I went to my first strip club before I lost my virginity, did I do this, backwards?

Someone told me this is backwards, that I should have lost my virginity then gone to a strip club. I don't really care, but..I was just wondering if he was right One person complains that I'm not allowing anonymous answers, well...just don't
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's perfectly reasonable to block anonymous answers... as long as you aren't going anonymous either. it's hypocritical, and hypocrisy is not a good look on anyone. Now, block me to your heart's content. I couldn't care less.

    I wouldn't advise someone to go to a strip club as a virgin. Not because it's "backwards", but because sex is something special to most people, and it's nice for your first real sexual experience to be more personal. But maybe the romantic stuff doesn't matter to you anyhow. Regardless, you didn't mess up your life or anything- it's not a big deal, and it shouldn't have much impact at all. Just don't expect the girls you date to look a certain way because of strippers you saw.

    • Good thing I decided my best answer before you. I warned you, blocked

    • Um... okay?

    • Apologize for hitting best answer on yours, didn't mean to. Anyway, yeah, you're blocked

  • LOL, there is no specific order for these things. It's your life live it your way. It's like having someone tell you that when you eat you have to eat across the plate from right to left and chew on the left side only.

    • I'm Jewish, so I read from right to left on occasion

  • I don't think it matters, honestly.

    Fact: Many, if not most, workers in certain strip clubs are victims of human trafficking.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It doesn't matter, but you are making it a little hard on yourself by pressing your face up against the glass.

    There are a few absolutes in life. Such as ... there is no sex in the champagne room. Never fall in love with a ripper ... enjoy the show . =)

  • I don't think it matters. If anything, it's better because you're desensitizing yourself to the feminine touch and you won't get so nervous if you get intimate with a woman because you're used to all the grinding.

    • Never thought of it that way

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  • I am only going to complain because you went anonymous. LOL Kind of hypocritical don't you think.

    • I warned you, blocked

  • I don't really see how the order in which you did them makes any difference at all.

  • The traditional forward way would probably leave the strip club out of the picture altogether and losing virginity after marriage. Any other way, I'm not exactly sure of. It doesn't seem to matter much.