Guys - if your girlfriend gets really wet even before sex is it a turn off?

[Anonymous]

When I'm with my boyfriend and I'm on top of him.. I get really wet.. you can notice it through my panties wet... he keeps looking there or pulling my pants up to check.. its so embarrassing..he'll even comment and say that I'm really horny.. or aft sex he'll say stuff like I made his bed wet... when I tell he shouldn't say stuff like that... or ask him why he says that ... he doesn't give me an answer ... why embarrass your girlfriend like that? like I can't help it or change it, so why comment? Does it turn a guy off?

[1988fido]

1- its a turn on
2- its like you are saying Having a boner for guys before sex is bad?
3- maybe he like that and he thinks u like it too ( the idea of making you shy about it )

4- discuss it with him and have open conversation talk about what you like and what he does like , then what you dont like and what he dont like then you guys will be good :) , mention that talking about your wet issue makes u feel bad or embarrassed and insecure even thu to be honest its a turn on for like 99% of the guys i dont know why u dont like it.

5- ignore the idiots who tell u its urine most of it they dont even know the difference between pee hole and vaginal openings omg where did they even go to school? I have no idea why this common mistake is very common. check youtube channel Sexplanation

[ObscuredBeyond]

Since female ejaculation is 90% urine, I'd suggest you make sure you relieve yourself before attempting sex. Any little loss of bladder control could spell disaster or embarrassment.

[carinabina820]

Ur an idiot--some girls just get really wet, without peeing at all. The vaginal lining and secretions are entirely separate in the system from the urethra and bladder. You need to read an anatomy book...or t least google it.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I was referring to female ejaculation, not the lining and secretions. But since the entire anatomy there is acidic, it would make sense urine traces could get there. Don't be so quick to flame.

[Ladadiladidow]

Ladies and gentlemen, this is what the comments of a male virgin look like.

[1988fido]

1-you need to go back to biology class and learn more about it. 2- you didn't answer her nor did help nor did you even talk about the topic

[ObscuredBeyond]

@1988fido : 1. A well-respected sexology professor stated this. 2. This comment of mine was declared "most helpful." 3. This conversation is ancient history. Go pick a fight with something relevant to today.

[1988fido]

check sexplanation and you will know

[kittycat911]

Not sure how old this thread is, but TRUST ME, men find this a turn on and they also like women to be embarrassed and shy around them.. I think mentioning it turns him on.. like you get really wet but then you are shy about it.. Men would find this very sexy. I wouldn't worry about making the bed wet, you should be worried about the opposite issue.

[cun7n1nja]

He says and does those things because he LIKES it. Yeah, he could tell you he likes it when you ask him why he says things like that, but I think it's fairly obvious. Don't be self conscious about it, I turn into a waterfall before all my clothes come off too, haha, and my boyfriend loves it.

[sexyflgirl]

are you embarassed when he gets hard? Same thing. Seriouly, my guy makes me wetter than I even knew I could get and I was a little embarassed at first but he was blown away by how wet I was and how I got so turned on by him. Relax, he loves it and is probably very proud of himself!

[Jennifer2048]

I wet my panties every time if I am wearing them when we start. Most guys I have been with think it is hot. I think it is also a sign to them that they are doing everything right.

[katiesmuff]

That is never going to turn a guy off

[sixstring]

No, it's a huge turn-on. He probably doesn't mean to embarrass you, he says it because he likes it.

[carinabina820]

He definitely does not mean it to be embarrassing--more like worshipping :)

[shawn520]

dont be offended by him, im sure he's just trying to make fun of u. there's nothing wrong with being wet. in fact, i have the same problem myself haha

[Rajtheclassmate]

Oh sweety...! How can you think that your wetness could be turn off for him...?Silly...! Can bees hate nector...?that too world's sweetest nector? Never... So feel free to be wet honey... If say something about that den tell him 'its my love juice for u'. Totally Der is nothin wrong with you getting wet.. As well as he commenting on your wetness...! And hey...be wet...!;)

[dan123z4]

It's a turn on mostly because it means he's turning you on and he feels good so when he points out how wet you were it's almost like he's bragging he's not trying to embarrass you

[risted]

he's not trying to embarrass you to make you feel bad, he thinks it's sexy that you get so turned on with him. it's a GOOD thing. he likes to tease you about how wet you get because he likes you dripping for him

[taster]

No...it is is a major turn on...(:(:(:

[John83]

Just the opposite... it's a big turn-on. It shows you're excited to have sex. Feeling that my girlfriend is really wet makes me think either about how good it is going to feel sliding my d*** into her or about how good it will taste when I lick her p****. Either way, it makes me really horny.

[julp92]

Not at all. Having a wet girl wanting to have sex with you is such a major turn ON!

[Dragan]

Women wetness excites guys. It's like when a guy has an erection. When a girl is wet before sex, to excite me

[arjun007]

i like that too much

[halo11]

Sexy as hell!

[Anonymous]

he's getting off on how hot he made you. It's nothing to be embarrassed about he likes it and saying it is like saying "I"m the man" over and over LOL

[Anonymous]

no, that should be a turn on if anything!