With a deep knowledge of anal love making techniques, just about any penis can fit in any girl's anus. If she is skinny and he is thick, if she is thick and he is long, etc. etc. etc. Just pick up this book: link You can't miss. That does not mean you can just put it in any girl's ass anytime. It should be special, and you should be communicating. You many only get so far one day, stop, and come back to it in a week or so. The guy's goal should be that it never hurts the girl at all. There are pain games you can play with BDSM, but is that for a first date? I am talking about the getting to know you phase when a lot of into to anal first comes up. It's like riding a bike. At first it seems impossible. You have to balance, peddle, steer, brake, make sure you're going fast enough, etc. But once you learn? You hop on and ride like it's nothing. Same when you get the hang of anal. I only met one girl who had a butt hole too physically small for me. It was the smallest I had ever seen. Did I complain? No. I used to eat it till she came, then insert the tiniest butt plug I could find, and have regular doggy style. So she still could experience anal orgasm. Who knows? Maybe she met a guy with a small weiner and they are living happily ever after now? Every other girl, with a little time and patience -- and most importantly -- knowledge -- had taken me to the balls. One girl was asian, 5ft 95 lbs, so size of ass has nothing to do with it. It is breathing, loving, kissing, understanding. Some girls yeah, it went in a whole lot smoother and sooner than others. Some girls are naturally good at it, and are able to relax right away. Some girls actually practice with toys or a hair brush handle so that when the time comes, they know what to expect, and it goes smooth. Some girls feel more comfortable squirting a little water up their butt to be sure there is not one spec of anything there. It's a mental thing. Some girls just eliminate easier and more fully. Butt hole is almost always clean. Some don't worry about it so much, and they should not. You're putting your penis in her anus. YOU should be helping her relax about it, and even helping her clean out if that is what it takes. I have given a number of girls enemas (not necessary for every girl whatsoever, we both were curious to try) , then we shower or bubble bath together. You can be shocked how easy it is for her butt hole to relax after that (and some wine). The main responsibilities for the girl are to shave it -- and not just for the guy. Hair around the butt hole means hair can pull during anal. Ouch. Better off with a bare hole. Squat like peeing outside over a mirror. Use baby oil and the best shave cream you can get. Use powder between cheeks daily. LEARN to push out and hold it so anus winks -- * O * O O. I've met girls who can crush a beer can with cheeks. Imagine a penis in there?
There aren't really any statistics out there on how many or what percentage of women engage in and enjoy anal sex, but I'm pretty certain there's significantly less women out there who enjoy it than ones who don't.
Obviously, the biggest step is becoming comfortable with the idea of anal sex.
Once that's happened, successful (enjoyable) anal sex requires several things from the receiver. Trust is probably the biggest, you need to be fully comfortable with each other and your sexuality, the ability to relax the muscles (alcohol can help with this), lube and plenty of time and preparation (anal foreplay) will all help make for a good experience.
As for being "too big" for anal, that depends entirely on the woman, but the thicker you are, the greater the chance that anal will be painful, and painful is never good.
ive had it with big guys. to me, its like regular sex in that respect. knowing I can take a guy that size and trying to take as much as I can is a huge part of the turn on.
the thing with anal though is that it takes a lot of preparation and I think that's what makes it a lot more intimate than regular sex to me. in order for it to really feel good, I need like 2 hours of foreplay. just lots of lube and you have to finger her butt or put something in it to help it loosen up a little bfore you do it.
if you want it to be really pleasurable for her, when you do it, press down so that her vaginal wall gets stimulated too because it shares the same nerves as her butt.
What do you think is too big for up there? Like girth wise?
i donno, I think it just depends on how much lube you use and how prepared you get. if people can fist each other, then any d*** can fit I guess.
xSweetestSinx is it easier to suck a big one or take it up the ass?
There are always women who love anal and who love the pain of having a bigger guy penetrating them. You aren't entirely out of luck! Infact you have a good nance of finding a willing woman. The only reason you would be too big is if you try to penetrate without enough foreplay. With trust lots of lube and foreplay you anal sex should be great! So go find a woman who's willing totry! :)
So there's no limit to the thickness? Like...is 6 inches in circumference too big? :/ I'm worried
It's big but not impossible!
Okay thanks!
i really enjoy anal sex... but I save it for a treat for my lover...it's not a regular part of my sex life...lube lube lube and listening to her will make it enjoyable..never had anyone that big so I can not answer that question..i so know if your slow /patient/ gentle and lubed..we will both have a fun time
Okay thanks, I'm just worried it's too thick :(
she's willing and your patient and gentle and lubed it's all good
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well... some guys won't actually try it out if they are endowed because they don't want to hurt the girl and it probably may hurt quite a bit, you could always try but I would advice you to do it slowly bit by bit and yes definitely lots of lube.
Some girls like anal, some don't- some will like it with a bigger guy, some won't. Personally, I find just a finger uncomfortable enough. I've never been one for anal. So anal sex with a big penis wouldn't fly with me. Some girls will do it, though, it really depends on the individual.
Sometimes the penis is more comfortable than a finger. Finger is a bit bony and has a nail, so you have to know how to do it. You enter with the PAD of the finger -- where finger print is? Essentially hiding the nail. You wait a sec -- then go deeper once she unclenches. As far as a wide di*ck, you would be surprised what can fit in a girl's ass with patience, love, time, and skill. And yes, you both can come from it.
Some girls enjoy anal, some can orgasm from it, and some would be more than happy to do it with a big penis. But NOT all. I'm tired of people telling me that if I don't like it I'm doing it wrong. I have tried it with a penis, and it was 1000 times more painful than the finger, so I know the nail wasn't the problem. I've tried everything possible to make it comfortable. I guess my body just isn't build for anal sex, which, considering that the anus isn't meant for sex at all, seems reasonable.
whats too big for you?
Some girls like anal, but most of them don't. they don't want to be hurted and/or have disconfort on my experience..
Anal sex isn't healthy for different reasons:
-Bacterium's living an being absolutely necessary in the intestines can cause havoc elsewhere in the body (vagina, mouth, stomach)
-There's a risk of rectal prolapse link for both girls and bottom guys.
-For a bottom guy, if his prostate is hit at a moment he as an even tiny infection there, the infection COULD spread over the whole body , causing sepsis (bacterial or viral blood poisoning link Prognosis can be estimated with the Mortality in Emergency Department Sepsis (MEDS) score.[28] Approximately 20–35% of patients with severe sepsis and 40–60% of patients with septic shock die within 30 days. Others die within the ensuing 6 months)
Morality hasn't anything to do with it, it's just risky behavior
Anal is exit only..yuck
I'm really not one for anal, tried it once with a guy and literally bled nonstop for the next day. Ever since then whenever a guy has told me to flip over, I told him to f*** off. :P
was he reallly big or just impatient?
I personally hate anal...
... if a guy HAS to have it, then he has to put up with me just zoning out while he plows me. I'm not going to fake enthusiasm for something I dislike.
Then why do it in the first place? Gah.
Well. Mine takes my 8".
Most girls dislike anal sex, but most guys will hang on the word of the minority of girls who enjoy it in order to feel entitled to get their way. Most girls realize that fulfilling a guy's sexual whims is more important than any other aspect of a relationship, so learn to put up or get out. She might be in incredible pain, but giving in matters more than that.
So it isn't even sort of pleasurable?
There is no reason for it to be pleasurable, except for a minority of women who find their g-spot can be stimulated through anal sex. It's not MEANT to be pleasurable to women.
Wow. Swing, and a miss.
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