Girls, thoughts on your boyfriend masturbating?

does it bother you that your boyfriend masturbates and watches p*rn? does the kind of p*rn matter to you? do you expect your boyfriend to tell you about when he masturbates?
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  • I honestly don't think my boyfriend masterbates. We see each other every single day and have sex every day, on avg, so I would know when he does. I have asked him if he watches p*rn or if he masterbates and he says he doesn't need to because he has me. I don't think it would bother me if he did those things though, and I sometimes wish he would do them so that I can get a break. I don't expect him to tell me, that would be weird if he were just to insert that bit of information while telling me about his day lol.

  • It does not bother me at all that my boyfriend masturbates or watches p*rn while doing it sometimes. He did it before I started dating him so I don't expect him stop just because of me. He's got raging hormones after all. XD Also I have not caught him doing it. He has told me and we have had open discussions about it. It is not something that seems strange or weird to me at all.

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  • No it doesn't bother me if a guy I'm dating masturbates.

    No it doesn't bother me if he watches p*rn.

    No I wouldn't expect him to tell me.

  • personally I'm not in a relationship but it would not bother me if my boyfriend masturbated and watched p*rn. but you should probably try to have sex with your girlfriend more than you would watch p*rn and masturbate

    mind answering my question?

  • i really could care less if he masturbated and watched p*rn

    as long as he remembers that p*rn isn't real, and doesn't expect me to do all the crazy things seen in p*rn, he can watch it and masturbate to it

  • Nope I feel like every guy does it and it used to bother me but not much anymore. I just don't want to be around when he's doing it that's all I ask.

  • No-not bothered at all. It's something that all guys have to do...they're just made that way, so no point in getting uptight about it! I try and make sure that I'm there for him-I'll wear sexy clothes and heels to give him some encouragement-he's less like to be fantasising over someone else it it's me that's turning him on. Watching a guy masturbating is fascinating-expecially if he cums in your presence-makes you feel powerful and sexy.

    • Good answer

  • Personally I'm fine with masturbation, but p*rn bothers me slightly. I guess I worry all the girls in the p*rnos are ones he finds really pretty and that he wishes he could be with one of them instead of me :L Its silly, but my lack of self-esteem just makes me feel that xD

    • Awww you are a great girl and any guy should be happy with you. Keep your head up and be happy you are you :)

    • Thanks 7gnat X3 I will! (^^)/

    • We're not really looking at the girl for the girl. We're looking at the sex scene because we find new things to be interesting and wish that the girl we're with, is willing to try it. If not, then oh well but at least we tried, right?

  • No, if he wants to he should do it, but since me and my boyfriend live together, he can just ask me to help:D

  • If he wants to masturbate then he wants to masturbate. It's just a natural thing guys (and a lot of girls I might add) have to do. If he didn't I'd be a bit worried to be honest.

  • No it doesn't bother me. Obviously we can't be together all the time, so he will probably want to masturbate, and p*rn is a good way to help him along. And no, I don't expect him to tell me every time he did either. Honestly, it's become such a common thing, it would be like your boyfriend asking you to tell him every time your showered.

  • No

  • no it bothers me when he watches p*rn though mabie because I don't look like those women I'm not blond or 110lbs with big t*ts .. it makes me feel insecure about myself an wondering who he's thinking of during sex the sexy blond or me it makes me not even want sex I feel hurt about it but I've never said anything to him

    • Real guys like real girls. I hate the fake looking blones with the big boobs and all that make-up. I bet you are much prettier than any of those bimbos

    • Don't you think you not wanting sex, is making him watch p*rn, ahha?

  • It'd be a bit creepy if you were expected to report to your S.O. every time you jacked it, no?

  • it used to bother me a lot when he did it around me or in bed with me because I wasn't in the mood, he was getting turned on by other people in front of my face and that feels wrong. He doesn't do that anymore so I don't mind him watching it now, I'm OK as long as I'm involved or he's not in front of me

    • this happened to me too! I hated it, it made me feel cheap being next to him in bed and he was so driven for just one reason. he did it like 3 times in one night and I was like WOAH buddy, and I dumped him. lol

    • yea I thought it was pretty rude, like he was trying to piss me off because I dodnt want to have sex with him, thankfully we moved past that and he doesn't do it anymore

  • who cares. guys are guys as long as he's not cheating on me or harming anyone, then I guess I accept it. as long as he's not harming anyone emotionally or taking advantage of anyone then I don't think it matters.

  • no it doesn't bother me... I like to watch lol and I watch p*rn... we watch p*rn together...

  • My boyfriend could be fapping to bukkake right now while I'm trying to enjoy my chips ahoy, and I wouldn't give a damn. He faps when he feels like it, it's fine with me.

  • The masturbating doesn't bother me...the p*rn does, but I guess the two kind of go hand in hand so...yeah lol