection to this family. I don't even see why there would be hell to pay. You are not doing anything wrong.

I say if it makes you happy keep on keeping on. Especially since it's not really incest at all.

[sovetskii13]

Since you two are not related by blood, then it is NOT incest. So, you can have sex with him if you want. Being in a relationship with your step brother will probably be taken negatively by your step mom, but it's your life, so it's your choice.

[BillHe1]

It's normal, and there is nothing wrong about it. You are not biological siblings. You step Mom might not have agreed to it, but you have nothing to feel bad about. I hope you had a great experience while it lasted.

[pikopup26]

i say no biggie ! incest only counts with blood .

[Riogrande499]

Dnt be shy of ashamed he's not blood so ur OK with society but life is life no one can judge

[nasty4fun]

A lot and some good some baf

[red_knight]

Fuck, I thought that was hot..

[guyinterested]

Incest is only between blood relatives

[714goofball]

is he your first love?

[Anonymous]

Technically it is not incest when there is no genetic connection. But the taboo in incest has softened appreciably during the past half a century with the advent of safe contraception (to prevent an unwanted pregnancy) and the spread of STD's. As long as it is consensual, and safe sex is practised, the old taboo no longer applies.

[Anonymous]

if its not your real brother then its always upto you how you look at your relation...if you accept him as your bro then u'll feel it's incest

bt if you don't care about this relation then u'll do whatever you want...NO MATTER what answers you get here!

[Anonymous]

once your not blood related in any way then it is not incest.

so your good to go .