What type of guy sees a females as sex objects?

[Anonymous]

this guy I used to know he is incapable of being regular friends with girls it almost dysfunction.he always looking potentials all the time he not able to have platonic friendship with females not able .they have sexual element to it all time or else he not interested in being friends.he can only be friend s with female sexual attract to or nothing .he has no interested in being with friend with following women heavy ,short , unattractive looking,older ,plain looking he doesn't want to know theses existed in the same world he does .explain why he never interacting with them .he has in theses feelings or impersonality unless they he find them sexual attractive or good looking like model.he even came on to 16 year old girl telling her how gorgeous she is the guy has zero morals.he was chatting sisters 2 sisters. i wanted to be platonic friends with this guy I even mad it clear I said I was heavy short not attractive he didn;t want to know at all . he was online telling girl how much he liked her on same month he was in another place with yet another he all over like rash he arms all over taking photos of him being very intimate with her he just after meeting her he not drop drink on him he was sober as judge by the looks she was not complaining of he very close contact with he was dancing with her even kissing position this after 30 minute of meeting this girl this guys works as fast . now i.ll decided him Argentinian guy ,6ft1" tall ,tanned ,very good looking face with snow white teeth very hymptoic smile very attractive smile flawless skin eyes like blue eyes like swimming pool color now other element he rejected girl telling how much he disliked her and how much other women are worth more .well he rejected girl make feel so small week later he went off with another girl to hell with girl he hurtled telling her how much stud he really is that hot and young he also said stuff like to her like "don't get me wrong l like women just not you" and called her jerk all she wanted was to be friends please don't tell this typical guy behavior because I know it not it extreme nasty and cold . so i,d like know what personality does this guy have can you tell me please intelligent answers with proper explanation one line of smarts remarks won't do . sorry about my spelling I can't help it

[kholland65]

First of all, while this guy might be a bit on the extreme, his mentality is not exactly that uncommon amongst men. There are 3 reasons men exhibit some level of this behavior.

1. Men are biologically wired to be less picky and to view almost anyone as a potential mate. In a primitive sense, men don't have to 9 months where they are on the sidelines like women. Men are wired to spreed our seed and keep moving. Not saying that all guys are cheaters, or that we cannot be committed to one women, just saying, we are wired to want to f*** every girl in the room, where as women want to f*** the hottest guy in the room. See the difference?

2. Like Jackflynn said. Most guys realize that we don't get much from an opposite gender relationship. Women get more from being friends with a guy than guys get from being friends with a girl. We get along better with men for obvious reasons. We can talk about male topics, like sports, women, cars, money, video games, etc. There are also less social taboos. When a women is around, you are supposed to give her special treatment. Men are often asked to solve or help a women with her problems (i.e. fix her car), but men do net get reciprocated on this service. Women commonly also cause more drama. When women are involved in social situations, its more likely drama will ensue. We we have to be careful to not cross the line with any women we are around which isn't an issue with another guy. My sister once became friends with one of my friends because they had a class together. They had no intentions of dating each other (both had SO's), but my sister made a comment about liking the fact that it was nice to have man to give her comfort and support her, where she felt no pressure. Again, men don't get this kind of thing from being friends with a women.

3. Finally smart, social adept men, know that ironically, this sort of approach actually attracts women. Guys who tend to be more sexual, more domineering, don't act like your friend, are more likely to get girls. Guys who actually treat you like a friend or a person end up in the friend zone because they aren't viewed as sexual and potential mate. Some guys just adapt, and more or less top being friendly with women. They just have any interest in acting like a friend to a girl because they know it will land them in the friends zone. This mindset soon then starts to ingrain itself into their every day behavior.

Guys can be platonic friends with a female and not try and date/have sex with her, but usually they are only doing so because either some sort of family or business relationship, they are not attracted to her, she is off limits to date of have sex with (your buddies bf/sister). Guys just see a thinner line between friend and girlfriend. If he meets a girl he thinks is hot, and he also gets along with, his next logical thought is going to be making her his GF. It's how we are wired, we can't help it.

[Asker]

yeah but I am not talking about any of that look all I am asking about this guy I don't need bio lesson thanks its like I asked what personality of the joker or Haley quin this is what I asking I am well wear of all that shallow crap -------------------------THIS GUY ABOVE IN MY QUESTION NO MORE --------i don't care what disese he spreading I am more mental state you said he extreme now elabtted more on that please like he socopath ,player ,sleazy ,bio polar etc etc

[Asker]

look through his eyes tell you what you see with his eyes I am she I can not see with males its that so hard to tell what he sees

[kholland65]

Quite honestly, it seems English is not your first language because I am having a hard time exactly understanding your post and your comments, so I apologize for not answering it correctly. Yes, some guys are just douche bags who take the "women as sex objects" to the extreme, but many guys are just not that far off of this mentality, and my reasons for this are above in my post.

[Asker]

do you think this guy extreme of any guy you know I am mean extreme for me I personal I think total sleaz he called me cogur and old woman he called he hot young stud he also said "don't get me wrong I like women jut not you" he called his own sister fat now I am bit clearer now as his mindset i have dyslexia

[kholland65]

Yes, he is. He is crossing the line of just being a douche bag. Most men share a similar mindset to what me and jackflynn shared, but we don't take it all that far.

[Asker]

now need explain as in we "don;t take it that far" you need to explain that sentence more now I am intrigue need more psychology here keep going you on the right road

[kholland65]

hard to explain. For example, even though we might want to f*** half the women in the room, only a handful of guys will actually act on that and go up to each girl and actually ask her to come home and have sex. Another example, might be, normal guys won't go completely out of their way to make friends with a girl, but if it happens they'll just roll with it, where as a guy like your friend, might literally tell a girl to her face that he doesn't want to be friends with her.

[Asker]

but where is he crossing the line no two guys did that to me but this guy read it again take fresh looks the behavior read careful taken detail think like detective

[Asker]

it doesn't seem fair why low life life can be happy and have love all the time the likes of me end up very alone because I am not good looking and tall and slim and jerk scum bag ends up happy and never lonely it doesn't seem fair it just doesn't fair .its unfair why the good looking people get all the love and happiness and likes of me end up forever alone on my own

[kheserthorpe]

Grown up ones.

Seriously, guys become more like this as they get older, not less.

[Asker]

well to me he more sociopath but I fond as he got older he more daring with year it ger more extreme with each come on to 16 year old as age 22 years in my country that guy would be seen as predator he show no morals for people only his own feeling he cares even so called its all superficial stuff .he also paranoid sociopath are paranoid he has no reason to be unless he doing some thing he shouldn't watching his back

[Asker]

he is more daring more sexual very sexual in every attempt almost worrying

[Asker]

he hunter he was like this before he was such sweet guy behavior I never expected very sly very cleaver he an operator he knows the game well a little to well

[kheserthorpe]

Generally a lot of guys start sweet, but over time they learn the game. Guys would like to be sweet and get laid, but if they need to kill being sweet to get laid, eventually they do it.

[Asker]

if they need to kill being sweet to get laid, what?

[kheserthorpe]

Guys don't stop playing games as they mature. They play games _more_. Because 'games' are what work with women.

[Asker]

well this guy knows the game too inside and out back adn forth he has being with more girls then I know who are older then him he only 23 years old but he very good looking and very arrogant confident but he seem so sweet cute he very good looking he had me going I am older then but I don;t know the game I never had boyfriend and never being kissed I was never asked I am very innocent inexoerence I can't deal with as young as that with much experienc he told me had no experence with women he was

[Asker]

i don't play games he likes to play he eventualy get losing hand he can win all time .women will cop to his game know women are not stupid as he might think .he won't always get away with it there are some women who think he honest be loyal there are other who know his game play ot own advanatge at his expense those are cleaver girls who know how to play with him and win .he has too much experiences for guy so young his freinds not patch on him

[kheserthorpe]

Guys like that end up going through women fast, but they're rarely alone.

[Asker]

true depending on guy women taste we some control over them women need cummacte to know who he background check Facebook and so to know who dealing with .warning he player

[kheserthorpe]

Well you've told us about this guy every few days for a while now.

[Asker]

because his personality I have deal with before I have meet guys over the years but this guy is new breed of douche bag I have known guy to be this way this cunning this cold he no gentleman every thing is act nothing genune about him every thing he does seem faked or framed to make him look its come off like fake I get bad vibe from I did when I was dealing with I felt he off certain in some way this is when he being nice to me I off certain feeling not like rest

[Anonymous]

All of them.

No guy has platonic friendships with a girl unless he finds her unattractive or she's a buddy's girlfriend. Good looking, funny guys score a lot, where less attractive, less outgoing guys simmer and grow resentful that they aren't scoring a lot.

[dudeman]

who wouldn't get resentful, that guys future wife is f***ing somebody else

[Asker]

that quesiton I am asking at all read about this guy personality READ AGAIN I WANT THIS PROFILE I AM TALKING NOT SOME RANDOM THE I DESCRIBED TRY AGAIN YOU DID NOT READ THE QUESTION PROPERLY I WAS THIS SPECTIC GUY PERSONALLY NOT SOME RANDOM GUY THE GUY ABOVE WHAT I DESCRIBED

[Opinion Owner]

I actually read it all ... It's not an unusual trait, darling.

[taster]

You have a good point...I see any attractive female as a "sex object" and I much prefer if they have a brain and a personality as well...(:(:(:

[Asker]

well I don't think guy care for personality or not he has put with personality's it come with her he has deal with .and act like he gives sh*t till he get what he wants

[Opinion Owner]

What we think has little to no bearing on men's behaviors. Learn to live with it.

[Asker]

what does that mean exactly you need explain in plain English

[taster]

QA you are SO wrong! Personality is the single most important thing in a relationship...but physical looks is what initially attracts us..(:(:(:

[Asker]

but not this guy you yes him no

[Opinion Owner]

You can't control ANYONE'S behavior, really. You can only accept or reject it.

[Asker]

so he use and abuse because he is good looking guy treated other like fools and belittle them come on that's not true as he chooses he he has too much freedom at least one girl got rid him and found herself proper man she knew what he was up to

[Opinion Owner]

Him being a jerk just means he's a jerk. Him being promiscuous means he's good looking and can get female attention easily. Like I said, you can either reject or accept others' behavior, not control it.

[Asker]

some girls don't want jerks but there is always few

[Asker]

so he only to get more slezy as he gets older becasue has more experience what he said to me really hurted me felt so much I end up in counselling over it week he got new girl of pretty 16 year old russan girl she is still there because she liked the looked of him he liked age and her looks and huge boobs he has been with dozen girls in one year more then any guy I have known wo has this kind of skill

[KoolKidKv93]

all of them is right

[jackflynn7]

In response to the original question.

Other than professional or other external associations, such as politics, academics or religion, intersex "platonic" relationships are mostly a waste of effort for men. Other men make better buddies for men than women because we have more in common and there is little or no social protocol needed. There always is with women and sometimes even more with non-sexual relationships to avoid "crossing the line". Any socially intimate intersex relationship (sharing personal things verbally) will have to include some sexuality involving orgasm to compensate for women being fundamentally less compatible to be buddies with men than other men. That's why FWB works and "platonic" doesn't.

[Asker]

what that got with him and his personality I want to know name for his personliyt you missed the point as well ,

[Asker]

every male personlity is different .none what you said has any thing to do with my question .i am talking about this specific guy can I be any clearer THIS SPECIFIC GUY THIS GUY none what said helps me with problem what this person is like that gobbl guck hard facts on this guy behavior Jesus like this guy this one not the situation its sbout him him him I wrote him not any thing eles him and his personally not the situation this person only this person this person

[kholland65]

This guys is pretty much spot on.

[Asker]

look its not what I am talking for f*** sake I am certain guy can not read bloody question here

[Asker]

can yee not read or some thing none of yee answering what I am asking no women friends are not waste of time women are not sex objects for yee pleasure women are not put this earth so yee get hard and jerk off ok

[dwiller943]

Ummm... Douchebags.

[KoolKidKv93]

a horny guy, and all guys have the potential to become horny

[Anonymous]

same amount of women who think men are sex objects. which ia HIGHLY increasing

[Opinion Owner]

"is"

[Asker]

men don't get pregent women do .men are not at risk like women are .men take being sex object compliment not as insult there guys like him you can't out dent in women mean nothing to him only number like you number 52 and new lady 53 tomorrow where does that leave you rememberer he has no conscience these guys don't come with one remember I was dealing with him I am talking this GUY NO OTHER RANDOM GUY YOU KEEP BEING UP ITS NOT GENERAL QUESTION .can you stick the question I am asking

[Asker]

he women as pure sex objects objects have no feelings you can do what like screw diver