My boyfriend ( we were together for 4 years ) get blowjob from other girl, he didn't even tell me, I became to know accidentally .
I left him because I consider it to be cheating.
But he calls me, send me flowers,.. he says that he's unhappy without me ..
He says that he didn't want to hurt me, he can't explain why he did this .
1.Girls , do you consider it cheating?
2. I'm sure I don't want be with him again , how to tell him to stop calling me and that it's definitely end? it's annoying that he calls even I say no.
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I'm not a girl, but yes he cheated. Clearly. I consider that cheating, and I don't need to be a girl for that.. He clearly betrayed you. Entirely, so you were right to leave him.
As for how you get him to stop, I would suggest telling him to piss off, and if he doesn't meet him in person, maybe with backup, and make a loud and particularly embarrasing scene for him and tell him just how over it is. Make it damned clear that you want him the hell out of your life, kick him in the nuts as hard as you can, and leave.
Once you've left, block all phone numbers, even the ones loosely related to him. Block all emails. Block all instant messengers. Block all private messages. Block voice mail. Block fax. Block text. Block absolutely fucking everything, and return any mail, gifts and whatever still gets through, and if he ever comes to your home, keep the door shut and call the cops. If he comes to you at work, call security. If he comes to you in public, scream bloody murder and ask for help to get this creep away from you. Make it 100% clear in every possible way that you never ever want to see him ever again.
Extreme? Whatever works man
But yeah he betrayed you, and he needs to be gone and forever.