Are men more or less complicated than women?

[Anonymous]

I know it is typically said that men are less complicated than women, but is that really the case? It could be argued that a man's sexuality further complicates him from the perspective of a woman with little or no sex drive. You could say a woman's maternal instincts complicate her to a certain extent as well. So the question becomes are men's sexual desires more or less easily understood than women's maternal instincts?

[kholland65]

Women are more complicated, and women make men complicated. I actually had a friend recently say she thought men were all psychologically connected. I just told her (and my guy friends agreed), that we aren't connected, we're just simple and all think the same.

Women only think men are complicated because they believe in things that aren't there. Let's say a guys doesn't pick up the phone and answer her call one day, then the next day says he's sorry because he was busy at work. That is likely really all that happened. However, the girl will get her brain tied up in a know and start thinking of all the mind games he must be playing and all the bad things he must be up too, or how he must mean something by the fact that he didn't pick up the phone, etc. Aka, girls stress themselves out over nothing then claim we're complicated when we didn't really do anything complicated in the first place.

I basically like to think girls just have crazy imaginations that they project onto men. They assume we are like them.

[Asker]

You could pretty much reverse the genders there and everything would still be true.

[kholland65]

not really. I disagree with that. Even the women I know claim that men are simpler than women and they almost mention how they don't even understand themselves and why they do what they do. It's really no secret women are just more complex in a variety of ways. Physically, emotionally, sexually, intellectually.

[Asker]

Really? I haven't met too many intellectually stimulating women, if any. Physically? Biologically speaking they are not more complex. Emotionally? Probably not, as they tend to show their emotions openly. Sexually? Many try to play the game, but few understand the object of it.

[kholland65]

Seriously man you must be on something. Go walk down the street and ask anyone if they think women are simple, easy to understand, have simple sexual needs, have simple emotions, and they will laugh in your face. There is a reason meme like this link are all over the internet and non about men. I'm not going to argue this anymore because its like trying to convince you that the sky is blue.

[Anonymous]

i think we are both complicated.

men say it as it is more often. but then there are men who really know how to play games and toy with a woman's heart

and then women are complicated because they are very emotional, not as "to the point" as men

and emotions get in the way

i know my emotions make things complicated.

[Asker]

Yes, but I am assuming that both men an women have emotions. I do agree that women have more pronounced emotional responses to certain stimuli based on their maternal instincts.

[madiocre]

men can be complicated but they keep it all in chack because that's how they are trained. I find the only complications they ever have is sometimes they feel things the aren't supposed to so they hide it.

this is a generalisation though I kmow some guys who are really complicated,

[LexiNinja]

Depends on the situation

[normalice]

they are differently complicated.

[jacquesvol]

both are complicated

[Bunny_isnt_funny]

Less. Women don't even understand themselves.

[Anonymous]

Men want hot girls. Hot girls want men with money.

Doesn't sound complicated to me.

[Asker]

Might be better phrased as men want women with certain sexual indicators and women want men who can provide the security to raise children. Both evolved naturally since these qualifiers produced offspring with both the best genetic quality and best chance of survival.