My boyfriend can't get hard second time?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend usually last not very long when we have sex - like 7 minutes maybe, - maybe it's normal I don't know, I've just started having sex few weeks ago. But I heard some people do it one hour or all night! Problem is that my boyfriend can't get hard second time :( I try my best and it happened once . But usually we just give up. I asked him if he can do it 2 times while masturbating - he said he never tried it. I'm worried that it might be because of me?

[bree1234]

Girl it's not because of you that he has a problem...It is because of you that he cums so fast. You put it on him girl, and that's a good thing... maybe he ought to try a product call stay hard, it's a lotion and my guy rubs it on his d*** and it helps him keep a hard on sometimes a hour and trust me that is long enough because my ass is worn out after an hour...lol

[Anonymous]

Do you wait after he cummed the first time? Or is it right after?

Try to wait for some time and don't see it as something that should stop the whole action, you could use the time to focus on you ;)

[Cynthia325]

If he gets hard the first time you have nothing to worry about, sometimes guys just can't get hard again for a while after the first time, don't worry! it has nothing to do with u! I promise.

[jackflynn7]

It isn't. He's normal. Get him to bring you off orally until you are fulfilled and then let him do what satisfies him in intercourse. Live happily ever after.

[Paraneesh]

Its normal. I was like that in the beginning but now I do better.

[Amorina]

Does he still masturbate? My boyfriend would have trouble staying hard because he would masturbate so often. Now he doesn't jack off as often so he stays hard longer.

[redheadgirl]

Its not you, he needs a little time between cumming as for the 7 min that's because you feel good to him try making him wait hold back cumming

[nate18]

ya right. try not cumming? ill be honest I have tried this a few times and all that happens is I can't cum. I can try and try and try but it just won't happen. at that point I can stay hard for hours if I wanted and I can get my girlfriend off like 6 or 7 times in that amount but its no good for me.