How Can I Make Him Lose Control?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so I haven't been with many boys, only three, and they've all been with animalistic men that seem to find it easy to lose control and become a complete beast in the bedroom. I really love this kind of sex and foreplay, when the guy can't control himself. I have recently started dating this really lovely guy who is probably the nicest any guy has ever been to me, and who is a really good person etc, but he is just so gentle and non beast-like and it doesn't turn me on so much, how can I make him lose control and just go wild? Does anyone have tips, girls on how they made their guy more comfortable in bed, and guys on how his mind would work? I know he's nervous and inexperienced but I really want him to be wild. Thanks:)

[lproxsme]

try seducing him and talking dirty... I like to play innocent then lead them into it. You can be naughty or nice. When I play naughty I like to undress slowly and and say stuff like "so do you want to play with this naughty girl?" leave a little distance from him so he can't touch you... tell him to undress. then say stuff like "I'm so naughty I need to be punished and I bite my lower lip and kind of look then in the eye then look down at his penis... by then he's hard... "so are you excited for me? Tell me what you want to do to me...? what kind of punishments do you have for me?" If he doesn't know what to say then just name stuff you like and tell him to say yes to it if he wants to do it... I like to touch my boobs and kinda play with them this really turns guys on and you could also say something like " do you like them do you want to touch them?" I also touch or finger myself and let him watch then lick my fingers and tell then that I want them now and I want them to lose control and " f*** me like an animal" something to that degree... then I slowly walk to them and they tend to take over form there if he still doesn't get it you can man handle him like grope him and kiss him. If needed you can move his hands to where you want them. If your on top you can kind of give him an idea of what you want. like really ride him hard and tell him you like it like this... this usually gets him excited and want to take charge. then tell him what you want and switch positions. Like I want you to f*** me hard... ect. tell him how much you like what he's doing this will make him do it more if you want something more just say "i like it when you do_____" or I really want you to do ______this more ect. good luck

[kairon156]

wow. I don't think I ever got hard on GaG before :P nice tips too.

[lproxsme]

lol :D works most the time!

[katiesmuff]

There are guys who will never act like that and some that will always be exactly like that. About the only thing you can do is ask him to be like that as in role playing and see how it goes.

[Anonymous]

when I was with my ex-girl friend I like to take things slow and tease her I love foreplay but after maybe 1-2 minutes she was telling me to f*** her so I solely worked my way up her body tell I could push my d*** in her and started to make love to her in a passionate way.

I was going at a steady pace feeling her body with my hands tell she told me to f*** harder/faster so I just put my arms around her back and went for it. If she didn't tell me to go harder and faster I may have just took my time with it to enjoy the moment but I'm fairly sure we both had a good time in the end.

[lproxsme]

that's hot

[Opinion Owner]

thanks. glad you enjoyed reading.

[hit_0_0]

some guys are just not like that. it's not their nature to be dominant and take control of you in bed.

but if you wanna try to get him to that point, encourage him when you have sex by telling him how bad you want him to fck you more. actually say it, fck me harder baby, etc. it's hard for him to know what you want unless you express in somehow. be hot for him and just bend over on the bed in front of him and tell him to take you right there.

[Asker]

I'm actually really worried that it's not in his nature, but if it isn't, because he's a guy and has testosterone, do you think like, I could persuade him into liking being dominant? Maybe it's just that he hasn't tried it before?

[hit_0_0]

it might not be in his nature to do it on his own, but depending on how open he is to try new stuff it's definitely possible you can teach him and tell him the way youd like to have it done. at the end of the day he probably just wants to give you the best sex possible so if you give him some tips in disguise like "baby I want you to toss me on the bed" or "push me against the wall and fck me" or whatever it is you like then he'll be happy to try it.

[lproxsme]

that's hot!