Girls and masturbating....

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so is it weird that I'm a girl and I do...a lot...haha like I have a boyfriend and its not like I'm not getting any but I still like to do it. probably because I know what feels good and what not. also how often do guys do it? do they do it less if they're getting some? and why does it seem more okay it guys masturbate but its weirder when girls do...or like with guys its just like of course they do but girls never want to admit they dojust curious I guess

lefthand · Accepted Answer

Depends on the person, everyone has their own sexual preference for frequency. Some, like myself, enjoy it a great deal. The likelihood that a woman masturbates usually follows education and intelligence. The higher either of these, the more likely she is to masturbate.

For what it's worth, I have only met one woman with a college education who didn't masturbate and that was more a personality quirk than a sexual preference. I enjoy women masturbating. Not only does it indicate that she is aware enough to find her own sexuality, it shows me in a very specific way what she likes and how to do it. Everybody wins.

dfg456 · Accepted Answer

im single and been trying to control myself, 56 days of not masturbating and counting still, things feel different and my point of view is kinda changed a bit from what it used to be. Random erections when I'm at school or out somewhere are kinda annoying though, gotta use my mind to stop em.

I think a average guy that masturbates will do it once or twice a day, one in the morning, one at night. Don't think being in a relationship will affect it unless their living together then its more uncommon.

MissLynn20011 · Accepted Answer

It's not weird that you do it at all. I used to do it all the time until

I got this boyfriend. We have sex and stuff all the time now so I have no

interest in masturbating. Guys most likely do it a lot more. But if they

are getting action they probably won't as much, or if not at all. It's weirder

for girls to do it cos guys do it more and they talk about it more. Girls dont

admit it or talk about it just cos that's not what they do.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm a girl, and I do it all the time too. Haha. I used to be really embarrassed about it, and I thought it was like a huge secret. But then one day I was texting my crush. We were asking each other random questions that got more and more sexual, and I admitted I masturbated. He thought it was so hot! I was shocked!  I have no idea why it's such a big deal for girls, and with guys its like expected. But if it's making you feel good, why the heck not (:

addicted · Accepted Answer

I do it all the time too.  I know how to please myself better than I could tell any guy to do it.  I mean, don't get me wrong, I love having sex, but I need to get off at least once a day to even think straight. Haha...

bebebunny143 · Answer

i always do it why deny yourself that pleasure lol I'm always embarrassed about telling my partners...i feel like the guy would laugh at me or something.

BradShatsky · Answer

3 or 4 times a day or a week it depends on my mood. But you keep doing what you do. Only you can love yourself like no other.

ekkks · Answer

its not weird at all, hell I do it all the time. you're exactly right, you know what feels good so you still do it. I know a good majority of guys do it daily. xD

katiegal · Answer

I do it often,all the time lol.Coz I'm a healthy girl! And I admit it,but not before my family or friends...it's not their thing to know.Girls are just more shy,that's all.:)

Eamzy · Answer

My girlfriend does and I like to think about her doing it. I personally used to masturbate a lot more when I didn't have a girlfriend but me and my girlfriend haven't gone further then kissing yet. I feel that I should avoid masturbation more when I have a girlfriend because it feels more respectful to her when I don't do it.

dark-fox · Answer

I don't think it's taboo for a girl to masturbate, whatever makes you feel good^^

Well, personally...I do it 3 times a day, once after school, once in the shower and once before bed. =)

Lol, I have a schedule =P

basslake89 · Answer

i masturbate all the time too : ) there is NOTHING wrong with a woman pleasing herself. and plus, we know what we like better than anyone else. I have a boyfriend too, and I don't do it because I'm not satisfied, it just feels good, you know?

bruja1519 · Answer

i have been masturbating for years.  i notice that for girls it's a huge elephant in the room to discuss it with other people. not sure why. i'm fine with it, even if I'm getting some.

Geno44 · Answer

Some people enjoy giving themselves pleasure by masturbating and if you enjoy go ahead and do it. I masturbate everyday too even when I was married. I didn't do it around me wife because she gets pissed, but I didn't deny making love to her either. I enjoy masturbating from one to three times a day and usually just once a day. I do it less if I have a girl to make love to.

here4you · Answer

y don't you tell ur boyfriend what to do to make ur self feel even better? so both of you can have some pleasure? he prob does it too

8807unique · Answer

its nothing wrong with that, I'm a girl that enjoys self pleasure as well and has a boyfriend as well.

MarlinsBB112 · Answer

yes all guys do it a lot. if ur girl is willing to do it a lot, you do it a bit less but not a huge difference. I think its hot if girls do it, and I don't know y they all hide it

socoshadow22 · Answer

well it is perfectly normal. there is no shame in doing it. everyone does. and I so it like once a day. and I would imagine they would masturbate less if they are getting sex. that is just a stereotype, a girl masterbating is just as normal as a guy masturbating.

kane2121 · Answer

guys do it a lot when there not getting some and if a girl does it then its just  because it feels good same for guys they do it  because it makes them feel good

clayjr22 · Answer

I am single so when I am alone I do it about 3 or 4 times a day If I had a girlfriend I probably do it 3 times a week.

In my opinion it's not weird if a girl masturbates, it actually turns me on cause most girls hate sex unless they are married, and having a girlfriend that masturbates would be a plus cause that means she is sexually active. A relationship is stronger when couples have sex then the couples that doesn't because sex spices up the relationship making it challenging.

Anonymous · Answer

You made a good choice by giving the best answer to the one you did, because that's about how it went between my girlfriend and I. She admitted it when we were asking each other random questions too. I told her I thought that was hot and now she tells me the next day if she masturbated the night before and she's into that quite a bit, at least several+ times a week.  I don't masturbate as much as I did before we started going together.  It used to like 4 or 5 times a week, and now it's about 2 or 3 times.

Anonymous · Answer

To be honest, I think chicks masturbating is hot, like the Anonymous "Best Answer" says. I masturbate pretty much once a day myself - Even if I am getting some. So many girls won't admit to masturbating, although the truth is the majority of women do do it.

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