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Is there a such thing as loose vagina?

Is this just a rude remark? Something rude to say to a girl? I hear guys say it about women but is it ever true that a woman can have "no walls" or a loose vagina? Even after child birth the female body is designed to snap back into shape. Be heard that keagal excercises can help. * not my problem I'm just curious
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Thank you for all of your answers! Seems to me that a woman accustomed to larger sized men will feel a bit looser if she down sizes to an average or smaller man. The only difference here being girth. If I wore a rubber band on my wrist for a week it wouldn't get stretched out. Take that same rubber band and put it on my hubby after a week it would be looser because he's bigger and it would no longer fit me. Same for vagina.. Only difference being vagina can shrink.
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  • Yes, it's definitely possible. I've related the story before, but the short version was I had sex with a 20-year-old, normal 125-pound girl, who'd never been pregnant much less gave birth, who had a very loose vagina. It was just how she was built. I've been with 30+ women, a couple of whom had had multiple children and were a bit looser than average as a result, but NOTHING like this particular girl.

    We were starting to make out and I was getting her undressed, and I reached into her panties to rub her. Now, a normal, aroused girl can usually take a single finger pretty easily, but two usually takes a bit of work and care. They'll go in, but if you do it too fast, it can hurt. With this girl, I was kind of rubbing her lips with my whole hand, and she kind of moved back against my hand unexpectedly, and I had 3 fingers in her. They went in instantly and with no struggle, and it wasn't tight with 3 fingers either. I started having sex with her, and between the condom and her size, I basically couldn't feel anything, even after changing positions and trying to go in at an angle. It was really bad.

    She ended up giving me a BJ, and then I played with her to get her off, and ended up fisting her; something I'd never done or expected to ever do, but given her size, I decided to try it, and she made no effort to stop me, and definitely enjoyed it. But I never tried to see her again.

    I don't know how she got that way, but I suspect that was just how she was made.

    Regardless, having sex with normal guys isn't going to make a girl loose. Maybe, MAYBE if your guy is in the top half a percent in size (we're talking BIG girth here, like a soda can), that could stretch you a bit. Certainly, the stretching and tearing and other damage that happens during childbirth, especially multiple childbirths, can increase looseness a bit, but none of that is going to make you like this girl was. She was probably one in a million to be that size.

  • Newsflash ladies - it's not always the dick's fault. Peens and vageens are governed by genetics, period. You get what you got. Sometimes bigger isn't better :D I have had super tight to big and flappy - flappy don't work.

    And in case you're wondering, I'm just over 7" with just under 5" circumference. It's not me.

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  • its mainly just used to degrade female sexuality. its not rational - your body isn't a conscious judge of how many partners you have. 50 rounds of sex for a woman in a monogamous relationship is the same as 50 one night stands, if you control for time and intensity, blah blah. very rarely will someone insult the woman who has been with one man and had sex god knows how many times with him, lets say 50. if a woman is known to sleep around or admits to having sex one time with 50 different men, society will throw the sexist degrading remarks at her - slut, slag, etc. AND tell her she has a gaping vagina. loose vagina is not referred to generally as someone who has had lots of sex within relationships, but to women who have had lots of casual sex.

    I think there are women who are born with different size vaginas, which is another confusing factor, or whose vaginas loosen up over time but I don't at all think its related to casual sex, specifically, which is the way insults like this are often applied. Even after childbirth, the vagina retracts back to the way it was before birth. you think a d*** is going to be more damaging than a human being? I don't think so. now if you have several births, it may not go back to the way it was before completely. there's no such thing as "no walls" in a vagina though. lol

    the vagina will always go back a tighter point, but after a while of abuse, like pushing out 5 humans, it won't retract completely. whether or not its "loose" is another story. I don't even know what the hell a loose vagina is. that seems relative. what is loose for a smaller penis could be a tight fit for a big one. who decides what is loose? less tight = looser, but a conclusive state of "loose" implies that its measurable and feels the same for everyone, has lesser quality, etc. and that's all in peoples minds.

    heres an article :) link

    • This is somewhat what I was thinking. Thanks

    • yup. people aren't going to like this answer though. watch me rack in the thumbs down :D

    • +1 from me, I agree completely.

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  • As I'm reading comments, I'm a little disheartened and relieved at the same time... I have NEVER made fun of a man for his size. I've never felt it was important because the fact that we made it that far meant that I had feelings for him. So Maybe men feel the same way? However, with the way our society views and shows off women, I'm thinking we all are a little self-conscious at some point in time. I am a plus-sized, 5'9" woman with no ass and large hips. I'm about to have my 5th child. I have heard a few good comments, and one "your p%&$* is big but it's so good." 😒 I have looked at it and it does look big but it also looks like all flesh; no gaping hole. I put 1 finger in and I feel all flesh surrounding my finger that also feels like... ridges. But I can also get up to 4 fingers in. If I'm dry, it feels horrible and tight. If I'm wet, it almost feels like... just pressure. Kinda like getting a tooth pulled while being numb... I think Maybe people ought to start communicating more with their lover and being intimate rather than just "f*&%$#@..."

  • Yep the girls who have sex a lot or like a guy said down below girls who are in p*rn. That's why girls need to watch there number a little better and for other reasons as well.

    • This makes no sense. If having sex made a difference, it would be how many times they had sex, NOT how many partners they had. Rougher sex with larger partners might matter more, but again, the 'number' is not relevant.

    • I'm accustomed to my husbands erm.. Larger member. I'm pretty sure if I had sex with an average 5 and a half inch guy he would say I was loose. So I somewhat see why it matters when a woman sleeps with different dudes

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  • I have been with one woman who had what appeared to be a cavern. But it still wasn't bad and was quite pleasurable in its own unique way. Would I be with her again if I had a chance? Yes I most certainly would.

  • I have not statistics on this but if guys are born with different sizes, why wouldn't we? So I would say yes, just like guys can have small penises. I don't think it has to do with the amount of times a woman has had sex though, again I have no statics on this so maybe it does but I doubt it.

  • Yes.

  • Yeah. Look at p*rno actresses that have been in the business for a while. Their vaginas get destroyed and start to look like raggedy beef curtains. You can also get vaginas that are too wet and have almost zero friction which gives the perception of "loose".

    • Hm OK. Lol I'm very conservative as I married young and the only two I've been with we're surprised by it down there. Made weird remarks about "loose" vaginas. I was so confused

    • If it's just a wet thing you can still feel pressure against your penis but it's harder to feel pleasure because the nerves aren't getting stimulated like they would be if there was more friction. Maybe that's what they were experiencing? You can get around that by focusing more on the head and performing really shallow thrusts or starting sooner before you get really wet.

    • Oh no. NOT weird remarks about me. Remarks in regards to other women.

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  • All women are different. I wouldn't necessarily call it a loose vagina. I would just say that each vaginal opening, labia, and vaginal walls are different. Some are tighter because of body type, excercising (doing kegals) or genetics. Others can be regular or not tight at all because of various reasons or because the vagina can be used to a bigger penis or masturbation toy.

    Whatever you do never say to a woman that she has a loose vagina.

  • Im well hung. And my x got looser and looser. Sometimes it felt like I was thruating into air. We had sex almost daily for years.

  • Yes there is such a thing and can be caused by multiple situations including structural issues that need to be fixed through surgery...anybody that makes a comment like that is most likely being rude..totally rude...o.O

  • Yes, there is such a thing as too lose. One woman told me that men described sex with as f***ing a warm bucket of water.

  • Yes it's a real thing I've heard stories of em who tired to sleep with women and it was loss as all out door.

  • is there something such as too tiny d*** or is it something girls just say to put dudes in their place, if you can figure this out then you will figure the rest out

    • I get your point but I don't make fun of a guys penis. I have small breasts so why would I hurt a guy by calling him out?

    • i didn't say you did, I was just trying to show how such things are just put downs to make people feel insecure

    • Oh OK cool

  • I think it’s genetics and just the way some females are born. I personally have a body count ( thank god I’m STD free) but i started having sex at the age of 12 years old (I’m now 32). Was married for 6 years, prior to that I only had one other relationship the rest has been casual sex. I also have three children. I will say I have had mainly average size penis in the beginning but then every now and again I would get a guy 9/10ins as far as length goes. Only had one other bigger than that which wasn’t a great experience lol I’m saying all this to say that my vagina is still tight enough for men to fall in love and try to lock it down. Lol not bragging but I have some good shit even after my body count and if you need a number i would say over 70… I don’t even remember most at this point! Don’t judge me damnit, I’m single and I’m a very sexual person so no shame in my shit. So the notion that too many partners can loosen you I believe is false. However I do think having a lot of above average size penis or consistent sex with someone above average can make your vagina stretch to accommodate his size. And if you just so happened to have sex with someone below average or average size, he could possibly tell the difference. So if you like big penises then just stick to those, you shouldn’t have any complaints. Some females are just made for bigger penises, same goes for men. You can’t force a above average penis into a smaller vagina that may not be made to fit a large penis. I’m sure it would be a very unpleasant experience.
    So men before complaining about a female not having walls, maybe your girth just isn’t enough for her! I’m just saying if you’re not packing don’t be so quick to call her out.
    But that’s my opinion, I do believe I watch something on this or at least about the different shapes and sizes of vagina.

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