Being woken up with sex?

[Anonymous]

So, my girlfriend and I were having a general conversation about sex the other day. We've been living together for awhile now, and I admitted to her that sometimes I'll wake up on a weekend (she always sleeps in late) and I'll look over at her and realize that I'm just really horny and want to f*ck, and part of me's just like "c'mon, just lube it up, roll her over, pull her panties to the side and stick it in". Weird, right? I mean, who actually does something like that? To my amazement, she tells me "Okay, so why didn't you?" and looks at me like I'm crazy for not having done exactly what I'd just described. Tells me "Look, yeah, I'm not into morning sex, but if you're horny it's not like I'm going to say no, just don't do it every weekend". I guess it just shocked me a bit, I assumed if I'd actually ever tried something like that, she'd wake up and be all "WTF? No, get the f*ck off me". I mean, it just seems to me that doing something like that would be borderline ~rape~, or at least generally offensive to the person receiving. So I'm just sort of curious how the rest of you feel about it. If you're a girl, would you be okay with (or even turned on by) waking up to your boyfriend's c*ck being buried in your p*ssy, or would you be upset that he had the gall to start having sex with you without you being the slightest bit involved in his making that decision? If you're a guy, have you ever done or thought about doing something like this? If so, did you follow through? How did she react? I suppose I'll just go ahead and do it the next time, but despite what she says, I'm still pretty sure she'll be irritated at/upset with me anyway.

[pineappleshortcare]

Not my thing. I like a guy to wake me up first. It's annoying being woke up for sex, but him just ramming his d*** into me when I'm sleeping shows a real disregard for me. For one thing, it would hurt. For two, wtf. I wouldn't get into my boyfriends wallet when he's sleeping because I feel like buying myself breakfast. I think wanting to f*** sleeping people is a control thing, right? If she's really into being sub, she may dig it ... but I don't think most women would like it, because it borders on violation and it can be painful and unpleasant.

If its just because you're horny, a good way to do it is to prime her to be aroused. Start cuddling up on her while she's sleeping. Rub her back or shoulders to wake her up. When she's awake, start rubbing her vag. It's pretty easy to get aroused in the morning because there is good blood flow to your genitals. I used to get so turned on when my guy would press his morning wood against me from behind. Hot.

[Asker]

Well, if I did, I'm sure I'd lube it up first. I imagine a dry d*** ramming into a dry vagina would be somewhat painful for both of us. But seriously. I don't think I'd just be able to ramrod it into her while she's sleeping. It's just a thought that's crossed my mind a few times, nothing I had any intention of ever acting on, and I certainly never expected her to act like I was crazy for not just doing it. She's definitely sub though, so maybe the idea turns her on.

[pineappleshortcare]

I'd talk it out before actually doing it. if you really want to dominate her while she's sleeping -- that's a pretty big boundary -- rough sex has a distinct "active" role on the sub partner, whereas this is more of a "nonconsent" type of sex. Definitely not my think, but I can't answer for her... If you're gonna go to the trouble to lube yourself up, actually waking her shouldn't be that big of a problem. Most women enjoy morning sex, from what I know from talking to friends.

[saltycheeks]

I wouldn't want to be woken up with it already in... that part is really creepy and to be honest in my head all I hear is "rape". I would like to consent to any sex that I have.

But absolutely feel free to wake me up for it. Morning sex is a good time lol

[cookiemonster12]

I've done that before, and he really liked it.

That's also happened to me, and women take a little longer to get horny, and our sexuality really depends on our moods. On most days, I think I'd love to be woken up with sex.

[Asker]

Hmm. So assuming being woken with sex was going to happen to you, would you prefer waking up to him already inside you, or just touching/teasing you sexually?

[cookiemonster12]

I would not like it if he was already inside me, but if he was rubbing his **** against me, I think I would like that, and touching/teasing would be awesome too! Just, I would like to give him the OK before he penetrates me.

[Asker]

Completely understandable, I have a hard time imagining anyone being cool with being woken up to full-on penetration.

[burn27]

I love having sex in the morning on the weekends after getting to sleep in with my girlfriend. My girlfriend does not mind and even likes waking up to my d*** in her. Sometimes she even backs her ass into me, telling me she wants it in the mornings. And it's not complete until I come on her ass and then we hop in the shower before we get breakfast. I freaking love it, what a way to start off the day. Hahaha

[katiesmuff]

Tell her to sleep naked so you can f*ck her a bit easier as pulling panties to the side is a bummer.

[Asker]

Lol, I'll take it you're okay with this sort of thing, then. Are you usually submissive (sexually) in general? My girlfriend tends to like things a bit rough, it turns her on when I act like I ~need~ to have her, and when I pin her down, pull her hair, light choking etc... so maybe her attitude on this topic stems from that a bit?

[katiesmuff]

It is quite common for me to wake up with a guy playing with my pubic hair and lightly fingering my slit and I so willingly spread my legs so he can get those fingers in me and given a few minutes to totally come alive I will reach for his black snake and get him ready to soak it in my p*ssy before we have to get off to work.

[greenbeans23]

No, I wouldn't like that. I'd rather my boyfriend just wake me up with a nice massage or something and then when I'm actually awake and conscience start taking my clothes off

[Asker]

That's what I'd figure, most people would at least appreciate being given the option, right?

[barbee11]

your ummm (fill in the blank) ___________... she is telling you while she's awake that you should do it, what do you wanna hear..? other girls would have been offended and pissed... maybe even raped..who knows just be happy you got a koo azz girl...