I can squirt but I'm not sure whether to tell my boyfriend about this hidden talent? do guys like this?

I know how to make myself squirt when I cum, it is usually from a second/third orgasm because it feels stronger to me. However I've only been with my boyfriend a little while and during sex we don't get round to making me come more than once. I know I could squirt for him and it would feel good but I'm a little embarrassed...i don't just want to do it in case he doesn't like it and it shocks him lol. Am I best to just not tell him and not squirt or should I let him know beforehand and go for it? what are your opinions on female ejaculation guys?
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  • I personally would like it if a girl squirted. Any sign a girl enjoys sex is a good thing to me. If we have to put down towels or plastic before sex that's a good thing lol. If you're currently only getting one orgasm from sex and you don't squirt until number 2 or 3 you probably shouldn't mention it yet though or your guy might feel like he's not good enough to bring you to a real orgasm. I think after he comes you should keep gently and lightly trying to make out with him until he gets hard again and go for round two and then let yourself squirt. After he realizes you squirt after round 2 or 3 he'll start trying to go that long for you and everything will be great. If he can only go once (which is fairly normal) try getting him to eat you out to orgasm number one before he even starts intercourse and then squirt all over him on number two. I can't imagine any guy complaining about getting a girl off no matter how messy.

  • A guy should be trying to satisfy his girl every time, and since multiple orgasms are easy for most girls, I am surprised he has not tried to give you multiple ones yet.

    You should not try to not squirt. That would be holding back on your pleasure, which you should not have to do and no guy should expect you to hold back.

    You might want to explain things to him soon. If he doesn't like it (unlikely), then it would be better for you to move on to a more compatible (and appreciative) boyfriend. But if you don't explain it first and it happens, you may surprise him in a not good way because you have been having sex for a while without the squirting.

    Again, you should never have to hold back on your pleasure.

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  • Most every guy who likes sex would love to have his female partner squirt. I have been blessed with the ability to squirt fairly easy and it can turrn great sex into a mind blowing session.

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  • If you really want to make him feel good about himself, don't tell him about your ability to do it, just do it and tell him that's how good it felt.

    I guarantee you, after that, there won't be another time he doesn't work his butt off to make you come three times. I know that's what I would do.

  • I suppose there is a man who does not like this. I haven't actually asked all the men I know. Every time this has come up men think girls squirting is extremely hot.

    My Girlfriend recently discovered she could do this while using a vibrator in private. After doing it twice she told me about it. This is an exciting addition to our sexuality.

    With an earlier Girlfriend she squirted for the first time while I was giving her oral sex. We both thought this was great!

    Your choice is to tell him, or to just do it with him. Either way he will 99.99% really like this.

  • Probably 99% of men will find that really hot, and a big plus to their sex life. So, I recommend telling him in a sexual way that you can squirt, and you can teach him how to do it. It will be very romantic if you guide him, and teach him the proper moves and techniques to make you squirt. Plus, it will really improve your sexual relationship if he uses your instructions, and makes you squirt. It will make him feel so good and powerful. Just warn him if you are about to squirt so he can be prepared for it.

  • Wow are you kidding? your boyfriend will love it! don't even hesitate. I would say about 5% or less of guys actually dislike it... I highly doubt your boyfriend is one of the few. The wetness would be a turn on, you could try to get him to make you orgasm through oral then fingering before penetration so you are ready and I highly doubt he will dislike it, just let go and have fun :) good luck

  • OMG I like that, I want you to cowgirl ride me and squirt all over me or when I go down on you MMMMMM LOL :)

    • I like this.. a lot

  • Its awesome! Give him a heads up and if he is OK with it, go for it. Some of my best experiences have been with squirters.There's not many men I know that don't absolutely love it when theyre with someone who squirts.

  • I like about any female body fluids: cum, squirt & pee...they are all hot as hell...(:

  • Tell him, he will love it lol

  • He will love it. Just ask him if he wants to feel your p**** reeeaaaalllly wet, he'll say yes...then let the flood gates loose!

  • I love it but that's just me I would go for it. he cares enough to get you off once why not go for it. but I would talk about it or maybe kind of bring it up to see what his opinion is without talking him you can.

  • That would be a nice surprise. I would love it.

  • guys love girls that can squirt. but when you tell him you should show him if you know what I mean

  • i can't wait to be with a girl that squirts so she can come all over my face

    • I got wet just reading this.

    • @lethal23 can a girl squirt on her period? Is it weird I would let her?

  • How can you so I can let my girl do it for me?

  • You should just go for it. Maybe get him to finger you to orgasm and then go down on you to orgasm before you let him stick it in. Then maybe you'll be warmed up enough that his pounding will put you over the top into squirtland.

    • SQUIRTLAND! LOL

    • It's a happy, if damp, party for everyone!

  • huge turn on

  • tell him that you have a peeing problem lately, and you can pee. fcuk him and squirt... oops =)

  • I love squirting! One of my previous girlfriends was a really big squirter! One day she showed me in the shower how she did it and I was like, are you serious!? That's hot! Anyways, she showed me how to finger her properly to get the desired result and let me tell you, it is really a huge turn-on.

    Tell him sometime outside of the bedroom of your talent. Ask him to let you demonstrate it for you in the shower when you guys can give each other a nice bath. Then get to work. Once he gets the idea of what is all about, let him try it now next time in the bedroom, just keep a towel handy. :)