I think I have ugly downstairs region and tiny boobs?

I saw a question on here about meat curtains and now I'm so confused. So what's an outtie and an innie? I thought an outtie was when the fold things came outside of the vagina and an innie was the folds were inside the vagina. I don't know what I am. I have the folds up by the clitoris and I hate them. They hang down and I don't want a guy to see them. Everything else is tucked up in the vag, but up by my clitoris the folds hang down. I hate it, I like when a guy fingers me and goes down on me, but I rather them go down in the dark so they can't see it. I want to cry sometimes and I'm in University, so I don't have lots of money for plastic surgery and I don't really want to do plastic surgery anyways. But I hate how I look, I don't even want to look at myself in the mirror because I feel worse about myself. Same with my boobs, they're little 32A. I got the worst genes for reproductive structures. Big folds by my clit and tiny boobs. They only thing I have going for me is my legs and butt and I'm skinny with abs. But even then, you put me in a bikini and I see cellulite or bumpy skin where by butt and thigh meet (like under my butt cheeks). I'm so self conscious because I see other girls who are better than me. Of course there are girls worse off than me, but still. I've never had a boyfriend. This is a rant, but I'm really upset about this. I hate how I look down there and I have a tiny rack, it sucks so much.
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  • If only you could see my browser favourites! Lol. You sound hot!

    First up, whatever you do, don't have plastic surgery! Secondly you sound like my girlfriend so that's freaky . (When I met my girlfriend she was 18, an athlete and hated her body. She thought she had tiny t*ts, had abs not curves and was a virgin with a hairy p**** who wouldn't take her bra off.) Thirdly, its all about attitude!

    Just remember if a guy's talking to you (or fingering you...), he fancies you! He wants to hold your hard little waist with one hand, your peachy bum with the other, kiss your chest and suck on your nipples, see and feel your your bald p**** lips wrap round his d*** and hear you whisper in his ear"I know you love my little t*ts by the size of your d***"!

    Isn't that horny? Yeah it is ;-)

    *ps. Sry to be rude but its true, you have nothing to worry about.

  • If I were building he perfect woman for me, she'd be slim, little bit of a butt, 32a, labia long enough to suck on during oral but not so big they'd get pinched during sex.

    I'd say you sound fine, but that would be a major understatement.

    • I've never had sex. I saw on here too that women get those reductions because tight clothes are uncomfortable. I know wearing new jeans, they ride up in there and it's so uncomfortable. I hate it. Now I'm wondering if I'd be getting pinched if I did have sex.

    • I seriously doubt it. The only women I've read about with that problem had probably 3 to 4 inch wide labia. Your body sounds fantastic. The older you get, the more your small breasts will be an advantage as well. And I don't just mean because of sagging. I suspect older guys tend to more often like small breasts because they make the woman look younger. When you're 16 that's the big disadvantage probably but for most of your life looking younger is a plus

    • I know I don't really look my age, I'm not complaining I've decided to embrace it ha ha! :D When I was still in high school I slightly complained, but then I was like "Wait, this is a good thing. I'll take it actually!"

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  • Guys on here love big lips down below and love small boobs.

    Outie is where the labia protrudes and an innie is where the labia doesn't protrude. You might be an in between? Don't know & I don't wanna see(plus it violates rules)

    In reality small boobs may not be ideal but women with small t*ts continue to get married and reproduce so it's not the end all.

    Your down below region sounds pretty normal by the way.

    As for cellulite, there are lotions to temporarily plump up the skin for special occasions, so if you're ever gonna be exposing that area, try investing in it. Working out may also help minimize the appearance of cellulite too, but you can't make it go away, especially if you're skinny.

    • Also, I don't think you should worry about these things because of what you saw on here :P I think too many specifics and details are talked about on here but in reality these things are either something you're insecure about or something you aren't. Wouldn't worry too much about the innie/outie thing cause a p**** is a p**** to guys

    • Labia-is that the minora or majora thing? I'm so confused on this anatomy :S

    • But the opinions on here aren't necessarily representative of all guys. I haven't had a guy say to me omg your flaps are long, that'd be a d*** move. But I'm scared of his thoughts on what I look like, that's the problem.

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  • All vaginas are beautiful! :D

    But really, lets be realistic. Genitals are funky lookin' body parts--for both genders. And if any guy says you have an ugly vagina, then he must not be sexually attracted to women. Cause seriously, guys are just honored that you'll let them get anywhere near it lol

    I've got "flaws" just like everyone else. But I've come to accept and love those "flaws". I hope you learn to change your perception of beauty so you can love yourself. I know it's hard because beauty is put in such a f***ed up spotlight, but you'll feel so much better if you ignore society and view beauty by your own definition :) yeah, yeah, yeah, dare call me a hippie...

    • No no, it's good advice. It's just I've always been hard on myself both academically and in looks. I compare myself all the time to better things. I'm very self conscious, it's gotten better, but not in the naked department ha ha.

    • Females got this HUGE problem of seeing to or referring to "flaws" and frequently these "flaws" are what I actually prefer...then they go out and spend time & money to change what I like into some f***ing bullsh*t that I like less or even not at all...I like outties & small breasts and birthmarks and pubic hair...I don't like bare & huge boobs & tattoos & piercings...I can deal with innies but I would seriously dump some dumb broad who lasered off her pubes.../:/:/:

    • Oh taster, a man of my own heart <3 All my friends have gone bald, and for years every time I'm changing in front of a friend they ask why I never shave mine. Now I trim, and clean up my bikini line and keep it tidy, but I prefer the natural look. I think it's weird that looking like a 7-year-old girl is trendy. The first time I had sex with my boyfriend I said that I know having pubes isn't ideal, but there's no way I'm going bald. He said my pubes were sexy, but my confidence was sexier.

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  • We're harder on ourselves than others are on us.

    • But I saw a picture comparing a vag with small flap things to one with long ones and the one with small one was way nicer looking.

    • You can say that again...and again...and again...and again..and again..and again...and again.../:/:

    • We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us. We're harder on ourselves than others are on us.

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  • Guys won't care.

    At all.

    • Well, that pretty much sums it up.

  • I like outties and small boobs...so..what's the problem?...btw..it is upsetting to hear you putting down my preferences..so if you feel like taking a Bad Trip...maybe do it privately?

  • Lol dude if you have a great ass and are in good shape it won't matter. Trust me the majority of dudes won't care how your vagina looks as long as they get to be inside it.

    • I hope you're right, I just don't like how it looks. I tried the landing strip and it emphasized even more, so I stopped there didn't try shaving it all off. So I keep a patch, trimmed obviously and small, which is so out of style...

  • would you rather be in the situation you're in or be 250 lbs or have some kind of disease and 4 weeks to live?

    i personally like the skinny girl with perky boobs! add me if you want to talk

    • I know there's people worse off, but I can't help the way I feel. But there's barely anything to grab :(

    • Great Answer! kudos...

  • I love outies

  • It could be worse... You could be a unattractive guy with a small dick...

  • Why, oh why, can so many people not know the difference between vagina and vulva? Not just the QA, but also answerers. And then I see this comment about everything else is tucked up in the vag, and I get a mental picture that really represents a jam packed vagina (not to mention how bad all else around there would look if it was all pulled into the vagina).

    • Oh crap, ha ha I mean vulva. I knew that difference between vag and vulva, but I don't know that proper names of the flaps :P

  • GIRL ...DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT CHANGING YOURSELF IN ANY OTHER WAY THAN You ARE

    ... the way you described how your body looks especially "down there" made me excited and the way you look sounds soooooooo beautiful and your boob size sounds so perfect not all guys want girls with huge boobs some like them small

    please .. stay the way you are

    • I barely have a handful in my own hands, so there'd be nothing in a guys hands. I was laying down this one time and talking about them to a guy and he's like well let's see and he put his on on them and said yeah they're so small, but so. It's not a fair comparison since I was laying down so they'd be flatter, but I'd love to be able to motorboat a guy. Or fill bras out, I'd love to be a B cup

  • pics to prove it? ;)

    • Ha ha, dude I can barely look at myself. And even if I was bold enough to take a pic, not putting them on the internet lol