GUYS: What kind of Girl do You Consider a Slut/Ho/Loose? Where do YOU personally draw the line?

[uluvshrainey]

Also, Describe: 1) a girl you know in real life that you consider "easy" or slutty. And then 2) one you would consider being in a long term relationship with or willing to marry. Like for example I'd consider a guy who has a new girl every weekend a player... one who has a new girl every other month okay to be friends with...and if he sleeps only with girls he's in a committed relationship with he's someone I'd marry. I know this is a touchy subject, answer anonymously if you need to plzz. I need as many answers as possible. Because my suspicion is every guy has a different definition. I asked around yesterday and the answers from guy friends were pretty shocking.

[WhiteSteve]

been thinking about this myself lately. I've been on hiatus with my long-term girlfriend due to distance and some personal issues on her end, so we're kind of together, but we can also do what we want, but we'll most likely ultimately end up together. anyway, blahblahblah, I'm semi-single. so I met this one girl, and we definitely like each other, but the thing is, she has kind of a reputation from her younger days. she's 27 now, and has been in a few long-term relationships. but my buddy who grew up with her said "yo, she's an AWESOME girl, you should totally go for her...but I'm not going to lie to you, she f*cked a lotta dudes. but that was all 8 or 9 years ago." I don't know if that means 20? 50? 100? anyway, I don't want it to make me hesitant, especially since it was in the past, and she's otherwise perfect from what I can tell so far. I guess the less I know, the better, haha... I don't care about what she did in high school and college, but I have a clean blood test, and I'm trying to keep it that way. and I really can't do condoms too far into a relationship, I'd almost rather not have sex at all than use them. so I need an equally disease-free lady, and I don't really want to be in that position where I have to say "i won't sleep with you because you have X, Y, or Z." so, yeah, anyway, tangent...hahaha.

i guess you have to take age into consideration. like if a girl is 19 and has slept with ten guys, I might get the impression that she was into casual sex. if a 28 year old has slept with ten guys, I'd think that she might be a relationship type and only slept with guys she dated for at least a few weeks. but I'm interested to see what everyone says too...

i'm trying to think of girl that's perceived as slutty that isn't batsh*t crazy to boot, so I wouldn't marry them anyway, haha. and the girl I like I don't know well enough to say yet. I guess this girl brie I used to work with in college was kind of easy. my roommate was from her town, and his stories are mostly what I was working off in making that call. she was just kind of a barfly that was a little skanky I guess, haha. she was nice enough, but her voice sounded EXACTLY like Quinn Morgandorfer, the little sister from that old cartoon "Daria." and I mean EXACTLY like her. and if you know who I'm referencing, you know that isn't a great thing, hahaha. anyway, she got me one time too. flashed her tongue ring at me one too many times after a few too many shots of tequila and I let her give me a David Blowie...we men are so weak, haha. but to her credit, it was PHENOMENAL, hahaha. but I wouldn't really bring her home to mom, it was just a drunk one-time thing.

but in the end, I don't know if I can put a definite number on where I draw the line, you kind of just know promiscuous behavior when you see it.

[uluvshrainey]

thank you!

[Alecandrius]

The only issue I have with "Sluts" is that

A) They're more likely to have diseases

B) They are potentially unstable or have unresolved issues that go beyond just having a lot of sex.

C) They probably can't commit to a relationship as well as perhaps less "Open" women.

D) How they carry themselves, if they boast about their sexual conquests then that's a big red flag.

A women who has had her fair share of partners would would have a more difficult time getting me to bed her even after dating long term if there was no engagement ring or wedding planned, and six months of a years worth of STD tests, one every other month probably. A women who openly boasts about her conquests wouldn't get to first base with me.

I knew a girl named Calista in high school and she had one of the purest hearts you could ever know, she also had a lot of men who sampled her honey pot and then left afterwards.

I would consider a girl a slut if she openly admitted to having sex with a ton of guys and boasted about it.

[uluvshrainey]

i agree with this

[LegendsNeverDie]

I try not to make character judgments based on sexual activity. Instead I just say someone has a lifestyle incompatible with mine if I feel like they're behavior is wildly different from what I'd usually do.

My friend once had sex with a girl in a bar 30 minutes after meeting her. I was like, whoa, that might be a little too quick for my taste.

Having said that, I'd give almost any girl a chance. You never really know how things are going to click until you try, despite things you've seen or heard. But I also feel like I'm a guy and I can afford to take chances.

[ben890]

I don't look down on anyone for their sex lives. If "slut" wasn't such a negative word in our culture, I would use it freely to anyone who has lots of sex with lots of people, because I don't see that as a bad thing, even if I'm pretty sexually introverted myself.

If a girl has a very experienced history but she's not immoral about it (cheating, participating in someone else's cheating, stealing people's money while she's in their bedroom, haha), her past sex life wouldn't make much of a difference in whether I'm interested in her or not. I guess I would be hesitant toward someone who has had lots of casual sex, but only because I would wonder if we could possibly be compatible in other ways. I wouldn't refuse to give it a chance, though.

[kheserthorpe]

Basically I'd categorize girls as those who have casual sex, those who have relationship sex and those who have married sex only.

If I were single I'd date or marry the first two But I expect to be treated with as much interest as other guys. I.e. if she's had one night stands before and wants to wait to use sex with me I'd assume she didn't find me that desireable and be gone.

I can't ever recall thinking a girl was 'slutty'. I hear of girls sometimes who are Doug crazy things and some just love it which is fine. Others seem like they're being used and it's just kind of sad.

[vptwarrior]

My Definitions:

Girl with high sex drive(no mean name for them): Girl who will sleep with guys that are her type to relieve stress or just for pleasure like how guys go after girls without looking for a relationship, are not anything bad in my book because they are not hurting anyone. She could sleep with 400 guys she liked, but if she didn't cheat on anyone, its all good.

Bitch/Ho: annoying hot girl with is willing to cheat on you and will crush your soul for the hell of it.

Slut/Ho: girl who will cheat on you with more than one attractive guy(girls who sleep with a lot of guys and are not in a relationship do not count) as well as constantly flirting with other guys even when you are around.

Whore: girl who gets paid to let you have sex with her, basically a prositute/hooker

Cumdumpster: girl who will sleep with any guy no matter how ugly, smelly, fat, skinny, attractive, young, old, or creepy he is just for the hell of it and do this 20 or more times a day just for pleasure, are more than sex addicts.

Conclusion: A woman is not a whore if she sleeps with several guys, she's a whore if she is paid to do it. Insulting single women who have a lot of sex but go out to get laid every once and awhile is pointless and stupid because guy's try to do the same thing all the time.

[KoolAidDrinker]

Shes a whore if she maked sex important for tge relationship like if he wasbt the best she woukd leave or cheat.

[dudeman]

ill give most women a chance but experience tells me a great majority won't live up to expectations

[Anonymous]

I would think a girl is that way if she is/was a cheater or has sex with a bunch of guys whether she is into casual sex or a serial dater. If she has ever gotten paid for sex, I'd lump her into that too. This includes all forms of sex and not just vaginal sex. If I know that they are into that, I'd avoid them. I only want girls that have sex within a committed relationship. If she's had a couple of sexual partners and they were fairly long time boyfriends, that's fine with me. Also, I am no hypocrite when it comes to any of this.