Can I have sex with my boyfriend while he is asleep?

Sometimes in the middle of the night I wake up, and I lay towards my boyfriend to snuggle up to him and for some reason I have this habit to pat his penis before I go back to bed and each time I do that, he's always hard. So since he's sleeping and his penis is erected, is it possible for me to try and have sex with him?
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  • I Found out that I raped my boyfriend. We had sex 10 times in one night with consent then he fell alsleep but I wanted more I tried waking him up but he said he was tired. I felt pain and wanted to come from my vagina I began touching him. Then he woke up and I asked again till he finally said yes then we had sex I never came he woke up again and thrust his hips. I thought our first wake up sex would be amazing to him as I read online but later he said I raped him. That word hit me to the core. I feel like garbage. We're still dating and he wants to get married but I'll never be the same again. I just wanted him to feel good and happy since in the past his last girlfriend forced him in her physically. I never wanted to be a rapist and literally have no idea how I'm going to ever get over this... :(

  • you can but that's what I do to my man as well you can try it I have try it with my man and I though he was fully asleep and he scary the crap out of me you can try it but don't tell me act like you know like something is going on close your eyes but don't fall asleep you should be able to why not hey if men can do it to us while were asleep we can do it to them have fun

  • Well I think it would be hot for both of you but if he's the type that doesn't like surprices then don't cause he can wake up and not know wats going on and knock you out. And also if your horny and he's erect you can masturbate next to him and wait till he wakes up and have him join you for some fun

  • that's a bit weird! I don't think you would enjoy it very much if you wee to awake with someone inside of you

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  • Basically, would you like this done to you, the answer (I assume!) is probably not.

    The reason, incidentally for him having an erection is that during the night men go through cycles where their testosterone levels are very high, this causes spontaneous erections to occur (and eventually subside) and the male won't even wake up. Hence the term 'morning glory'.

    Hope that helps you realise it's just a biological process rather than him constantly wanting sex! Slowly waking him up whilst playing with him though, might be a nice kinky surprise as a one off though :-)

    • I Found out that I raped my boyfriend. We had sex 10 times in one night with consent then he fell alsleep but I wanted more I tried waking him up but he said he was tired. I felt pain and wanted to come from my vagina I began touching him. Then he woke up and I asked again till he finally said yes then we had sex I never came he woke up again and thrust his hips. I thought our first wake up sex would be amazing to him as I read online but later he said I raped him. That word hit me to the core. I feel like garbage. We're still dating and he wants to get married but I'll never be the same again. I just wanted him to feel good and happy since in the past his last girlfriend forced him in her physically. I never wanted to be a rapist and literally have no idea how I'm going to ever get over this... :(

  • i can't imagine a guy not liking it...unless he has to be up real early for work and go no sleep which most guys would still love it haha I've actually had it happen to me a couple of times most people don't know that the time of day most people are horny is the morning/middle of the night that's why guys wake up with morning wood a lot...thats why you rbf is hard...thats why guys have wet dreams...the only thing id be worried about is if he cums fast because he won't be expecting it...be careful but id say DO IT!

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  • Too bad it doesn't work out nearly so well the other way around.

  • My girlfriend in high school used to do that to me, but I'd usually wake up half way through and be like "what the hell, I'm sleeping". :P

  • Go for it. He's unlikely to object.

  • My girlfriend actually did that to me a couple of time. I didn't complain, but then you feel like falling asleep again, and I'm a morning person.

  • =L this question made me laugh =L

    you could go for it if you want but if I were you I'd tell him in advance =L

  • hell yeah...go ahead and do it..its a great way to be woken up in the middle of the night...a girl ontop having fun...thats the way I like it...soo much better to wake up to that than a dam alarm clock...go for it and enjoy it...don't tell him and surprise him..its a great thing...

  • If you know your boyfriend/girlfriend well enough, then you will know if it's ok. There's no strict rule for this, it all depends on your relationship.

  • I'm sure he would love it. If you're worried, ask him about it if he's awake, and see what he has to say.

  • I would definitely love my girlfriend to do that to me. However, since people usually don't do this, he won't expect it and it could scare him. The same risk is there if he does it to you. And neither one of you needs that. If you wanna do it, tell him first and see what he thinks. If he's like me, he'll want you to surprise him one night.

  • why don't you wake him up! He will wake up anyway!

  • This is kind of funny lol...

    He would love it, I don't care what guy it is, he'll love it. Any guy that wakes up and his girlfriend is riding him...it can't get much better...

    One thing to be aware of...if he doesn't wake up soon enough...he could bust pretty quickly...

  • But what if I'll just give him blowjob is that okay? And wink at him when he's awake :D

  • I don't think it would matter. You could leave a note , or condom wrapper in trash if this is done. Or just leave him all wet. Ride or suck. If it was a guy you weren't planning on staying with you could see how many of your friends could do it too! If he says something about just say it was there and could help you sleep. Or whatever you want i guess. I wouldn't worry.

  • I have had this done to me, a coupkeep of times. I am a heavy sleeper & was told about what happened during the night, the next morning. She rode me for quite a while, she came on me a few times while I never got of. Woke up in the morning really horny. Always liked hearing about how much fun she had & told her to do that as much as she liked.

  • Maybe I'm not a typical girl but I have woken to a partner playing with me and it is the absolutely the best way to get woken up. Too many guys assume women don't like a certain thing but we think of sex far more than you realise!

  • depends on the person if you two are really really close then it should be alright but if not and he freaks out he could technically report it as rape do to not being of consent. however obviously if he loves you enough and you love him enough neither would report that if either of you tried that best of luck be safe. (( if you do decide to go for it put a condom on him since there's no way to tell how quickly he could cum as being asleep makes you sexually more sensitive. gotta avoid unintentional pregnancy and all))

  • wow so why don't you wake him up since he already hard

    and that mean he in the mood

    but unless you like to ride then you should just go for it

    if that's your kinds thing

  • yep, it's possible, and he will probably like it. But be aware that it is technically rape.

  • u should try it out... I would kinda wierded out that you were doing that but if you tell him in advance and if he's asleep and you put it in ... could be a wierd/fun experience.. I dunno, maybe its a new fantasy of mine haha 8)

  • Yeah but I wouldn't do it without asking him if it's okay. You might seriously scare the hell out of him.

    • Lol I agree

    • But on the other hand he might be totally surprised and loveee it

    • If you're gambling on someone you love, don't do it. There's no way to know how he'll react, he might even wake up suddenly and smack into you.

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