What do you think of Leykis 101 rules?

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Tom Leykis, the guru of poon, has a bunch of rules for guys to follow that essentially leads to one goal: getting laid. He says chivalry is dead, and women want men who are hard to get.Leykis 101 Rules1. Spend no more than 40 dollars on a date.* You worked hard for it and you should keep it. Spending more won't get you laid anyway. Optimally you should set up an after dinner date for cocktails.2. Never date single mothers.* You already know her stance on abortion, she won’t have one. Don’t risk paying vaginamoney. Plus her kids will always be #1 in her life and you will always be in the back burner. Why would you want to be in second place to some spoiled brat. They already made a mistake once, twice or more. Note: Child support if for 18 years boys!3. 3 dates and no poon...?...you are outta there.* If you haven't got laid by the 3rd date you are travling down the "friends" road and she is just sponging off you. (Leykis' 3 date rule is for guys who ONLY want sex - they don't WANT a relationship. If you're looking for a relationship, then that rule doesn't apply).4. Leave if a chick if she answers her cell phone during a date.* Most likely she has set up the bogus emergency call to get out of the date early because she's not going to bang or, she just talked to the bad boy that will bang her after you just bought the meal. If she answers the phone and you get that vibe, excuse yourself to the restroom and leave her there.5. No coffee dates, no lunch dates.* These are non-humping dates. You want alcohol involved.6. There should be as little time as possible from drinking to banging. Don't detour to Denny's for breakfast or anything like that. She'll sober up and she won't want to bang.7. Thursday-Saturday is offlimits for a girl unless its definite poon. This time is spent hanging out with your friends and having a good time.8. Never answer your phone during the weekend.* You want women to believe you are too busy out doing stuff.9. Do not have a serious relationship until you have realized your personal dreams.* Women are dream killers and will suck the life out of what you always wanted to do.10. (For beginers) To get it done, Leykis says start with chunky chicks who are experienced or older women.* Older women will love a young guy hitting on them and will show them the ropes. Remember: To play in the game, you have to warm up in the bullpen. This method gives you lots of room for player mistakes.11. Never bang any chick from work.* Unless you want to be fired. Yea, lots of people have met at work and it worked out for them but, there are also lots of sexual harassment suits ahppening and you don't want to be one of them.12. YOU ARE PROUD TO BE AN a**hole...wear it like a badge.* Tons of women seem to respect guys that act like jerks. If it's not true why are they alway running after "Bad Boys"?13. USE A CONDOM DURING EVERY ENCOUNTER. NO EXCEPTIONS!* You don't want the crap she brought home and you don't

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You've got to be especially attractive and funny to be able to act like this and pull ass. Also, have low standards helps -- but all of these things would have helped all along.

Plenty of decent fellows get a girlfriend and have nice, fulfilling lives. But using derogatorily messaged "rules" on how dating works sells copies, both men and womens' dating advice use this attempt. It makes the reader feel empowered and fuels their bitterness. Does it work? Maybe if the person had the raw skills to begin with, but only in very limited ways. I'm sure you can find similar advice in "The Gold Digger's handbook" or its equivalent.

gravygirl · Accepted Answer

I think this kind of douchebag behavior gets men exactly the kind of women they deserve.  Guys, if you like dumb/needy girls who are desperate enough to do anything to please (at first) then this is probably a good script for you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honestly bro, none of that sh*t works.

The best way to get sex or a girlfriend is to be genuine and talk to them and get to know them. I know a lot of girls are shallow these days, but no all.

If you respect a girls mind, get to know her, she'll be begging you to put out. But that only after you actually treat them like human beings, no animals.

TheRealAttila · Accepted Answer

Leykis's 101 Rules To Sleeping With Insecure Women

Seriously though, it's stupid to use any rules across all your interactions. Creating connections and attraction is about knowing how to adapt to different situations.

MrNameless · Answer

Honestly... This sounds pretty legit. women will always go after the a**holes.

And if chivalry is dead, it's because some women keep on holding to old-fashioned courting where they expect men to do all the courting for them.

kmhco · Answer

That's disgusting...but then again that's my opinion of casual sex in general...

PoeticNinja · Answer

This made me laugh.  I wouldn't want a guy to spend more than $40 anyways.

Habakkuk · Answer

lol @ rule #1 that happens to be exactly the maximum I was planning on spending for the prom xD

Moloch · Answer

The man is a poon guru for a reason. This is pretty legit, I've listened to his talk show a few times, and the man knows what he's talking about.

Hades · Answer

Seems legit. Gotta give credit to Tom for trying his best to help other guys out. I wouldn't engage in casual sex though, so most of them are meaningless to me.